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Topic: Dating someone born a week apart?
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nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 11:43 AM
  
I've read how it can either be a hit or miss when it comes to dating someone born a few days apart due to the similarities/differences in their chart and yours. I have been reconnecting with someone from my past who's birthday is six days before mine (same year). Would it be best to look at a synastry chart or composite? IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
Knowflake Posts: 46
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 01:34 PM
You could show us if you like.
On the one hand, it's best not to let astrology decide for you if you want to get with someone. That's up to you. Knowing the possible effects you have on each other is good, however.
On the other hand, not enough adequate differences can make you bored, or hinder growth and expansion. But again, this is subjective and not a once size fits all. Perhaps you're someone who prefers complete ease, and can do well with it. But we as a species need opposites and frictions to ignite worthwhile passion in us, for life ( or romantically), to change, to grow, to do. It really depends on a lot of factors. It'd be helpful to see the 2 charts. Post them both here. If there really isn't much different, then your composite might just have the same signs in some areas so we'd need to see what aspects changed. IP: Logged |
nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 02:22 PM
 That is the synastry chart and below is the composite chart. 
This person and I had a romance before but now that we are reconnecting, what are some aspects we should put effort in, etc. Is marriage/children indicated? Just curious.
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nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 02:53 PM
Sorry are the images showing up? I'm quite new to this and not exactly sure what the proper way for uploading images is on this website. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
Knowflake Posts: 46
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 06:04 PM
quote:
Originally posted by nocturnalblossom:
Sorry are the images showing up? I'm quite new to this and not exactly sure what the proper way for uploading images is on this website.
The images are broken, it seems. Maybe try uploading to an image server and linking them? (imgur, maybe) IP: Logged |
nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 07:31 PM
 I am the inner circle & he is the outer circle.  The second is our composite chart. IP: Logged |
nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 20, 2017 07:33 PM
The first link is our synastry chart (I'm inner circle) and the second is our composite chart.
http://imgur.com/JKXQb5Y http://imgur.com/deULbwx IP: Logged |
Nightflower
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: May 2011
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posted July 25, 2017 01:18 AM
I am born 8 days before my spouse, 3 time zones apart. I can tell you that there are times where I feel like certain things are magnified. Many conjunctions work out pretty well I think, but the slight differences in placement of planets like sun, moon, Venus, and Mercury in relation to outer planets are yucky. We both have sun opposite mars natally and it is the same in our composite. My Mercury also opposes his Mars. We argue every few days. Saturn glues us, but His Saturn is square my moon and Venus. It has been a painful 17 year marriage. After these many years, I am set off easily by any perceived slight to my moon in Taurus (home/security/comfort), beliefs, or opinions.As for your synastry chart, the first thing that stands out to me is you both have Mars opposing Saturn, natally and then also in composite. From what I've been reading, this is a really bad combo. I am a newbie to astrology, but I think this probably should send up a red flag. Caution, do not enter. Turn back now. I think the frustration/fighting could be magnified, but also, the energy will probably feel familiar because it's something that exists in your own charts. The houses these are placed in will also affect what each of you experiences. That's all I can really say since I am not an expert and so I should leave the advice giving to those who really know their astrology. Good luck and best wishes! IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 639
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Registered: Nov 2016
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posted July 25, 2017 04:24 PM
I imagine there may be
tremendous points of common
ground. As in twins. Were you possibly born
in different zones of the planet? In my opinion couples need some
rougher aspects to work well.
(Passion/desire/friction)
Too much flow, not enough ebb
can cause boredom. Not saying this
Union WON'T work. It may just
take creativity to bring more
randomness to you as a duo.
Ignite a storm at times. 
all the best to you both!
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nocturnalblossom
Newflake Posts: 15
From: USA
Registered: May 2017
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posted July 25, 2017 04:41 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I imagine there may be
tremendous points of common
ground. As in twins. Were you possibly born
in different zones of the planet? In my opinion couples need some
rougher aspects to work well.
(Passion/desire/friction)
Too much flow, not enough ebb
can cause boredom. Not saying this
Union WON'T work. It may just
take creativity to bring more
randomness to you as a duo.
Ignite a storm at times.
all the best to you both!
Well I was born in UTC-05:00 time zone and he was born in the UTC-4:00 time zone, so there's a bit of a difference there haha. He came to my time zone when he was about 8 or 9 and we met when we were both 14 and dated for a few years. We're both 20 now and recently reconnected and we're becoming closer. What would you suggest we do differently this time should we embark on another romantic relationship? IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
Knowflake Posts: 639
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posted July 26, 2017 03:35 PM
NocturnalBlossom, I wouldn't have
any ideas as it depends on you both.
Start with your differences. His likes/
Yours. Which aren't alike? Perhaps
try finding ones that are opposing and
randomly share your unlike worlds together.
I doubt there are a lot of non similar
areas. You not only the same Gen,
your charts parallel so much you might
even finish each other's sentences! 
but leave a couple of your own personal
likes so you each get a dose of autonomy
too. I'm thinking back to an old
term 'the rubberband' that John Gray
describes in Men from Mars, Women
are from Venus. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 83467
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted August 05, 2017 09:20 AM
Bump!IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 173
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 05, 2017 10:40 PM
For what its worth, I've been in love twice in my life. And ironically, they were both 6 days from my birth-date. One was 6 days after, the other was days before. Different years though. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted August 10, 2017 05:40 PM
What are the odds!?!IP: Logged |
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