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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 11, 2017 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I recently met 2 guys, both in passing, but I wonder if there is any attraction on their part. I don't know exact birth times and birthplace (though I may have it close)...

I'm on the inside...

Guy 1

and Guy 2

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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 11, 2017 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me know if you need the table of aspects....

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posted November 12, 2017 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone?

I noticed Pluto/Venus aspects on both...but not sure if the orbs are to large...

The first one obviously has very tight Pluto Opp Venus, but may not really count right now, as we have only met once...but I do think of him.

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posted November 12, 2017 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Number 2 at a glance. I need a story to engage further ;-)

{Mercury in Pisces}

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posted November 12, 2017 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Number 2 at a glance. I need a story to engage further ;-)

{Mercury in Pisces}

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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 12, 2017 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by waxlobster:
Number 2 at a glance. I need a story to engage further ;-)

{Mercury in Pisces}


Welllll, not much of a story just yet. #2: He works in my building and has been very helpful in my moving in. Everytime he comes to my apartment he's very talkative...but he's friendly with everyone. When I first met him when I was moving in, I def felt some sort of Uranus zing...mainly because he was a lot younger and cuter than I would have thought a Super would be..he lives in my building.

#1 Is a guy that also lives in my building, and we happen to meet on the elevator...he's tall and very attractive...and there was definitely an attraction on my side...but no idea for him. He did engage in conversation though...

And there you go...I hope that's enough to get you engaged..

What about #2 makes you think there's an attraction on his side?

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posted November 13, 2017 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto conjunct your Venus (this usually is a two-way attraction!).

Your Neptune conjunct his Moon-Uranus, this adds a telepathic, dreamy kind of connection. Also with the Moon-Uranus need to 'break free' Neptune has a softening effect. You will be seen as less of a potential threat to his freedom.

His Saturn conjunct your Sun-Uranus will have a similar effect in mitigation the 'break for freedom' desire, only this will be an anchoring effect.

The fact that you are a Sun-Uranus and he a Moon-Uranus gives the kind of mirroring I look for.

There seem to be planets that don't have many aspects in both charts though? An aspect grid would be helpful. I do wonder whether you will find that his Mars on your Mercury provides mental attraction which is more akin to friendship than a relationship. With your Neptune square his Venus too I think he will develop stronger feelings than you.

You do have the 'power' in the relationship...

With guy 1, although his Pluto isn't far from your Venus I just don't get a vibe. I don't sense a connection. I could be wrong, there could be a whole list of quintiles that I can't detect...

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posted November 13, 2017 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Pluto conjunct your Venus (this usually is a two-way attraction!).

Your Neptune conjunct his Moon-Uranus, this adds a telepathic, dreamy kind of connection. Also with the Moon-Uranus need to 'break free' Neptune has a softening effect. You will be seen as less of a potential threat to his freedom.

His Saturn conjunct your Sun-Uranus will have a similar effect in mitigation the 'break for freedom' desire, only this will be an anchoring effect.

The fact that you are a Sun-Uranus and he a Moon-Uranus gives the kind of mirroring I look for.

There seem to be planets that don't have many aspects in both charts though? An aspect grid would be helpful. I do wonder whether you will find that his Mars on your Mercury provides mental attraction which is more akin to friendship than a relationship. With your Neptune square his Venus too I think he will develop stronger feelings than you.

You do have the 'power' in the relationship...

With guy 1, although his Pluto isn't far from your Venus I just don't get a vibe. I don't sense a connection. I could be wrong, there could be a whole list of quintiles that I can't detect...


WaxLobster (how did you come up with your name btw?), your wish is my command. Here are the aspect charts:

**Remember, I don't know their birth times and birthplaces...both guys are the vertical ..

Guy 1:

Guy 2:

LMK what you think!!

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posted November 13, 2017 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else? I have Plutoniness going on...

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posted November 14, 2017 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thoughts on Guy 1?

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posted November 15, 2017 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strongest attraction with guy #2.

His mars conj your nSun is sexy. Hasn't had his Saturn return yet - chances are high his pMoon is cojunct your nSun = attraction on his part.

Where is your pMoon? Seem to bee around Aries. If so thats a double whammy - the attraction will be unavoidable. Only question is; are you into younger guys, is he into older women? Is he single?

Thats my final answer - guy # 2 has the best potential to develop into something.

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posted November 15, 2017 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
Strongest attraction with guy #2.

