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Topic: What romantically pleases someone with planets in Capricorn?
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classiccancer
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted November 16, 2017 06:25 PM
  
I'm specifically curious about physical actions. I know Capricorns desire loyalty, long-term relationships, honesty, etc.I met my boyfriend several weeks ago, and we are both head over heels for each other, not to mention extremely committed and already long-term oriented. The only thing that worries me is...his Capricorn-dominated chart. I barely have any Earth influence in my natal chart, but he has Capricorn in Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Uranus, AND Neptune. He does have a Cancer Moon (which is conjunct my Sun), but I was worried that in the future, I won’t intuitively know how to make him as happy as he could be, say, with someone with more Earth in their chart. With a Cancer Sun and Leo Venus, I know exactly what pleases me in a relationship: reassurance that my SO still likes me and finds me attractive, security in the relationship, an emotional connection, romance, and attention. I have come in terms with this and I am more self-aware as a result (i.e. I don’t worry so much when he doesn’t text me back for a while). Overall, he definitely does all of the above and is very affectionate with me, even publically (which initially surprised me, but I think it’s because he has Sun conjunct Venus in his chart). Whatever the reason, he makes me a happy girl. But...I want to know what pleases a Capricorn romantically. Are there certain things I can do that he’d appreciate? Are there certain things that I should avoid? I was just curious about the little things that I can do to make him happy  I've heard that Capricorns LOVE back rubs, and prefer alone time occasionally. Note: he doesn't know his birth time, but I have an very good feeling that his ascendant is in Aries. IP: Logged |
classiccancer
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted November 16, 2017 06:31 PM
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classiccancer
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted November 17, 2017 10:26 PM
Bump? :)IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1973
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posted November 18, 2017 05:16 PM
They like being in control and don't like when you act immature and childish.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1973
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Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 18, 2017 05:21 PM
I have a Capricorn 7th house and a Cap stellium that includes a Cap moon so I've always dated Capricorns. I know about themIP: Logged |
classiccancer
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted November 18, 2017 06:15 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
They like being in control and don't like when you act immature and childish.
Interesting. Would emotional fall under "immature and childish"? Also, does this mean they like the serious type, as it implies maturity? Also, do Capricorns tend to hide their true feelings when they're upset about something? IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1822
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posted November 30, 2017 09:50 PM
Number 1 = LOYALTY 
and we don't like games.
For instance I don't think is cool to make a capricorn jealous.I mean I know we want to know the person like us but if we think about it,that is something very immature to do.
Trust is very important.
We love compliments.We pretend we don't while we wear that poker face but we explode inside. Since he has a cancer moon he may be easier to deal with (emotionally speaking) than a typical cap.Luck of you!  quote:
the little things I can do for him
HAHAHH I think you found out the secret already.You just have to do little things.That's it.We give value to small things.We ain't all about $ as they say. IP: Logged |
classiccancer
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted December 01, 2017 07:53 AM
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
We love compliments.We pretend we don't while we wear that poker face but we explode inside.Since he has a cancer moon he may be easier to deal with (emotionally speaking) than a typical cap.Luck of you! HAHAHH I think you found out the secret already.You just have to do little things.That's it.We give value to small things.We ain't all about $ as they say.
Thank you so much for this!! This is actually very helpful. Is the Capricorn "ideal girl" someone serious and unemotional (or rather, tries not to show emotions)? I know my guy has a Cancer moon, but he also has both Venus and Mars in Capricorn Thank you again <3 IP: Logged |
Melinn
Knowflake Posts: 197
From: Sweden
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted December 01, 2017 11:37 AM
I think its the opposite, because they don't wanna show lots of emotions, they preer someone who ca balance this out by showing its ok to show emotions. Someone who shows emotions on the right places and shows him its ok and won't judge him. I have a Capri stellium brother. He is super sensetive but he won't show it. He will lock it behind a wall of coldness. He is not ok with females that is emotionell all over the place. Right time and right place and right amount is needed I believe for them.For cancer men it would be the opposite generally speaking depending on the chart. Since they are emotionl and moody,they may need someone who is more balanced and not as moody atleast! But I'm no expert IP: Logged |
Melinn
Knowflake Posts: 197
From: Sweden
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted December 01, 2017 11:43 AM
And I second small stuff goes long ways if you are not a show off and when he sees you are not doing it to get something in return! They can be a bit "mistrustful".I have lots of earth energy and I'm like this too. Small stuff that shows you care.
I have a male friend with Mars in Capri and I used this method on him. I do/did smal helpful stuff and went all in. And showed I do not want anything then appreciation in return. See if you are like that the capri will feel obligated to return the favor! When he said ones "I don't nned to help me". I said I dont need to but I wanna show appreciation for that time you helped me (and it was a small thing compared to my help!) This is how I handle men, I treat them the way I wanna be treated. I wanna be seen and be appreciated. I wanna see it in actions and not small words. If the man is smart enough he will get your point and also you are helping that poor man to find ways to show his "emotions" the way that he can , I guess. Especially if the person is from a cold culture that lacks showing deep emotions :P IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1822
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posted December 01, 2017 12:34 PM
I'm a woman hahaha but I don't like overly emotional people ,that person who cries over everything you know? I don't judge them,I just don't know how to deal with them.(I think I reject that within me,my emotional side).I think it's what happens to most of us, cappies.But that doesn't mean we want a robot as a partner.It's okay to have emotions.As I said we like small things and we love to know they care! Eventually when we fell in love the ice is melt and we feel more comfortable and relaxed. We have to remember that he is a cancer moon in opposition to his own personal planets.Maybe is tough for him to deal with his own emotions,to accept his own emotional moon.I believe that's when you may be able to help him.BY JUST BEING YOU
(Cancer sun/cancer moon) Ask Kannon about it in astrology 2.0.I'm sure he will help you a lot.He has a lot knowledge and he will be able to compare. Honestly I think your effort to be a good girfriend is great.
I mean do a massage,give him some SINCERE compliments,try to be less judgmental or stop picking fights (I'm not saying you are like this is just an example) but there are things that you don't need to change.Let him see the real you.It's not worth to change your essence for anyone.It's exhausting. Good luck girl!! <<<33333
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ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4516
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 01, 2017 04:52 PM
"there are things that you don't need to change.Let him see the real you.It’s not worth to change your essence for anyone”I agree with this ES IP: Logged |
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