posted December 13, 2017 10:26 PM            

For reference: https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_love_compatibility.php

But our charts don't have any major aspects that stand out, and many of our signs seem to be in traditionally non-compatible signs. I see there are some nodal connections, and a 3 degree orb venus mars trine, however I just don't understand how it is 100%, I have never even seen that...

We also have some challenging composite aspects such as mars square saturn... Any insight or feedback is appreciated. I am the chart on the inside (female), he is the outside (male). Below is our synastry, the aspects for that synastry, and composite in that order.

Synastry Chart

Aspects

Composite Chart

posted December 17, 2017 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
a computer is limited by the program it runs. the program is limited by the knowledge of the programmer.

your composite has Jupiter square it Uranus which shows it will not last. the midpoint is conjunct pluto which shows tha there is too much selfishness in the relationship for commitment . if you are currently in this relationship, it likely will fall apart next years when the node squares pluto and the midpoint.
todd

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posted December 17, 2017 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by vertiver:
I think this goes by Sun sign compatibility? Technically you guys are wide orb Sun opposite Sun. I also see Venus conjunct ASC and a Moon trine Venus - both great aspects in synastry.

I also got 100% with my boyfriend and we have a tight orb Sun sextile Sun. But I'd like to believe we have 100% compatibility as well

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posted March 11, 2018 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
a computer is limited by the program it runs. the program is limited by the knowledge of the programmer.

your composite has Jupiter square it Uranus which shows it will not last. the midpoint is conjunct pluto which shows tha there is too much selfishness in the relationship for commitment . if you are currently in this relationship, it likely will fall apart next years when the node squares pluto and the midpoint.
todd

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How are you so sure it won’t last, Todd?

That’s one aspect out of many.

I’m sure there are thousands of long-term couples with that aspect and many more.

Astrology isn’t cut n’ dry.

This is why I stopped posting so much on this forum.

9/10 all these relationships don’t last because Todd or some other user on LL said so..?

What I’ve noticed, and please agree to disagree if you choose, MOST of the posts in this section are made by individuals already feeling insecure about some aspect of their relationship, including myself when I post.

All these doom and gloom responses just adds to the anxiety and insecurity which probably led to a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way.

Every day I witness a terrible composite and/ or synastry chart of a long-term or married couple who usually has more than a couple of these “doom and gloom” “the relationship won’t last” aspects.

The funny thing is, those SAME people know nothing about Astrology except the usual basics.

We put so much into this forum forgetting there are millions of couples out there with the worst of the worst relationship charts and are just as in love as those so-called “perfect” composite charts and synastries.

Astrology is very much real and accurate, no doubt.

But I think we need to take the “Miss Cleo” aspect out of it.

No one can predict anything based off a set of rules.

We can mention hardship we see in the charts, but to say a relationship will fail?!

No.

This is why I miss the old LL.

Todd’s responses seem computer-generated anyway.

He said the same thing about Pluto-Nodes to me and a few others.

I understand if it’s a collective transit,
but it still won’t affect everybody the same.

You can’t pin the same prediction on everybody that has that aspect.

posted March 11, 2018 09:37 AM            

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All these doom and gloom responses just adds to the anxiety and insecurity which probably led to a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way.

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posted March 11, 2018 02:59 PM            

To put this into better terms, imagine you meet someone who has the same OR extremely similar hobbies and like and dislikes as you. You're very compatible. But you meet and talk and realize lol we are definitely not getting married. The vibe just isn't there. Compatibility is just saying you are similar, it means you click together somehow. That doesn't mean you'll last forever though.

You should also remember that having squares and opposites does not automatically equal doom and gloom and a bunch of conjunctions and trines and sextiles does not always equal happy times forever.

posted March 11, 2018 03:02 PM            

"With just your dates of birth, this free compatibility application enables you to find out how smoothly your relationship is likely to develop. It does not address its quality. Kindly note that without the time and place of birth, the rating thus obtained is a mere indication.

I some extreme cases, the discrepancy may be up to 25% or 30%, compared with the rating which is produced if the time and place of birth were known, for instance if the angles of the charts are particularly important.

Nevertheless, it constitutes interesting quick pieces of information about your affinities, since it incorporates all the specifics of your respective approximate natal charts.

If you know your respective time and place of birth, our Compatibility Report is a valuable tool that offers deeper insights into your couple. Our engrossing analyses help you understand your partner and explain how you can get closer to each other. "

posted March 11, 2018 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
It specifically says on astrotheme:

"With just your dates of birth, this free compatibility application enables you to find out how smoothly your relationship is likely to develop. It does not address its quality. Kindly note that without the time and place of birth, the rating thus obtained is a mere indication.

I some extreme cases, the discrepancy may be up to 25% or 30%, compared with the rating which is produced if the time and place of birth were known, for instance if the angles of the charts are particularly important.

Nevertheless, it constitutes interesting quick pieces of information about your affinities, since it incorporates all the specifics of your respective approximate natal charts.

If you know your respective time and place of birth, our Compatibility Report is a valuable tool that offers deeper insights into your couple. Our engrossing analyses help you understand your partner and explain how you can get closer to each other. "

How did you read over this part entirely?

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Thank you for your responses capricorncheriscty. Honestly, I am aware of all that you have wrote as well as todd's point on the program being limited to the knowledge of the programmer. To be honest, I was really just hoping people would come in here and poke holes, and try to refute the 100% score by pointing out downfalls of the relationship from the synastry and composite.

posted March 18, 2018 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Thank you for your responses capricorncheriscty. Honestly, I am aware of all that you have wrote as well as todd's point on the program being limited to the knowledge of the programmer. To be honest, I was really just hoping people would come in here and poke holes, and try to refute the 100% score by pointing out downfalls of the relationship from the synastry and composite.

While I would like to be in a relationship, I don't want to get in over my head just because I see a 100% score on some calculator. I am trying to get an outsider's perspective to bring me to reality. Although I don't believe it matters much what our compatibility is like on our charts, as they may be unavailable and in a relationship anyways, and there is a physical distance between us. I am guessing that reflects in our venus-uranus aspects in both synastry and composite.

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posted March 25, 2018 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Arcturiann, what I see is those semisextile ASC's: your presentation styles are too different. Overall scalar synastry potential is only 50%. In other words, average (meh).

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