posted September 20, 2017 06:37 PM
MAN'S MARS IN SQUARE TO WOMAN'S JUPITER, wide, approximately 8-9 degrees."The instincts and impulses of a man contradict to woman's ideas or philosophy. He tries to assert his rights, not understanding clearly her point of view. Thus, a man seeks to reach out to a woman, whose view of life seems to be beyond his reach."
This explains why I always feel he never gets my point especially when I start talking about his impulsive buying/gambling, tendency to flirt with his female co-workers/ex co-workers that becomes longtime friends in his term, or another reminder that worries me. He always labels it with a "complaining" as obviously he doesn't understand my point of view at all and I don't do it constantly as I don't like repeating my words everyday.
Or even worst "judging" especially if I start saying that he needs to save money (as he has impulsive buying/gambling nature), he will always say "don't judge me just because I don't have money and came from not-a-wealthy family," which obviously confused me how those mind can translate my words into that negative interpretation while clearly I'm just saying "save money".
Natally he also has mercury/mars square Jupiter, while he doesn't bother or, lets say, he gets used to it so he doesn't see it as one of our big problems, I don't have the same perspective.
We also have clearly different philosophy of life, what we believe in, and how we live the life. He's also not a spiritual person which is making major differences on how we see the world, so, yeah, I don't know why he still keeps me tight in his fingers.
In the case of Mars person will tend to chase the Jupiter person, hmm, Jupiter is slower planet so it must be tight I guess as it means he will have the aspect with a lot of people especially around his age who he makes friend the most.
But we also have Woman's Moon conjunct Man's Jupiter. It kind of helps to soften the tension as I consider this is a great aspect to have in a good way as I have it natally. But I personally don't look up to him as I see him still immature and needs a lot of life lessons. And I also don't really feel free in the relationship as he will find a way to accuse me which can be a frustrating moment. But overall it feels like a good friendship feelings that can long lasting through times.
I just want to say that there's always a way to overcome the difficulties of hard aspects but the conclusion may lead to : either you must end the relationship or you learn and change how to deal.