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Lovestruckme
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posted September 04, 2013 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HER nessus is conjunct my SUN, MERCURY and VENUS...

Now ive only read and heard very little on this and i hear nessus likes to abuse the planet peron. The funny thibg is that i dont fully trust her for some reason and shes hurting me constantly. Which ways would this play out with each planet? (Her nessus is in her 6 house btw)

Also my nessus is conjunt her jupiter and trines her mars and quintiles her uranus. Anybody know what this can mean??

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posted September 04, 2013 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome Lovestruck

Well, that is as intense as a sun burn on a radiant sunny day.

You prolly are hooked on her, so nothing I can say will change that BUT sometimes we need these very intense( and maybe abusive) relationships to grow.

I did and now a great many of my clients come to me with them.

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posted September 04, 2013 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Welcome Lovestruck :flower;

Well, that is as intense as a sun burn on a radiant sunny day.

You prolly are hooked on her, so nothing I can say will change that BUT sometimes we need these very intense( and maybe abusive) relationships to grow.

I did and now a great many of my clients come to me with them.

Let me know what happens, Friend.


Quite hooked. Hooked to where i feel physical and mental withdrawls the MINUTE we part, then that turns to depression and then mind racing about her. I do t know what to do with myself ive stopped "living" my life almost because of her.

What do you think SHE feels about me? Not sure how the abuse will play out but i can guess mentally toward me.

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posted September 04, 2013 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She will be the more abusive one imo

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posted September 04, 2013 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 04, 2013 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lovestruckme:
HER nessus is conjunct my SUN, MERCURY and VENUS...

Now ive only read and heard very little on this and i hear nessus likes to abuse the planet peron. The funny thibg is that i dont fully trust her for some reason and shes hurting me constantly. Which ways would this play out with each planet? (Her nessus is in her 6 house btw)

Also my nessus is conjunt her jupiter and trines her mars and quintiles her uranus. Anybody know what this can mean??



YES, the not trusting is classic but the PASSION for the person makes you totally nuts!

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posted September 04, 2013 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

YES, the not trusting is classic but the PASSION for the person makes you totally nuts!


she seduced me while i was trying to seduce her. Im very attracted to her and she knows this. she uses her sexuality and teases me. im tired of the teasing because its been a year and im totally infatuated and want her so bad and im not getting anywhere with her. She appears to be into me because we have a really wicked connection, but just keeps me at an arms length. Its ruining my life i dont know what to do . We work together and the thought of seeing her tomorrow makes me feel like im waiting for my next high, but will definitly be let down at the end. Thanks for your reply btw.

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posted September 04, 2013 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh dear

I hear you, Friend.

This may help. If these relationships get together they burn up and usually turn to hate.

HOWEVER, if you want to play her, play hard to get.

Let me know what happens. I am on your side with this as I have been there and you need a friend

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posted September 04, 2013 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for black_rose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lovestruckme:
HER nessus is conjunct my SUN, MERCURY and VENUS...

Now ive only read and heard very little on this and i hear nessus likes to abuse the planet peron. The funny thibg is that i dont fully trust her for some reason and shes hurting me constantly. Which ways would this play out with each planet? (Her nessus is in her 6 house btw)

Also my nessus is conjunt her jupiter and trines her mars and quintiles her uranus. Anybody know what this can mean??



I have my Nessus conjunct a guy's Sun. His Nessus falls on my South Node.

We are crazy attracted to each other, but I definitely have always had a deep sense of distrust/something being off when it comes to him and he definitely is terrified/flustered whenever we've interacted.

As the Nessus person, I don't see myself as an abuser!.. however, I'm not a jealous/needy person normally and with him I do feel like I deserve his full attention if we are in the same vicinity.. I've never NOT had it, but if he were flirt with someone else in front of me or something I could see myself reacting in a vindictive way.

I avoided him a bit just because I knew I would only be able to have a an intense/more serious relationship with him, but I never felt sure I could trust him with my heart. I didn't even know how to go about getting to KNOW him first so that I could trust him, because it seemed impossible to try to be his friend.. sexual catch 22 or something.


