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Gracha
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posted August 03, 2017 05:59 PM
  
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Gracha
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: NY USA
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posted August 03, 2017 06:28 PM
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Lalafortunaea
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posted August 03, 2017 07:10 PM
Regardless of what's in your chart, and I'm sorry if this is a letdown, but I think confessing such things, after merely one week is way too fast, and reeks of hormones. You both should wait and take more time getting to know each other. If it's serious and has some real substance, it won't die down. If it does, it means it was just a lust filled exciting whim. But if you yourself are interested, and don't mind rushing in (you've stated, wisely, that you do mind) then go ahead. Otherwise, make it clear to him you would rather you build a steady foundation of friendship before taking the plunge, and see how it all works out. And just a side note, while Pisces is deep, sweet and lovely - they can tend toward self-made illusions. He could have lots of grandiose romantic flights of fancy fuelling his intentions. Best way to find out if they're real or just self deception is time. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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From: NY USA
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posted August 03, 2017 07:21 PM
Thank you Lalafortunaea, lol its not a "let down" its your opinion and I agree mostly, but lust yikes. I've told him that its too soon for a relationship and he says, "if it's meant to be it will be"and that he won't hurry me but will let me lead. I also am serious about being married which is why I'm keeping my options open until the right man comes along. But I am interested in the astrology side of the charts. Also, I'm not on here to get lectured, but thank you for the advice. Although its nice to dream a little but I know better and will use my mind over heart. Thank you again.IP: Logged |
todd
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posted August 03, 2017 09:45 PM
hi grachaI am very skeptical of internet hookups when there are hard Neptune aspects. here with sun squar eto Neptune, I have found that something is being misrepresented. I have heard of good relationships from th einternet but astrologicaly, with Neptune afflictions,usually things don't pan out. I agree with lalafortunaea, that this is going too fast. with the sun/mercury midpoint conjunct to venus ,I can see the attractive and joyous communications you have with him. juno on the descendant does show interest in a long term relationship.
this is also shown by Jupiter trine the sun, though this can also just be very good friends. mars trine to Venus also shows a affection between you.
eros is square the vertex showing an immediate attraction also the eros/psyche midpoint is square to the Saturn/pluto conjunction. with Neptune sextile to Saturn/pluto there can be a deep supportive sensitivity but square to eros/psyche the image of S/M could comes up. moon square to Uranus show's the immediate excitement but also bodes a affair rather that long term. most suspicious is the juno/Jupiter midpoint being conjunct to Neptune.....this doesn't look good to me as it implies that there is something amiss about this urgent need for exclusivity. the sun/Neptune midpoint is also conjunct the vertex,which adds to the feeling that all the cards are not on the table. but you have nothing to lose by enjoying you conversations. todd IP: Logged |
Gracha
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From: NY USA
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posted August 03, 2017 09:54 PM
Thank you Todd!!!You've described my feelings and suspicions about him correctly, but in astro terms lol
Right about internet attractions, they haven't panned out for me so far. I've much better luck meeting organically.
Is S/M short for sadomasochism? IP: Logged |
todd
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posted August 04, 2017 11:41 AM
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Originally posted by Gracha:
Thank you Todd!!!You've described my feelings and suspicions about him correctly, but in astro terms lol
Right about internet attractions, they haven't panned out for me so far. I've much better luck meeting organically.
Is S/M short for sadomasochism?
yes S/M=sadomasochism
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