posted May 14, 2017 10:50 AM              

I would see the Venus trine Pluto as way more prominent since its exact. Plus the Venus opposite Uranus is apart of a Kite which shows very good energy together. The relationship probably came out of the blue..

posted May 16, 2017 05:55 PM            

snow dragon's observation that the exactitude of the Venus/pluto trine is very significant also agrees with my feelings. here the node is also tightly aspected to venus/pluto which strengthen the affect.

but hard aspects to Saturn/pluto usually over ride the best trines.

the kite formation is a bit out of orb.

the problem Solar_Leo_Queen refers to can be shown by looking at the current transits of the node.

currently the node is in the middle of transiting the mars/mercury square to pluto.

mars square to pluto is an extremely selfish aspect and usually dooms a relationship because pluto does not compromise and is concerned with only it's need. there is no "we".
mars square to pluto is extremely sexual but in a carnal way.

here the emotional intensity of the venus/Uranus opposition, at first, obscured the selfish sexual orientation that he has.

the Uranus/venus opposition adds a electric astral/mental connection so one would expect greater emotional and mental intimacy as the relationships develops.

but in this chart such intimacy does not appear because mercury square to pluto totally inhibits any real openness. after a while the total focus on the physical sexual aspect of the relationship becomes apparent as no emotional intimacy follows. at this point sexual desire of the partner simply atrophies, and the relationship becomes nonsexual.

this is what I think has happened in this relationship.
furthermore the mars and mercury midpoints to pluto are opposed to the moon/Saturn conjunction.

it is true that the Saturn/moon conjunction is one of the strongest aspect for loyalty and devotion, but here the mars/pluto/mercury midpoints block the devotion of the moon/Saturn conjunction.

as I said this is exactly what the nodal transit shows.

the node is at 28leo46 today (5/16/17) as it passed over mercury on may11 and will pass over mars on june7. the node will pass over the mars/mercury midpoint on may 25 .

the node transited the midpoint of the mars/pluto square at 29leo17 on may 12.

posted May 19, 2017 06:49 AM            

That's kind of a relief knowing Saturn will help us. Uranus definitely adds a little more spice to our relationship. Most couples can't stand being away from each other for long. He's been away for a whole week before and I've enjoyed every single day of it to myself. I did a lot of the things I'd normally be too distracted to do when I'm with him. I'm quite excited for the one month he'll be spending away from me, tbh.

I was just wondering if Uranus will screw us over or not. So far, it hasn't. I was even thinking of an LDR because I wanna go somewhere next year after school. But I never really believe those work out at all, that's why I'm a bit cautious...

@todd

Thank you for your input, todd. You are right about the intimacy part. He and I tell each other that we love each other everyday. We enjoy each other's company and everything, it's just that when it all comes down to the subject of commitment, I feel we're both a little too scared to talk about it.

You know how couples usually talk about their future together like they're actually gonna end up together? We don't do that. If it ever comes up, we always say something like "if we're still together by then".

We're a little less intimate than when we first started. The sex part isn't as great as it was before. I've found him to be a bit lazy in that department, but I don't complain because sometimes I don't feel like doing it either. I usually initiate more these days. Most of the time, I just feel better just being there with him, talking about random things and cuddling.

posted October 04, 2018 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
SLQ, are you still with this guy?

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posted October 04, 2018 03:20 AM            

It has been over a year now since Todd's reply. Things are much different now. The intimacy is definitely there now. We've been talking about getting married someday, especially him. He's more open about his feelings, just wrote me a poem a few days ago. It was very sweet. In a way, his openness also made me open up to him more. I feel more and more at home with him everyday.

posted October 04, 2018 05:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
UPDATE:

It has been over a year now since Todd's reply. Things are much different now. The intimacy is definitely there now. We've been talking about getting married someday, especially him. He's more open about his feelings, just wrote me a poem a few days ago. It was very sweet. In a way, his openness also made me open up to him more. I feel more and more at home with him everyday.

The Mercury/Mars square Pluto, I don't think we feel too much. Maybe when we fight, which is rare. We break objects when we fight (especially me), but never to the point of physical violence. When we do fight, it's usually about things that really matter, like a call to change. Usually it's an adjustment point for both of us, something to improve. We've grown together as a couple much more than we did on our own.

