posted June 20, 2017 09:37 PM            

Surely there is a ton of experience among members on this forum with the Sun-Pluto conjunction in female-male relationships.

I will look forward to hearing about experiences with this contact, whether they be your own experiences of those of close friends.

Oh - I am the guy, Pluto in Leo being one angle of my Grand Trine, the other angles housing Venus and Mars.

posted June 23, 2017 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Wow, you must be one sexy guy...I knew another guy with that Grand Trine and he was hot! Perhaps you could share your experience with this aspect first

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Thank you, Beautiful, for a good laugh.

If women of the small town where I live ever conducted a poll on sexy and hot guys, I rather doubt I'd make Honorable Mention.

By the way, aren't "sexy" and "hot" like beauty - all in the eyes of the beholder?

Put another way - the guy you believe is sexy and hot might strike another woman as month-old French fries left in the bottom drawer of the refrigerator.

Consider this topic from one male's point of view. As you might well know, or guess, guys talk a lot among themselves about sexy and hot women. Thinking about all the discussions I've heard on the topic, and seeing what turns different men's heads, I am thoroughly convinced that no matter what a woman looks like or talks like or behaves like or dresses like, there is probably a man out there who will do back flips for that woman - yes, even crawl across the interstate at rush hour for a chance at connecting or scoring or adoring.

Regarding my experiences with the grand trine, having lived inside of it all my life, I have no other viewpoint or reference, so anything I have to say would be strictly insider and not very objective. One thing I can say with authority, however, is that for me it has never served as a "chic magnet," if you can pardon the cliché.

posted June 23, 2017 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
I have experienced a Sun - Pluto conjunction, me being the sun. This is in Scorpio.

I don't recall ever being so sexually attracted to anyone. We are both attracted to each other. I don't know if it is the Sun/Pluto. We also have Mars square Mars and the sex was very awkward, which we both admitted to. But we still both wanted it, despite the awkwardness. Unfortunately he was always an ass to me, which turned me off obviously. Even just for sex.

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Interesting - thanks for responding. I'd have thought that contact in Scorpio might have developed into something better than what you describe.

If you don't mind me prying, what are the Mars/Venus signs and what was the age difference? What was his Sun?

posted June 24, 2017 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Interesting - thanks for responding. I'd have thought that contact in Scorpio might have developed into something better than what you describe.

If you don't mind me prying, what are the Mars/Venus signs and what was the age difference? What was his Sun?

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posted June 25, 2017 07:33 AM            

In my experience I currently have my Pluto conjunct his sun/Pluto/Mercury conjunction. Yes sexual attraction is off the charts but there's other things attributing to that.

posted June 25, 2017 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
What if it's sun/Pluto conjunct Pluto?? Will it still be as strongly felt if the sun/pluto is aready used to this?

In my experience I currently have my Pluto conjunct his sun/Pluto/Mercury conjunction. Yes sexual attraction is off the charts but there's other things attributing to that.

Sorry I know you're seeking info about the woman's sun and man's Pluto.

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Gem,
I can't be certain because I don't have a birthchart for the subject of my inquiry. However, I suspect she might have her Sun conjunct her Pluto, as in your situation. I don't know how seriously a reversal of genders in going to affect the general chemistry.

posted June 26, 2017 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Thank you, Beautiful, for a good laugh.

If women of the small town where I live ever conducted a poll on sexy and hot guys, I rather doubt I'd make Honorable Mention.

By the way, aren't "sexy" and "hot" like beauty - all in the eyes of the beholder?

Put another way - the guy you believe is sexy and hot might strike another woman as month-old French fries left in the bottom drawer of the refrigerator.

Consider this topic from one male's point of view. As you might well know, or guess, guys talk a lot among themselves about sexy and hot women. Thinking about all the discussions I've heard on the topic, and seeing what turns different men's heads, I am thoroughly convinced that no matter what a woman looks like or talks like or behaves like or dresses like, there is probably a man out there who will do back flips for that woman - yes, even crawl across the interstate at rush hour for a chance at connecting or scoring or adoring.

Regarding my experiences with the grand trine, having lived inside of it all my life, I have no other viewpoint or reference, so anything I have to say would be strictly insider and not very objective. One thing I can say with authority, however, is that for me it has never served as a "chic magnet," if you can pardon the cliché.

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Mmm...not quite. This guy was a model and was rather obsessed with sex. But of course, this doesn't mean everyone with that Grand Trine would be like that! I bet you do have a lot of charisma, though.

posted June 27, 2017 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:

I meant what is your experience with a woman's Sun on your Pluto ^^. I've experienced it the other way with a man's Sun on my Pluto and like others have described, the sexual attraction is intense!

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posted July 03, 2017 04:10 PM            

Sun conjunct Pluto
Mars in Sagittarius (1st degree) conjunct Pluto

I have Sun conjunct Pluto with just about everyone in my age group, but only the Sun-Pluto conjunctions with the tight degrees had the strongest and most memorable empact.

I can't be too objective with this aspect in synastry considering I already have it in natal AND I'm already very Plutonian to begin with. What I can say is, my conjunction is at 5 degrees which is a bit wide.. the relationship in in now, my Sun conjuncts his Pluto at 3 degrees. His chart ruler is Pluto and it opposes his 7th house ruler so Pluto is prominent on his end as well. The result is intense. We also have a Sun-ASC conjunction in Scorpio too so ehhhh.. and many other Pluto/ Scorpio / Taurus connections.

But anyway, there are very few secrets between us. It's gotten to point where we know each other's every move. It's annoying for both of us but both of us have an equal need to know a person inside and out. We understand each other, but annoy each other for the same reasons. The jealousy and passion is so consuming and raw. I wouldn't want my relationship any other way despite the dramatic highs and lows sometimes. I know he's just as into me as I'm into him. You can feel the Pluto's interest in and focus on you.

One thing I have yet to master is the control aspect of this dynamic in synastry. Since I have it in natal and my 7th house ruler is Scorpio, I believe I project my power onto my partner. I give my power away then resent them for it later unconsciously. Just something to think about.

posted July 04, 2017 10:14 AM            

Oy yoi yoi! Pluto, Scorpio and Saturn all in one meal! What you describe sounds like a foreign film – from Spain or France or ? Maybe a Marlon Brando number? Those pages from your diary also cause me to think about an Italian acquaintance whose life novel left me exhausted when he first re-enacted it over wine and spaghetti fifteen years ago.

Without going to the ephemeris, I don't know how old you are. I'm curious about that because if I were ever to become involved with a woman of your astrological makeup (unlikely), it would be a memorable trip, to put it mildly. It's questionable if my Sun/Moon combo would survive.

You mention “control.” This is foreign to me as well. Possibly we air signs never experience it first-hand because we tend to evaporate from intense situations. Possibly all those dark stories one reads about Pluto and Scorpio are situations that air unconsciously drifts away from.