posted September 17, 2017 12:37 PM            

I got this request from one of my favorite clients. I love my clients. I hand pick them. That may be why. I want to work with people who want to face themselves. If not, I will show you to the proverbial door with your fee attached. I don’t have time or energy to waste on people who are in denial. I have had to come out of a lot of denial and my goal in life is to help others do the same. For this, I am both loved and hated. Enough about me and onto the subject.

First of all, I do not believe in the concept that there is one soul mate for each person. I think this concept gets people into trouble. I think it can blind them to the reality of their own nature and that of their partner. I think it can make people think a relationship will be perfect. I think it is too airy-fairy. I think it is too rosy. I think it is unreal. However, I do think that two people can be excellent partners. In reality, I don’t think any relationship can be truly happy if Jesus is not at the center. However, for those people who do not believe in Jesus and have no interest in Him, astrology can help you find the partner with the best fit. For those of us who believe in Jesus, astrology can do the same, but we do not expect the same things from a relationship because we know Jesus is the one, true love of our lives. Onto the subject.

Soul Mate Aspects Explained

Moon Trine Moon

This is the Cadillac of soul mate aspects. It rides smooth. It looks fantastic. It never has engine trouble. It, almost, drives itself. I exaggerate a bit, but it is the best synastry aspect, bar none. WHY? Because the hearts are in synch. The hearts understand each other. The deepest vibration of each person vibrates with the deepest vinbration of the other. The connection is wordless. If you have not had this aspect with someone, you may not understand what I mean. I had it with my son. We fought fewer than five times in his entire life. We had the same sense of humor. We could not look at each other in a place in which we could not laugh, like a funeral, because we would laugh. Check your charts and you will see what I mean. I never had it with a romantic partner, but I think it would be heavenly. That is why it is my number one soul mate aspect. When you do the synastry chart, look at the moon, first and foremost.

Moon Trine Mercury

Mercury is the planet of the mind. The Moon is the planet of the heart. In this aspect, the mind can meld with the heart, making a lovely understanding between the two people. There is a kind of telepathy in which the Moon person understands the mind of the Mercury person.

Moon Trine or Conjunct Pluto

In this aspect, the passion and tenderness is overwhelming. In the beginning of the relationship, it seems as if one has found one’s soul mate. The relationship feels like an oasis against the world. However, surprising to me, this aspect does not seem to provide enough heart communication to keep the partners connected long term, as does Moon trine Moon. The reason is, likely, that Pluto is not a personal planet.

Moon Conjunct Ceres

When we get to asteroids, there are “Moon like” asteroids. These mimic Moon trine Moon but are not as powerful as Moon trine Moon. In the case of Moon conjunct Ceres, the Ceres has a deep and unconditional love for the Moon person. It is felt as a lovely, intimate bond by both people.

Moon Conjunct Vesta

Vesta is unselfish sacrifice for the good of the other. The Vesta person has an unselfish giving nature to the Moon person, which makes for an amazing bond between the two.

Pluto Trine Venus

In this aspect, the Pluto sweeps the Venus off her feet. The Pluto is the super hero for the delicate Venus. There may be obsession on both sides, but it will not get to the point of dangerous stalking etc. Leave that to the square. With Pluto trine Venus, the Venus is the loveliest creature to the Pluto. To the Venus, Pluto is the sexiest creature. Hence, there is an amazing and rosy glow to the relationship. Once again, for a long term marriage to keep the communication open, I think one needs more than this. Pluto is not a personal planet. I think one needs excellent Mercury and Moon aspects.

Sun Conjunct Ceres

This aspect will make for a lovely unconditional love given by the Ceres person to the Sun person. However, what is given by one is, usually, returned by the other. This is just the nature of relationships.

Sun Conjunct, Trine or Oppose Venus

These aspects are called marriage aspects because the love factor is amped up. This is not a sexual love, per se, but more of a deep heart love or fondness.This opposition does not seem to make for a stress between the two people, as does the oppositions with other planets.

Moon Conjunct or Trine the Sun

This is what I call a best friend aspect. The Sun feels very protective of the Moon. The Moon feels very loved. However, with this aspect alone, there is not enough communication to sustain a very close relationship like marriage. There seems to be a situation in which people are “talking at each other” rather than communicating with each other. However, there seems to be a lot of loyalty and this counts for a lot.

Venus Conjunct the North Node

The Venus person seems to have an unconditional love for the North Node person, who feels this strongly and who feels very loved.

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posted September 17, 2017 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
What would you say about Sun Inconjunct Venus?

And, this one its hard finding good info about thats not only negatives, Chiron Conjunct Moon (my moon). I have this with my male friend. But I also have this natally, so I guess I'm used to this energy and can't discern it. Do you have any insights about that in synastry?