I do feel frustrated that our connection is so intense that one or both of us ends up being overwhelmed and I feel like we never really GET anywhere in our interactions. He moved away six months ago and I still think about him.

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posted September 04, 2013 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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oh dear

I hear you, Friend.

This may help. If these relationships get together they burn up and usually turn to hate.

HOWEVER, if you want to play her, play hard to get.

Let me know what happens. I am on your side with this as I have been there and you need a friend


Thanks it feels good to know you may know what im dealing with. The game of hard to get takes so much energy. Especially since we are same sex and we are for the "most part" straight. Im figuring that any normal person wouldnt play mind games with someone they werent attracted to, which makes me think she was into me. Cause really, if you see someone as just a freind, why would you flirt? Maybe thats her sickness, taking ANYONE that gives her attention and seducing and witholding.

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posted September 04, 2013 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by black_rose:

I have my Nessus conjunct a guy's Sun. His Nessus falls on my South Node.

We are crazy attracted to each other, but I definitely have always had a deep sense of distrust/something being off when it comes to him and he definitely is terrified/flustered whenever we've interacted.

As the Nessus person, I don't see myself as an abuser!.. however, I'm not a jealous/needy person normally and with him I do feel like I deserve his full attention if we are in the same vicinity.. I've never NOT had it, but if he were flirt with someone else in front of me or something I could see myself reacting in a vindictive way.

I avoided him a bit just because I knew I would only be able to have a an intense/more serious relationship with him, but I never felt sure I could trust him with my heart. I didn't even know how to go about getting to KNOW him first so that I could trust him, because it seemed impossible to try to be his friend.. sexual catch 22 or something.


I do feel frustrated that our connection is so intense that one or both of us ends up being overwhelmed and I feel like we never really GET anywhere in our interactions. He moved away six months ago and I still think about him.


WOW. Yes. Just like your experience Its frustrating in the fact that we are so mentally in tune on a daily basis and vibe very well but we cant seem to solidify plans, like we are insecure about asking eachother or terrified or uncomfortable or something. We went away together just her and i, we took a really far roadtrip and that was great but, as far as making plans after the trip two months ago, it just NEVER HAPPENS!! Like shes OVER ME or something
We just arent getting anywhere, me myself feels we lack direction in whatever we are.
Doesnt it make you wonder how good sex would be with this person? THATS WHATS KILLING ME!!

Like you said about being freinds, yeah it seems like it just cant be just freinds for some unknown reason. Jealousy on both our parts maybe. I give someone else attention and she come running over. SEXUAL CATCH 22 for sure. You hit the nail right on the head.

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posted September 04, 2013 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you a female and she is a female, too?

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posted September 04, 2013 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never forgot my Nessus person. I was the Sun. I prolly never will.

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posted September 04, 2013 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Are you a female and she is a female, too?


Yes

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posted September 04, 2013 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lately i also feel that she is purposely letting me down. For instance telling me shes going to bring things to work for me and then never does. And i ask and shes like oh whoops . Like she has to have the emotional upper hand. Like thats abuse kinda? Then we have a remarkably intense and great conversation, that turns jnto sexual innuendo, that turns into a stare of " i know you want it". And then nothing.

Whole point of story. Im addicted to her.

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posted September 05, 2013 05:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for black_rose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It looks like your Nessus is conjunct her South Node as well!

I tried to start a thread a while ago about this, because I think that this pair of synastry aspects may point to an intense past life relationship.

Do you know where your/her Dejanira (157) fall?

With me and the guy, his Dejanira fell on my North Node.

My Dejanira/Venus/Eros is conjunct his Saturn/Juno.


I've been wondering if Nessus/Dej could potentially indicate a relationship that HEALS past abuse as opposed to indicating abuse in the current relationship.

I actually fear this guy mostly because I feel incredible SAFE around him. Which is difficult for me because my family was incredibly emotionally abusive and/or distant and I definitely built GIANT walls that affect my relationships now.

