posted May 04, 2017 07:06 PM            

I'm A, he's P. I'm unsure of his birth time, so his houses aren't guaranteed, but everything else is correct.

Thank you for looking!

posted May 05, 2017 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
You must be born within a month of each other, am I right? That seems to be an attraction factor. Your charts are very similar. It would help to know his birth time to see house overlays and if you make any connections to his angles. I do see Moon trine Moon, and that's always good

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posted May 08, 2017 08:24 AM            

You have tonnes in common, very close charts, lovely that your Moons are trine and Venus conjunct Venus (and Mercury). North Node conjunct his Sun eh, usually those with personal planets conjunct North Node are a bit lost in early adulthood. Think about it this way; his life mission is to BE himself, to shine and express who he really is. Chances are, if this is his mission there is work to do to achieve it. Hence, the sense of self can be very difficult for North Node-Sun people to establish. Since we're looking at Sun in Scorpio I would guess there is some self-loathing. He has a quick temper and craves attention (Mars in Leo, square Sun) it could be that he judges this in himself.

I say work on the friendship element and repairing your rift, slowly, gently and see how this goes. There may be romantic potential, I think you'll find that he pushes you away whenever you try to encourage him to grow (That Node-Sun again) so try not to push him. Focus on what you have in common; music, art etc. Venus conjunct Venus will share the same taste, you'll have humour in common too.

I've a friend that's similarly close in birth and I was in love with him once. In my case we simply weren't different enough to ever want to be together when it came to it. There is a deep, life long love though, he's practically family. You two may not need to be with very different people, the similarity may work for you, but if you and this guy are meant to be, I would think it will be after your Saturn returns...

posted May 12, 2017 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Of course you'll patch things up! Or at least I'd be very shocked if you didn't both want to.

You have tonnes in common, very close charts, lovely that your Moons are trine and Venus conjunct Venus (and Mercury). North Node conjunct his Sun eh, usually those with personal planets conjunct North Node are a bit lost in early adulthood. Think about it this way; his life mission is to BE himself, to shine and express who he really is. Chances are, if this is his mission there is work to do to achieve it. Hence, the sense of self can be very difficult for North Node-Sun people to establish. Since we're looking at Sun in Scorpio I would guess there is some self-loathing. He has a quick temper and craves attention (Mars in Leo, square Sun) it could be that he judges this in himself.

I say work on the friendship element and repairing your rift, slowly, gently and see how this goes. There may be romantic potential, I think you'll find that he pushes you away whenever you try to encourage him to grow (That Node-Sun again) so try not to push him. Focus on what you have in common; music, art etc. Venus conjunct Venus will share the same taste, you'll have humour in common too.

I've a friend that's similarly close in birth and I was in love with him once. In my case we simply weren't different enough to ever want to be together when it came to it. There is a deep, life long love though, he's practically family. You two may not need to be with very different people, the similarity may work for you, but if you and this guy are meant to be, I would think it will be after your Saturn returns...

I think there is an attraction both ways though, so anything is possible. :-)

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posted May 14, 2017 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Of course you'll patch things up! Or at least I'd be very shocked if you didn't both want to.

You have tonnes in common, very close charts, lovely that your Moons are trine and Venus conjunct Venus (and Mercury). North Node conjunct his Sun eh, usually those with personal planets conjunct North Node are a bit lost in early adulthood. Think about it this way; his life mission is to BE himself, to shine and express who he really is. Chances are, if this is his mission there is work to do to achieve it. Hence, the sense of self can be very difficult for North Node-Sun people to establish. Since we're looking at Sun in Scorpio I would guess there is some self-loathing. He has a quick temper and craves attention (Mars in Leo, square Sun) it could be that he judges this in himself.

I say work on the friendship element and repairing your rift, slowly, gently and see how this goes. There may be romantic potential, I think you'll find that he pushes you away whenever you try to encourage him to grow (That Node-Sun again) so try not to push him. Focus on what you have in common; music, art etc. Venus conjunct Venus will share the same taste, you'll have humour in common too.

I've a friend that's similarly close in birth and I was in love with him once. In my case we simply weren't different enough to ever want to be together when it came to it. There is a deep, life long love though, he's practically family. You two may not need to be with very different people, the similarity may work for you, but if you and this guy are meant to be, I would think it will be after your Saturn returns...

I think there is an attraction both ways though, so anything is possible. :-)

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Wow, thank you! This is very hopeful and inspiring. I've talked with a mutual friend and given some comments he's made about this guy (they've been best friends for about 8 years now), I suspect he definitely has some issues embracing his true self. Some comments were made about insecurities, and the fact that this guy is INCREDIBLY uncomfortable with them in other people, and how that is almost definitely because that seeing others insecurities makes him uncomfortable with his own. Thinking back on it (even before I read your comment!) I spotted a few signs pointing towards that. It's a bit hard to spot at first, though, because he comes off as incredibly confident, motivated, and self-assured.

He and I are very similar, in a lot of ways. When we first got involved, that mutual friend (and multiple other people who knew both of us) said that we made sense together. But I think I'm a lot more introspective and comfortable with myself than he might be. Is it egotistical to consider myself the more "evolved" version of him? In that I'm incredibly upfront about my feelings, and have embraced and am open and honest about a lot of my own insecurities? (Obviously, that isn't to talk down about him. He's an incredibly talented, creative, intelligent, and capable person in a lot of ways that are really inspiring to me! I'm just talking about the introspective level of it, I guess.) I suspect it's probably because of my 8H Sun.