His mars conj your nSun is sexy. Hasn't had his Saturn return yet - chances are high his pMoon is cojunct your nSun = attraction on his part.

Where is your pMoon? Seem to bee around Aries. If so thats a double whammy - the attraction will be unavoidable. Only question is; are you into younger guys, is he into older women? Is he single?

Thats my final answer - guy # 2 has the best potential to develop into something.


What is pMoon?

He HAS to have had his Saturn Return, he is 33...

If pMoon is Progressed Moon, mine JUST entered Aries...

Yes, he is Younger, but no idea on on the older woman thing...but I look 26-28...so not worried about that superficially..


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posted November 15, 2017 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Strongest attraction with guy #2.

His mars conj your nSun is sexy. Hasn't had his Saturn return yet - chances are high his pMoon is cojunct your nSun = attraction on his part.

Where is your pMoon? Seem to bee around Aries. If so thats a double whammy - the attraction will be unavoidable. Only question is; are you into younger guys, is he into older women? Is he single?

Thats my final answer - guy # 2 has the best potential to develop into something.


Also--Im not seeing the Sun conjunct Mars for Guy #2??

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posted November 16, 2017 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What is pMoon?

He HAS to have had his Saturn Return, he is 33...


Ooops, I must've confused Saturn and Jupiter.

quote:

If pMoon is Progressed Moon, mine JUST entered Aries...

Yes that's what it means. It is the strongest attraction indicator. This confirms you have the strongest connection to the Aries...Pisces is of the past.

quote:
Yes, he is Younger, but no idea on on the older woman thing...but I look 26-28...so not worried about that superficially..

okay

quote:

Also--Im not seeing the Sun conjunct Mars for Guy #2??

Guy #2 (the Aries) has Mars in Scorpio, no?


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posted November 16, 2017 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Guy #2 (the Aries) has Mars in Scorpio, no?


Hi, yes he does (totally missed that some how! )..but it's pretty close to the cusp, so it's a really wide orb, it didn't show up in the aspect table.

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posted November 16, 2017 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True, his mars is clise to the cusp. I'd still count it as a conjunction. I'm among the few here who uses whole sign conjunction.

In my research I've noticed sign to sign attachments are stronger than exact degree alignment.

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posted November 16, 2017 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
True, his mars is clise to the cusp. I'd still count it as a conjunction. I'm among the few here who uses whole sign conjunction.

In my research I've noticed sign to sign attachments are stronger than exact degree alignment.


Interesting, never considered that before...

What about that Saturn sitting on my Sun? I wonder if that will bother me?

And is Guy #1 not attracted to me at all??

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posted November 18, 2017 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any other thoughts?

What does Guy #2 like in a girl? With that Aries Sun, Sag Moon, I'd think someone spunky vs someone deeper like a Scorpio (me)...

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posted November 21, 2017 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly--I think Guy #2 needs a very extroverted girl, and I can be, but because i have Saturn on ASC, I come across very reserved....

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posted November 29, 2017 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted November 29, 2017 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
**I'm sorry, my notepad isn't available
just now so I'm adding the pts slowly, while I edit**


Guy1, I'm cautious over the Saturn & NN cnj.
Unless you are wanting a more tense connection.
This is only my take on this, others might not think/say that.
His Venus is hitting your 8th, which could be beneficial.

I feel by what you've shared, guy2
is most compatible with you.

-The Moons to guy2/you are sextile.
There could be a relaxed and cozy
connection between you. Find similar
grounds and feel it out,
-Sun is cnj Saturn.
-Your Neptune is in snug trine to his Mercury
-Your Venus sextile his AC.
-Saturn squares Chiron, doesn't sound good, I'm looking tho.
-His Sun is in your 8th house, which I see
as a def positive, of course take the correct time into consideration.
-Neptune is cnj Uranus, read here:
http://www.livevisionz.com/saturn-aspects-to-uranus.html
The moon energy is definitely worth attention! Although you're uncertain of the birthtime,
this might not be so true. You'll need to feel out the repore to confirm it.
Unless you're bold enough to ask his birth info.

http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_moon_aspects.html
The Saturn/Sun may be the reason you feel drawn to#2.
http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_saturn_aspects.html

Your Venus/His AC, this could be a potential
mate. Only you'll know! http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_ascendant_aspects.html

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posted December 07, 2017 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, MM!

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