Since Dejanira is prominent in my chart, maybe having my Nessus activated by someone helps me feel more personal power in the relationship.. whether or not that is healthy, I couldn't tell you

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posted September 05, 2013 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lovestruckme:
Lately i also feel that she is purposely letting me down. For instance telling me shes going to bring things to work for me and then never does. And i ask and shes like oh whoops . Like she has to have the emotional upper hand. Like thats abuse kinda? Then we have a remarkably intense and great conversation, that turns jnto sexual innuendo, that turns into a stare of " i know you want it". And then nothing.

Whole point of story. Im addicted to her.



YES this is classic Nessus. It is addictive cuz it plays on your deepest insecurities.

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posted September 05, 2013 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by black_rose:
It looks like your Nessus is conjunct her South Node as well!

I tried to start a thread a while ago about this, because I think that this pair of synastry aspects may point to an intense past life relationship.

Do you know where your/her Dejanira (157) fall?

With me and the guy, his Dejanira fell on my North Node.

My Dejanira/Venus/Eros is conjunct his Saturn/Juno.


I've been wondering if Nessus/Dej could potentially indicate a relationship that HEALS past abuse as opposed to indicating abuse in the current relationship.

I actually fear this guy mostly because I feel incredible SAFE around him. Which is difficult for me because my family was incredibly emotionally abusive and/or distant and I definitely built GIANT walls that affect my relationships now.

Since Dejanira is prominent in my chart, maybe having my Nessus activated by someone helps me feel more personal power in the relationship.. whether or not that is healthy, I couldn't tell you


Powerful post. I think nessus/Deja relationships can really, really heal you.

I don't believe in past lives but in this, these relationships bring up your past abuse like a steam shovel bringing up dirt

They can be super, super healing but the pain is really, really bad to imo

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posted September 05, 2013 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

YES this is classic Nessus. It is addictive cuz it plays on your deepest insecurities.



What makes someone have this desire? What do they say/feel? " this is a good person let me be the a**hole here just for fun" where does this DRIVE to mess with someone cone from

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posted September 05, 2013 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by black_rose:
It looks like your Nessus is conjunct her South Node as well!

I tried to start a thread a while ago about this, because I think that this pair of synastry aspects may point to an intense past life relationship.

Do you know where your/her Dejanira (157) fall?

With me and the guy, his Dejanira fell on my North Node.

My Dejanira/Venus/Eros is conjunct his Saturn/Juno.


I've been wondering if Nessus/Dej could potentially indicate a relationship that HEALS past abuse as opposed to indicating abuse in the current relationship.

I actually fear this guy mostly because I feel incredible SAFE around him. Which is difficult for me because my family was incredibly emotionally abusive and/or distant and I definitely built GIANT walls that affect my relationships now.

Since Dejanira is prominent in my chart, maybe having my Nessus activated by someone helps me feel more personal power in the relationship.. whether or not that is healthy, I couldn't tell you


I have to find somehow where Dejanira is, is it code 157 on astro.com?

I DO KNOW she was in an absve rlship before. I have to find this.

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posted September 05, 2013 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heres dejanira in our synastry

The additional pdf chart says
my DEJANIRA SQUARES HER MC
Trines her jupiter

Hers trines my mars
Opposes my jupiter

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posted September 05, 2013 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my take on Nessus/Deja. If a person is abused (and maybe everyone is by living in this world, I don't know) but there will be a little abused child inside them. This child feels he is no good and not worthy of love.

When someone's Nessus touches it, the little child within goes crazy searching for the love he never got.

The nessus person FEELS like the child's abusive past so it is a hook in to the deepest part of the other person.

This is my opinion

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posted September 05, 2013 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is my take on Nessus/Deja. If a person is abused (and maybe everyone is by living in this world, I don't know) but there will be a little abused child inside them. This child feels he is no good and not worthy of love.

When someone's Nessus touches it, the little child within goes crazy searching for the love he never got.

The nessus person FEELS like the child's abusive past so it is a hook in to the deepest part of the other person.

This is my opinion



Hmm i think i follow. I think it would be my abandonment issues and her picking up on them and using it.

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posted September 05, 2013 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES YES YES

Totally

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posted September 05, 2013 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lovestruckme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Black rose? Do you see anything with dejanira that would hint anything? I have helped her i believe by influencing her in positive ways (she was a mess when i met her) saw me as a role model kinda and she has changed her habits.

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