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manderin
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posted August 19, 2017 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have one person in the chart who's venus is aspected favorably, but the other person doesn't really have any connections being made to their venus does this mean that the first person is more in love?

Some online interpretations say it's the person who is NOT venus that ends up in love.

Like if Sun is trine venus, it's the Sun that finds Venus more attractive, rather than Venus being the one that's more in love.

Has anyone had experiences they can share that show one or the other is correct? Is the person ASPECTING venus more in love with Venus? Or is the Venus person the one that's feeling more in love?

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posted August 19, 2017 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the sun person feels more or is more effected . I have dated a few Cancer venus and I find them very emotional and vindictive. You can't tell someone that you don't want to be with them or commit to them , then expect them to be about you. You can't treat someone a certain way and expect them to just sit there and take it. Then get mad when they don't want to be with you. Relationships don't work that way

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posted August 19, 2017 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, I have this right now in that I don't aspect his Venus at all in synastry, but the attraction seems to be mutual. Like the example you gave, my Venus opposes his Sun in Tropical and trines his Sun in Draco. When I researched this it seems that an unaspected Venus doesn't seem to hinder attraction as long as Venus doesn't rule their 5th or 7th house. I think we are both equally attracted as my Draco Eros conjuncts his natal Venus

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posted August 20, 2017 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm wondering about this too especially with the double whammy.

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posted August 20, 2017 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I'm wondering about this too especially with the double whammy.

I'm guessing with the double whammy it would go both ways.

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manderin
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posted August 20, 2017 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's really frustrating me. Some interpretations say it's the venus person that ends up finding the other planet 'beautiful' and others say it is the other planet that finds the venus person beautiful.

"Sun trine Venus" The Venus person finds the Sun as a physical ideal of beauty.

"Sun Trine Venus" The Sun person is enamored with Venus and finds him/her beautiful.

"Mars Trine Venus" The Mars person is stimulated by the looks of the Venus person and is in love with them. While the Venus person finds the actions and motivation of Mars a sexual turn on.

"Mars Trine Venus" Mars is sexually turned on by Venus while venus has romantic feelings for mars and finds them beautiful.

Which the f**** is it?? Why can't they make up their minds??? Grrrrrr.

Sorry, my virgo traits coming out there.

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posted August 21, 2017 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why can't it go both ways?! The Venus admires the Sun person, the Sun person enjoys the Venus person's admiration. Seems pretty sweet to me! And that goes for any combination.

Venus isn't *THEE* deciding factor when it comes to love. To me it's more, what we like/dislike, find pleasing, what brings us joy, what our values are, etc.

So much more of the overall synastry comes into play when you're looking at a connection with another person, particularly a romantic relationship. For that I would more to the Moon anyway where our deepest soul is reflected.

Any unaspected planet feels like "hole" of sorts but I think that person can still love you even with an unaspected Venus if there is enough else going on elsewhere in the synastry.

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posted August 21, 2017 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Why can't it go both ways?! The Venus admires the Sun person, the Sun person enjoys the Venus person's admiration. Seems pretty sweet to me! And that goes for any combination.

Venus isn't *THEE* deciding factor when it comes to love. To me it's more, what we like/dislike, find pleasing, what brings us joy, what our values are, etc.

So much more of the overall synastry comes into play when you're looking at a connection with another person, particularly a romantic relationship. For that I would more to the Moon anyway where our deepest soul is reflected.

Any unaspected planet feels like "hole" of sorts but I think that person can still love you even with an unaspected Venus if there is enough else going on elsewhere in the synastry.


I do agree with this. I also think you are assuming that Venus aspects are exactly needed. For a person you would have to embody their Venus energy for them to like you, it doesn't have to be that their Venus is even touched. They just have to view you in the lens of their Venus sign so they can "love" you (not the emotional type of love...but the superficial you like someone around type of love). For instance a man could have his Venus in Sag and be really into Sag placements. Let's say one day he meets a Cancer Rising with her Jupiter Conjunct Asc. Now here is where I'm a little bit unclear...how much of her actual rising will he see. He will DEF see the Asc Conjunct Jupiter, but I don't know if he'll see that and more or less discard the rest as she fits his Venus "ideal." In a case like this the Venus is doing the loving, because you are recieving the energy (even though there is no aspect). That's not to say the Asc doesn't like attention, they are not out to attain it.

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posted August 23, 2017 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Why can't it go both ways?! The Venus admires the Sun person, the Sun person enjoys the Venus person's admiration. Seems pretty sweet to me! And that goes for any combination."


But like- aren't you saying that the Sun person is just liking getting their ego stroked? I mean we all get a little stroking when we find out someone we are not into at all has a little crush on us. That doesn't mean we see them in a romantic light though. So you kinda are saying that it's only the Venus person who is genuine loving... the other person is just enjoying being loved according to this statement. :P

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posted August 29, 2017 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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