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MahaKali
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posted August 23, 2017 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's your experience with this placement in synastry? Did Neptune person give you imagination and cuddling or illusions?

They say planet person will feel more than house person, when their planets fall into 1st house. So did Neptune person was the one (if it happened) who idealized house person, didn't want to see who house person really is or it was opposite?

There is little about this synastry placement, so want to explore more.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2017 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lerena
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posted August 25, 2017 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Neptune is in my boyfriend's 1st house. I don't think either of us idealize the other one. Both of us seem aware of the other person's flaws. This may be a result of Neptune in Capricorn, though I'm not entirely sure what Neptune is like when it's in Capricorn. One thing I will say, however, is my boyfriend and I go through periods that may appear to shatter the "illusion" of stability within our relationship.

We have rough periods in which both of us hurt each other. In my case, it's more on accident, and in his, it's more that he's being honest about things that I need to work on, just honest in a way that hurts. To some degree, what he claims about me is true, so I don't necessarily doubt that he sees me accurately. On the other hand, he is not able to discuss his issues with my actions without being indirect about it. His words are sometimes phrased in a confusing and vague fashion, which leaves me seeking clarification often, and in these situations when I ask him to be more clear, he then gets frustrated that I don't listen to him. These experiences I have with him are similar to Neptune themes, I imagine, and perhaps an aspect from Mercury since Mercury rules communication and we do seem to have communication issues. More specifically, my confusion is probably related to my Neptune in his 1st house.

There are times when I think he feels more than me. In all honesty, it's actually difficult to tell since we both feel very deeply about each other.

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posted August 31, 2017 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All couples have those times.

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MahaKali
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posted September 01, 2017 07:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry I missed the answer, since no one respond I didn't check it later.

Thanks for your time.

So, this placement can indicate two people avoiding to face the problems sometimes in relationship, not trying to work on it? How does he express his emotions to you? Can you add few other placements or aspects you find important to mention?

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posted September 01, 2017 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MahaKali:
So, this placement can indicate two people avoiding to face the problems sometimes in relationship, not trying to work on it?
I'm not sure if this is true. It's how my relationship is, but it's a bit of a stretch for me to say that this is a frequent issue with someone's Neptune in their partner's 1st house. Maybe one day my boyfriend and I will be able to communicate better, but for now, our communication issues cause problems in our relationship. We would be able to work things out more often if I didn't constantly misinterpret what he says when he's upset. When something he says is unclear to me, that's when I usually end up making the whole situation much worse, because I can't understand his phrasing well enough to respond properly.

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How does he express his emotions to you? Can you add few other placements or aspects you find important to mention?
Important to what? Can you clarify what I'm supposed to be looking for?

He tells me when he's upset, but he doesn't always express his emotions. He hides them a lot, because he doesn't like talking about how he feels. At least, I assume this is the case, plus since he seems to struggle when I ask him to tell me certain things, I often get the feeling he's very private and prefers to keep things to himself.

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posted September 10, 2017 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thefish
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posted September 19, 2017 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune in the first typically implies illusions, instability, a mask of self depending if neptune is afflicted. How it affects another depends on the house neptune falls in for the parter and what planets/asteroids/key points aspect neptune and whether those connections are hard or soft.

For example neptune in the first where the neptune lands in the ninth of the other partner signifies an illusion of the 1st house neptune partner as it relates to the partners ninth house issues spirituality, philosophy, religion. In essence the 9th house person feels that the 1st house person's philosophies, spirituality, and or religious inclinations are difficult to pinpoint.

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