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Topic: Couples who have THIS aspect tell me more!!
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EmGem
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posted May 21, 2017 02:31 AM
  
Composite sun square Uranus! I want to know if you've ever been in a long term rel with someone with this aspect in your composite. What was it like? I realise it's probably non traditional and off beat. Obviously everything else needs to be considered. If there are binding aspects like personals with Pluto and Saturn in the composite and/or sun/moon/asc conjunctions in synastry can it still work? Especially considering they are both uranian natally. (Incidentally Plutonian too) 😬 Do tell. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 21, 2017 08:50 AM
I remember I have seen it and its not a rarity in the long term couples. I remember Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelus have that and some more Uranus in their Composite, they are very solid for more than a decade. Also, check the Composite of Melissa and Joe Gorga, from the Real Housewives of New Jersey, I remember they had a crazy Uranus in their Composite Also, Bill and Hillary Clinton have the square in their Composite IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 21, 2017 02:24 PM
Well not the square but..We do have composite Uranus trine Sun, Moon, Mercury, and square Mars. Our relationship is unstable in the sense one of us is always rocking the boat. We argue and push each other's buttons but are just as quick to get over it. Our commitment to each other hasn't swayed in spite of.. No one would know this from the outside looking in though. We have Composite Saturn in the 1st conjunct our C ASC. Jupiter and Mars trine it as well. Saturn quincunxes Moon. In synastry, my Uranus almost makes an exact trine to his Venus. His Uranus makes almost an exact square to my Moon. We both have these Uranus aspects Natally. Our relationship is long-distance but we see each other often and it doesn't feel any different than my previous relationships in terms of how often we get to spend time together. I actually see him MORE. This is actually the closest I've been to someone. This is the most committed too. We're planning on moving in together. We'll see what happens. Most don't recommend it with that mars-Uranus square in composite but I've seen worse composites play out fine in real life so ehhh. He's like my best friend. I tell him everything and he's my shoulder to cry on literally. I'm a Scorpio and he's a Cancer so I just think Uranus shows how touchy-geeky and hyper sensitive we are towards each other if anything. Astrology is too fatalistic sometimes and it rarely ever plays out that way.
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EmGem
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posted May 22, 2017 03:20 AM
thank you ladies!Bill and Hillary have the semi square. I've been checking other celeb couples. Patrick Swayze and Lisa Niemi had sun conjunct uranus, moon square uranus and venus square saturn too! I wonder if the sun/uranus conjunction has a similar shaky energy as the square ? Ronald and Nancy Reagan had the conjunction too. I'm looking for others. I found a thread somewhere on here where I saw that other long term couples had the square but they had other aspects to balance that out. Not saying they were steady calm waters types of relationships though. Yanmorg, I think the trines are easier to handle ( i had them with my 10 year rel), I would say the hard uranus/sun aspects are ones to look out for. Glad its the closest you've been to someone though! IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted May 25, 2017 09:03 AM
I have this with someone and I have had it in the composite chart of another guy I dated. One guy had just separated from his girl and seemed to be a little illusive at first so I just never thought he was that serious for anything so I didn't take him seriously. We did have a really unique friendship and then he moved away, I absolutely adored him though. I think had he wanted something more serious and had been around more, kept his plans etc. I would have been more able to handle things differently. The other guy, Idk I told him when I met him I had been hurt etc. He just seemed to be a player and too manipulative, wanted to play a bunch of mind games that I have no time for, in all honesty really illogical and unnecessary. I am thinking since I wasn't willing to deal with it, he lost interest and maybe just enjoyed having a toxic lifestyle, toxic people or something. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 06, 2017 03:27 AM
Yay!!!! I found a couple (one is my close friend) who have been together for years who have sun square Uranus in the composite! And they're about to get married.
They had a long distance rel to start with but now they're settled and living together. Have been for a few years. Their rel is exciting and unpredictable yet they still have stable Saturn in synastry and moon conjunct Pluto in the composite. They do like to travel. They also have moon/venus conjunct Uranus in synastry. She is uranian, not sure about him as I haven't had a close look at his chart.Just goes to show you cannot determine a rel off one single aspect as make or break! There is hope for sun/Uranus after all  Edit: colorful butterfly, I missed your response but thank you! IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted June 06, 2017 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Yay!!!! I found a couple (one is my close friend) who have been together for years who have sun square Uranus in the composite! And they're about to get married.
They had a long distance rel to start with but now they're settled and living together. Have been for a few years. Their rel is exciting and unpredictable yet they still have stable Saturn in synastry and moon conjunct Pluto in the composite. They do like to travel. They also have moon/venus conjunct Uranus in synastry. She is uranian, not sure about him as I haven't had a close look at his chart.Just goes to show you cannot determine a rel off one single aspect as make or break! There is hope for sun/Uranus after all Edit: colorful butterfly, I missed your response but thank you!
