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posted November 06, 2017 02:39 PM            

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Just curious if anyone else has had this? Im a Venus/Mars/Pluto conjunct in natal
He is Venus/Pluto conjunct natal....are we going to murder each other?It seems like we are the only people that can tolerate each others depth of relation....so far. we also have moon opposite venus double whammy, sun conjunct sun, and my saturn conjunct my own sun and his sun. we were born 5 years and 2 days apart

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posted November 06, 2017 04:48 PM            

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I'm Pluto conjunct ASC in Scorpio, he is Moon in Scorpio conjunct ASC in Scorpio, consider myself plutonian so does he, we are NOT in a relationship, not in a love one, we are friends but his energy is way too much to handle sometimes, I feel we attract each other but, take into consideration we have an exact Moon conjunct Pluto conjunction in Scorpio, his moon my pluto and yes I do feel I could kill him, we joke about it.

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posted November 07, 2017 04:37 PM            

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According to something on astro, my boyfriend and I are both Plutonian. Our synastry is missing some of the intense aspects, but honestly, I think if our synastry did have those things, we'd end up killing each other. Two Plutonians in a relationship is tough on both people, but depending on the synastry and composite, it can work. Unfortunately, it's pretty easy for two Plutonians to get sick of each other. Both people have to be willing to do whatever it takes to make it work.

I'm a Scorpio Ascendant with Pluto conjunct Ascendant. I am not sure how Plutonic I come across, to be honest. I think my Plutonian-ness might be more noticeable in person.

My boyfriend, if his birth time is correct, has Midheaven in Scorpio and Sun and Mercury in 8th house. He also technically has Venus trine Pluto, but the orb is 7 and I'm not sure whether or not to count it. I'm not sure what makes him Plutonian. That's just what's said in one of the things on astro.

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posted November 08, 2017 11:15 AM            

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How can it be otherwise? I think you *need* mirrored aspects to understand one another. Can you imagine a Venus-Pluto-Mars with a Venus-Jupiter? I certainly can't, not unless the Venus-Jupiter person happened to have a Moon-Pluto conjunction or square also.

In my opinion subjecting a nice light-hearted person with strong Pluto placements in the other, is simply unfair.

I'm a Moon-Saturn square Pluto and I simply can't consider dating somebody without great depth and, as it usually turns out, very similar aspect formations. In the same way, I scare people who aren't willing to see into the depths of their souls anyway ;-)

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posted November 08, 2017 05:52 PM            

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@ Waxlobster.... Youre thoughts exactly. Hes a leo im a leo but we both have the pluto going on...we got each other from the VERY moment we met. We can be real and deep together with deep feelings...but. Still have Leo fun!!! We are both extremely loyal. Been thru too many hurts and trying to keep it real

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posted November 15, 2017 12:23 PM            

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Bump!

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posted November 16, 2017 01:15 AM            

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I have been involved with and dating a man who I consider very plutonian and I have a plutonian vibe to me. What would scare the bejebees out of most I can tolerate or don't find it threatening yet I have venus conjunct neptune.

In other words when someone shows you who they are , it's best to believe them until they prove different or change their ways. I think setting clear boundaries is what is most effective for me.

Depends on the planets, I have met a few people who thought that it was ok to treat me as theirs but any form of questioning them was rebuked. I have learned, these type of men are not worth my time. A man that care will care, one who doesn't just doesn't.

Outside of that , things seemed to be ok.

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posted November 16, 2017 10:17 AM            

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FUNNIEST THING...HE just bought 2 puppies,he named them.... Venus and Pluto. He has no idea that we are both,.... JUST THAT. He told me what he named them... I choked..!!!! so strange!!!!

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