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Nice to read an update! People rarely returns with updates. Great to know you are doing well and try to get through the challanges. I don't believe squares etc means its doomed. It just shows the obstacles/weaknesses that has to be strenghtened.

posted October 04, 2018 05:59 AM            

Thanks for the update

posted October 04, 2018 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Nice to read an update! People rarely returns with updates. Great to know you are doing well and try to get through the challanges. I believe squares etc means its doomed. It just shows the obstacles/weaknesses that has to be strenghtened.

If two people are able to streghten the weaknesses squares and opposiotions etc points to, is up to them. Composite does not show how and if it will work out, it just shows where n what we may need to work at/with, I believe anyway. Its free will people

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Yes I believe it's not doomed either. People worry too much about the negatives (unless the negatives outweigh the positives).

posted October 04, 2018 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Awesome Solar_Leo_Queen!

Thanks for the update

If you fancy posting natals and Davisons, please feel free to do so.

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Yes of course! Here's our charts..

Mine:

I have a grand air kite with my ascendant, but I think his Venus completing that grand kite in my chart activates it.

His:

posted October 04, 2018 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
UPDATE:

It has been over a year now since Todd's reply. Things are much different now. The intimacy is definitely there now. We've been talking about getting married someday, especially him. He's more open about his feelings, just wrote me a poem a few days ago. It was very sweet. In a way, his openness also made me open up to him more. I feel more and more at home with him everyday.

The Mercury/Mars square Pluto, I don't think we feel too much. Maybe when we fight, which is rare. We break objects when we fight (especially me), but never to the point of physical violence. When we do fight, it's usually about things that really matter, like a call to change. Usually it's an adjustment point for both of us, something to improve. We've grown together as a couple much more than we did on our own.

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hi again
you current state of love is shown in the midpoint composite. composite Uranus is at 4aqu33 which was transited by the south node on September 23th 2018. so with venus at 1leo14 opposed to Uranus. oct 25th the north node will transit your venus so the period defined by these dates should be intensely affectionate.
this gay period actually "began" around first week of june when the north node was conjunct with the composite sun.

this is quite exciting as with Jupiter at 29cap00 on nov 18th,, opposed to the composite venus the energies are primed for sudden marriage when the nodal axis transits the Venus/jupiter opposition.

Neptune at 27cap 11 is transited by the south node on dec 9th to dec 19th.this suggest a deep reorganization or a period of cleansing/dissolution.

todd

posted October 06, 2018 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi again
you current state of love is shown in the midpoint composite. composite Uranus is at 4aqu33 which was transited by the south node on September 23th 2018. so with venus at 1leo14 opposed to Uranus. oct 25th the north node will transit your venus so the period defined by these dates should be intensely affectionate.
this gay period actually "began" around first week of june when the north node was conjunct with the composite sun.

this is quite exciting as with Jupiter at 29cap00 on nov 18th,, opposed to the composite venus the energies are primed for sudden marriage when the nodal axis transits the Venus/jupiter opposition.

Neptune at 27cap 11 is transited by the south node on dec 9th to dec 19th.this suggest a deep reorganization or a period of cleansing/dissolution.

todd

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Thanks todd, for your help.

So after the nodes transit, does that mean it's not a good idea to pursue this further? I'm just wondering because I am very iffy about sudden marriages. He says he's been thinking of proposing after he graduates from college, but I feel like that's barely enough time to get to know someone enough for marriage. I do see him as someone who will be good for me as a husband and I love him very much. But I am not sure if it's a good time to decide.

posted October 06, 2018 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Thanks todd, for your help.

So after the nodes transit, does that mean it's not a good idea to pursue this further? I'm just wondering because I am very iffy about sudden marriages. He says he's been thinking of proposing after he graduates from college, but I feel like that's barely enough time to get to know someone enough for marriage. I do see him as someone who will be good for me as a husband and I love him very much. But I am not sure if it's a good time to decide.

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posted October 08, 2018 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
when the node activates Neptune, many expectations can pass away . I would agree that you should take more time to decide if he is right for marriage.
todd

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I think the nodes already passed Neptune. It's in the early degrees of Leo right now and our compo Neptune is at the late degrees of Capricorn. Maybe it will retrograde again, idk. But I will for sure take my time deciding because one of my biggest fears in life is getting married for the wrong reasons.