People are super fatalistic about Uranus in synastry or composite. The thing is that Uranus (a lot of it actually) can't do routine and the whole point of a day to day relationship is indeed routine. For instance when kids enter the picture and shuffling them off to places and the like. This is why Uranus gets such a bad rap; a couple like Bill Clinton, his wife and Kelly Ripa, and her husband are non traditional (celebrities themselves are non traditional) and tend to be away from each other a long time. Most relationships with normal people are not like celebrity relationships and the problem with Uranus is when you do the traditional stuff (marriage day to day life) eventually it will get stale and boring. I know a couple who are getting married in a few months and they have composite Sun Opp Uranus, Moon Conjunct Uranus, and a loose Venus Conjunct Uranus aspect. Their relationship was long distance for a time and have been together years. They are buying a house together right now. I actually think this might be the downfall of them. Uranian couples and/or people don't do or like tradition and there is nothing quite as traditional as buying a house, living together and nesting. They fashion themselves non traditional but really this is traditional. Anyway a couple can make it, but to be honest Uranus doesn't help things esp when the divorce rate is already 50%. That isn't to say a Uranian couple can't make it at all, but I think in the case of Uranian individuals and/or relationships it's the exception and not the rule, and when it starts to be traditional you get bored and want excitement. That's at least how I deal with my own Uranus and what I've observed in other with strong Uranus or Aquarius placements. Edit to add my own personal spin I think living together when you're in a Uranian relationship (esp relationship) and/or person is almost the kiss of death...unless of course you move around and or travel or are away from each other for periods of time. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 06, 2017 08:05 PM
Well for my friend, it seems to be working out just fine for now. She does get bored easily but if that happens she'll do something to liven things up again and create that excitement. Time will tell how their marriage goes but they've been together for something like 5 years without breaking up. This gives me hope.I do get bored with routine. I have Uranus conj my ascendant. But if you give one another lots of freedom and dont make any demands on rel like restricting each other's space then I believe it can work out just fine. As long as both people are used to the Uranian vibe in their natals. I'm not saying it's easy.. Yes Uranus can be super destructive and unpredictable. But the thought of the everyday being the same boring routine would start to leave me fidgety. I like stability don't get me wrong, but I also need to shake things up every so often. Like having a partner who travels for work, having the chance to miss them and that exciting feeling before seeing them again. It's about finding that balance. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted June 08, 2017 07:25 AM
EmGem I actually just remembered that I do know of a few couples with strong Uranus in the composite. And they are married with children and live together. But they are open and/or polyamorous. The first one is a Libra Sun/Cancer Moon man married with children to a Cancer. He and his wife...who I ended up meeting had relationships of their own equally. They deemed each other as the primary due to the fact they had children together. I was his second primary, as his 2nd most important relationship (leave it to a Libra to love relationships lol...I fitted right in as 7th house Moon). He eventually wanted me to connect with his wife (she liked me most likely because I'm a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars), and I wasn't interested in that with her so we went our separate ways. Looking back I can see why he had the primary relationship (Cancer Moon needs security). Couple that with some strong Uranus in both the synastry and composite and you've got people in a relationship who probably need this level of freedom. This relationship had Composite Uranus Conjunct Sun and Moon Conjunct Uranus. Last I heard is they are still together and polyamorous, with a third woman who co parents with them. The 2nd couple I know was (surprise surprise lol) a Libra Sun Virgo Moon man married with children to a Pisces woman. This was his 2nd marriage. His first was to an Aquarius woman he claimed held him too tight (he had Libra Mars and Venus Conjunct Uranus and Pluto). He and I dated while he was married, and his Pisces partner knew about his other women (including I) but didn't want the details. He was very into bdsm relationships and liked to have submissive women for sexual release. I was someone he cared about (he used to say to me he never wanted to know my relationship status because it would hurt him to know I was not his), we tangled off and on for years until he got her pregnant and I decided I was done. Last I heard they are still together and he is still doing things the way he was. In their Composite they have Sun Opp Uranus and Mars Conjunct Uranus. I think I remember Pluto being a part of it as well, which makes sense because of the wanting to dominate someone. Another couple that is not together, but is (or was) highly Uranian is Angelina and Brad. They cohabited for 10 years prior to getting married, get married and lasted 3 years. I think there was a post on a website about how they shouldn't have gotten married. And finally myself. I have the Square (it's 8.5 degrees but still counts) with a friend of mine who I admit I have some intense feelings for. I have no idea when I'll ever see him lol...and to be honest whenever I'm around him there is this huge surge of electricity. We're both Uranian (I have Venus in the 11th, with IC Square Uranus, and a Yod between Mars Inconjunct Uranus and Jupiter that Conjuncts my Asc and Sun in the 1st...his Venus is Square his Mars Uranus Conjunction). I will say I know I will see him and that he cares (Composite Sun Sextile Saturn and Pluto, Trine Moon that is Opp Saturn and Pluto). But I just don't know when lol. And to be honest whenever we've tried to pin each other down to when we'll see each other it always ends up being I'll see you whenever lol. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 12, 2017 09:15 PM
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EmGem
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posted June 14, 2017 05:55 AM
