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Topic: Mars in Virgo Men
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manderin Knowflake Posts: 524 From: New York, NY USA Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 27, 2017 09:58 AM
I've heard Virgo Mars men can be hesitant in their approach, but ... how hesitant.There's a guy with this placement who I went up to introduce myself to twice in the past (the first one was botched by someone else) and he didn't really respond much to either of them. He never tries to say hello to me, so I just figured he's not interested. Fast forward a few months and I notice that he stares at me when I'm not looking at him... and realized he's doing it to make sure that I see him. He wants me to see him. Then I smile a little and he smiles a little and he continues walking on his way. Can't tell if he's just playing with me or if there's some sort of interest there.
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 29, 2017 11:54 AM
You might have to make a very subtle gesture towards him to show you're interested.. but more direct than a simple "Hello". & I know this is AS direct as it gets to at least let someone know they've sparked your interest, but Virgo folks are shy and cautious so you might have to take it step further. Maybe write your number down on a piece of paper and slip it to him with an encouraging note on it. Something like that. Direct but not TOO forward or aggressive. Too much aggression will run him off.But I will say, my Cancer man has Moon and Mars in Virgo conjunct, both opposite Saturn. His mars is even at a very critical degree, 0 degrees. He still pursues me like when we first met and it's been over a year. We also have Sun-Venus DW 1 degree max so my answer is probably skewed. Every person is different and every chart is unique, even for the folks born on the same exact day, year, town. No chart is the exact same. Not even with identical twins! From what it sounds like, just judging off the excerpt you posted, your guy is shy. This situation can go at least two ways as you basically already mentioned, (of course there are more scenarios but these are the two MAIN ones I see from personal experience and a little background knowledge), he can either be genuinely interested and wants you to heat things up so he can get the courage to approach you or you approach him (He just might be the type of guy that feels better when the woman pursues him) or he might just be toying with you because he knows you're interested. You seem like a warrior woman (meaning, not passive or traditional) or a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it and since I am a woman of the same tribe, I would just say continue on your hunt until you either catch your prey or realize it wasn't worth the trouble and throw it back. Either way, in my humble opinion, it looks like you will have to be the aggressor. I know most of us prefer a man to provide and conquer but this is real life and it rarely ever happens that way.. especially when you're a deep soul with high intelligence who analyzes human nature (I assume anyone who has tapped into the art of Astrology, hold these attributes) Sometimes we have to suffer. Not because we aren't worthy but because we know too much. We know too much to just let go and live life like we were doing before Astrology. Remember how you acted before you even knew about a mars in Virgo or Astrology period? Sometimes that's the only thing wrong in these situations.. we aren't allowing things to just unfold. We run to Astro.com and then to LL searching for answers when some will just never be found. Sometimes the only answer is just to live life. I know I went off course and got too deep. I apologize. I hope I helped. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71928 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 29, 2017 12:05 PM
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Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted August 29, 2017 01:19 PM
Don't know how much you want my opinion, as a chick with M in V - but what I know for myself is I don't like heavy flirting. For me, that comes AFTER a relationship is established, not before.That's if it's SERIOUS to me. But if I'm just having "fun" and don't really look forward to a committed relationship, then sure flirt with me all you want and I'll do the same. But, before then, I'm okay with being lightly playful, almost like a kid with a crush more than an adult woman lol I'm shy, reserved. Any IN YOUR FACE interest scares me xD It's gotta come very slowly for me, have some trust established, and start with very gentle compliments and friendly chats that eventually work up to light flirting. He probably IS interested, but just very modest/shy/reserved
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