posted September 25, 2017 07:35 PM            

I thought I was getting things moving by just putting myself out there. But, I actually ended up putting off dating from late July until, well, last week.

Last week I started talking to a guy whose pictures made me feel, interested again. I am not sure where he would like this to go though. He is very flirty, and it's cute, but...I don't know. I think he might be looking for a fling-thing, and I am not looking for that. He is older, so I thought he would be more interested in having a relationship with me, but I am not sure.

We are both highly educated (we have 8 degrees between the two of us and we both have two masters degrees!) and we are both tall (I'm 5'10" and he's 6'5")...

I like that we have the "love stellium" in the composite, even Mars is a part of it! However, Pluto squares the stellium. Pluto is actually prominent in our synastry also (fairly prominent). My Pluto is in the 8th house, I think I can handle it.

Also, I don't know his birth time. So angles and his Moon are off.

The charts are below, please let me know what you think! Like the last times, I will follow up with what happens on the date(s). I am supposed to meet him this weekend (I am trying to hold off until next weekend though). Thanks so much!

posted October 05, 2017 04:50 PM            

the vertex/nodw conjunction gives othgerworldly feelings.often you both have experienced/felt unusual circumstance that one would never think some one else would understand. it can give a feeling o fknwoing thi person before.
the stellium of sun/mercury/venus shows affection and attraction plut a joyous mental connection with lots of laughter.
eris is square this stellium showing the sexual chemistry is very strong... maybe too strong as the mars/pluto square often shows he may be focuses on sex rather than a relationship.

Jupiter conjunct Uranus and square to Saturn bodes ill as this shows he likely does not want any strings.this aspect makes any relationship temporal; as his need of independence is very strog .this is also shown by the mars/pluto square which makes him rather selfish and not inclined to respect you emotions. this is especially true as mars is conjunct to nessus which often is associated with a cruel or old streak.

the moon is conjunct to juno showing you feel something serious could work out but ixion is square to this conjunction which is another aspect of distance.

I think that your initial feelings are true in that he is looking at you as a fling in spite of the "unworldly" connections you have.

posted October 06, 2017 08:38 AM            

Your nMars on his nSun. His pMars conjunct your nSun.

Lots of ego conflicts!! With your nMars conjunct his nSun he will feel your anger, then it will depend how he handles that energy coming from a woman.

His pMars conjunct your nSun isn't so bad because woman are sexually attracted to Mars, and used to that energy coming from their partners. Men on the other hand...

posted October 07, 2017 02:27 PM            

That said...

I gave up on this guy too. The interpretations and my instincts were spot on - he is looking for sex and that's it. I have learned from years of dating that when a guy says "I'm looking for something casual, but I'm open to see where it leads..." that really means "I am telling you now that I am only looking for sex. If you want to make things bigger than that in your mind, then that's your own problem!" But sometimes, you think that you are special enough to be the thing that changes a (45 year old, set in his ways) man. "Thinking you're special" is a very Leo stellium problem I have. So what happened?

It's not really a huge thing (no pun intended, you'll see later on). We have been talking for a couple of weeks, but very sporadically. That was fine with me because I also learned that I don't want the big build up, just to be let down with no chemistry in person. But still, as a Leo, I like attention so he wasn't communicating enough for my liking.

Then, the night before last he sends a picture out of nowhere. It was him in his bathroom in his underwear, not flaccid (at all, AND quite intimidatingly so) but covered. I was so completely turned off right at that moment. He really flipped the "hey wait a minute!" switch. Then he had the nerve to say "Your turn"! I told him I was in bed for the night. It was then that I decided - I'm not meeting this guy.

The sad thing: his body is OUTSTANDING! I even told him that. This guy has everything that I am physically attracted to (must be that Mars!!!). He is tall (6'5"), athletic in a slender/wiry way, large hands, blond hair, blue eyes, wears glasses, stubbly and ruggedly handsome and not "pretty", intimidatingly not flaccid. He has the lines in his cheeks and a look of being perpetually annoyed on his face, like a younger Harrison Ford (HOT!). Even brainy like I like! But, no. Speaking of brainy, when I told him that I have two masters degrees he said "So do I. So watch out, sister..." Competitive.

When I told him that I'm no longer interested in meeting he wrote "Figured. Later."