So sorry Grly, I got side tracked!Wow them Libra suns hey. Well this one is too lol. With a heck of a lot of Scorpio tho. I could never do the open relationship thing. I'd get too jealous. I guess it's the exception to go this way. Had no idea Brangelina had strong Uranus! Wow. Well they lasted a while but yes should never have gotten married hmmmmmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have either, we split 2.5 years after. Who knows what would have happened if we didn't. Thanks for sharing your case studies  IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted June 14, 2017 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
So sorry Grly, I got side tracked!Wow them Libra suns hey. Well this one is too lol. With a heck of a lot of Scorpio tho. I could never do the open relationship thing. I'd get too jealous. I guess it's the exception to go this way. Had no idea Brangelina had strong Uranus! Wow. Well they lasted a while but yes should never have gotten married hmmmmmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have either, we split 2.5 years after. Who knows what would have happened if we didn't. Thanks for sharing your case studies
Lol what other placements does your Libra happen to have? You know the guy I've been posting about is a Libra Sun/Cancer Moon with a ton of Scorpio as well...sigh I can't get away from them. I think the thing to remember about Uranus strong synastry or composite is that you can't be a regular couple...or if you are something about you (by being together) is non traditional. I am Black and Latino so the part of Uranus is usually in the form of my dating out of race...and that's usually it. By my just being with a white person or whatever our relationship is non traditional. I don't actually know how this would manifest if the couples are perhaps the same race or ethnicity (I would assume you might get the instability more) but who knows lol. That might be where you end up having to do the outside poly and or dom relationships. And the funny thing about all the case studies I presented (except for mine) were with two people of the same race. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted June 14, 2017 06:38 PM
What about trines?We talk so much about the hard aspects in composite, what about the positive ones and how would they potentially manifest differently? Sun trine Uranus vs Sun square Uranus Moon, Mercury, Venus, etc. Change is good in this case? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 15, 2017 03:19 AM
@ Grly, he has libra sun conj mercury and Pluto.
Scorpio venus/mars/moon/uranus all conj my asc  and I'm pretty sure he is a gem asc conjunct my sun/mercury!
So loads of attraction.
Where are your guys placements?Ohhhhhh that's interesting about how the square can manifest with different ethnicity. Well here's the thing, we are born and bred in the same city but he's about to jet off to try his luck as an actor living in L.A. So THATS maybe where our square will manifest. As a long distance thing ? Until I decide to move there too haha. Have always wanted to! @Yanmorg, thevtrine is super easy and breezy. I think I had that with my ex husband. We have each other loads of room to be free and then come back to one another. Remaining loyal of course.
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posted March 30, 2022 06:55 AM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
People are super fatalistic about Uranus in synastry or composite. The thing is that Uranus (a lot of it actually) can't do routine and the whole point of a day to day relationship is indeed routine. For instance when kids enter the picture and shuffling them off to places and the like. This is why Uranus gets such a bad rap; a couple like Bill Clinton, his wife and Kelly Ripa, and her husband are non traditional (celebrities themselves are non traditional) and tend to be away from each other a long time. Most relationships with normal people are not like celebrity relationships and the problem with Uranus is when you do the traditional stuff (marriage day to day life) eventually it will get stale and boring. I know a couple who are getting married in a few months and they have composite Sun Opp Uranus, Moon Conjunct Uranus, and a loose Venus Conjunct Uranus aspect. Their relationship was long distance for a time and have been together years. They are buying a house together right now. I actually think this might be the downfall of them. Uranian couples and/or people don't do or like tradition and there is nothing quite as traditional as buying a house, living together and nesting. They fashion themselves non traditional but really this is traditional. Anyway a couple can make it, but to be honest Uranus doesn't help things esp when the divorce rate is already 50%. That isn't to say a Uranian couple can't make it at all, but I think in the case of Uranian individuals and/or relationships it's the exception and not the rule, and when it starts to be traditional you get bored and want excitement. That's at least how I deal with my own Uranus and what I've observed in other with strong Uranus or Aquarius placements. Edit to add my own personal spin I think living together when you're in a Uranian relationship (esp relationship) and/or person is almost the kiss of death...unless of course you move around and or travel or are away from each other for periods of time.
this is probably the best uranus synastry description i've even seen and the most truthful one.
if there is uranus present in synastry/composite, something will be unconventional. and that's it. no need to make a big deal of it. uranus dominant people usually have unconventional relationships as well. they want freedom, excitment and they play by their own rules. IP: Logged |
Cancermoon83
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posted April 01, 2022 04:04 AM
I've had the Sun-Uranus conjunction twice in the composite.One was a long distance relationship that lasted for 1 year.The other is an on-off relationship that is going on for the last 20 years,we dated in 2002 for 2 months,then in 2007 for another 2 months and the last time n 2013 for 2 more months.Whenever things started getting serious something happened and we broke up.
I couldn't see myself in the long-term with these people,even though there were strong feelings.IP: Logged |
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posted April 10, 2022 03:05 PM
I just wanted to add that Jhene Aiko and Big Sean have this in their composite! But, saturn is conjunct that uranus and square the composite sun too.
They have been known to be pretty on and off though! IP: Logged |
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