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Not sure about the question on Chiron, but people born close to your birth time will have the same Chiron placement as you, my Friend.

Was your relationship with your mom really painful?

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posted September 18, 2017 08:51 AM            

I'm surprised you do not list the Moon-Venus conjunction as a promising soul connection. I've experienced it several times in a very positive way, though not yet in a powerful romantic mode.

posted September 18, 2017 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Ami, you have a very unusual integration of Christianity and astrology. Why not? The Three Wise men were reportedly astrologers if I'm not mistaken.

I'm surprised you do not list the Moon-Venus conjunction as a promising soul connection. I've experienced it several times in a very positive way, though not yet in a powerful romantic mode.

What is your experience with that conjunction?

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I know. I am such a weirdo being an astrology and a super strong Bible believer. Moon/Venus is a lovely fondness for each other. That is true. I could do a part 2 with the great suggestions, GF.

I feel God made me a voice to the New Age. I would give up astrology in a flat second if God wanted me to.

I prayed so hard for His will cuz Astrology is thought to be from the dark side but many of my clients have accepted Jesus after I did their charts.The way I do charts, I get very close to each person.

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posted September 18, 2017 10:36 AM            

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posted September 18, 2017 10:42 AM            

Valentine

NN

Ceres

What else?

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posted September 18, 2017 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
and Amor - valentine too

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YEP, Orange

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posted September 18, 2017 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I know. I am such a weirdo being an astrology and a super strong Bible believer. Moon/Venus is a lovely fondness for each other. That is true. I could do a part 2 with the great suggestions, GF.

I feel God made me a voice to the New Age. I would give up astrology in a flat second if God wanted me to.

I prayed so hard for His will cuz Astrology is thought to be from the dark side but many of my clients have accepted Jesus after I did their charts.The way I do charts, I get very close to each person.

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I wouldn't go so far as to say you're a weirdo, but you certainly are a rare find.

I've known several ace Jewish astrologers, though I suspect they were secular.

The "Dark Side" is dark only because those Christians believing so are living in the dark themselves, i.e. their familiarity with astrology goes no deeper than what they read in the comic section of newspapers.

So you might think of yourself as an Enlightened Believer. As you well know, however, few Christians will regard you as such.

posted September 19, 2017 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

I've read about moon - north node conjunctions being soulmatey indicators. What do you think of that?

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I have my NN conjunct someone's moon (3deg), and my venus on his NN (1deg). We are inextricably entwined with each other.

We have a ton of other aspects (including a lovely valentine DW), but there's no doubt that we are connected. How that connection pans out is unclear as yet, but there is huge significance to us meeting and becoming close - we are never going to forget each other, whatever happens.

posted September 19, 2017 10:09 AM            

That is so sweet of you. I have Uranus conj Jupiter in the 10th House. I will study anything and give it a shot lol

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posted September 19, 2017 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Juno conjunct the angles?

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YES, good call, Lalafortuna

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posted September 19, 2017 11:14 AM            

I have his Sun conjunct my Moon and it's great. But our Suns also trine by sign.

Trines and sextile aspects between Suns is IMHO the friendship aspects. All of my best friends have their Suns trine or sextile mine. In one case it's a square but that person's Sun falls on my ASC. I also have that with my dad. In one case it's conjunction but she's late Scorpio and I am early Saggi and her Venus conjucnt extact my Sun.

posted September 19, 2017 06:45 PM            

how do you feel your Venus on his NN?
I have this in my synastry but I'm the node

posted September 19, 2017 10:33 PM            

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posted September 20, 2017 07:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Stella

how do you feel your Venus on his NN?
I have this in my synastry but I'm the node

What other aspects you guys have?

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Hey Orange, I think we spoke before about this I love him for sure, but it's a love I've not experienced before in this kind of relationship, I'd describe it as unconditional almost.

In fact, I've been resisting a lot so as not to catch the other type of love feels as that would make it too difficult to detach if we need to. This, ironically, sums up the moon-NN conjunction the other way round - the depth of emotion is really jarring to me as I try to keep emotions in a safe place.

At the moment, we have lots of practical support - I'm helping him develop his communication skills - my venus/his NN are in gemini; he's helping me keep a grip on things and calms me down (my mars is also conjunct my NN and his moon). The combination is incredibly binding.

Other elements that help are jupiter-valentine conjunction DW, moon parallel moon, lots of ptolemaic action between our suns and my moon; my saturn on his venus-mars. His ceres exactly on my ascendant as well. The list goes on - they're not all 'easy' aspects, but they are binding for sure.