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Topic: When You Can't Get Someone Outta Your Head . .
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Emme5
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posted August 19, 2013 04:38 PM
  
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Originally posted by Lianee:
pluto conj sun (does it make you obsessed?)
Probably. I had the Sun opposite Pluto with someone and he and I took turns being obsessed with each other. IP: Logged |
Orange
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Registered: May 2009
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posted December 13, 2017 12:55 AM
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Melinn
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From: Sweden
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted December 13, 2017 05:12 AM
I get stuck easily, I have obsessive personality with scorpio, 8 house stelliums and all that **** . But I have had only 2 crushes in my life so.With the latest one I have a good synastry (some things not that good), but the interesting thing is the Vertex actions. My Vertex is Oppo his sun. His Vertex is Oppo my sun.
And his Progressed Vertex is Oppo my Progressed Sun! I mena, come on?! We have a great connection, I can read and feel his feelings very easily as if I'm the one feeling it.And he is very intune with my feelings too. But Saturn messes some things up :/ IP: Logged |
Franco
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: Santiago
Registered: Feb 2017
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posted December 13, 2017 05:58 AM
It happens to me with a relationship of 7 years ago.sun conj sun
sun conj NN
sun conj venus
sun sextile uranus
sun square moon
venus conj NN
venus conj venus
venus conj mercury
pluto conj pluto
pluto conj NN
pluto conj venus
pluto conj jupiter
pluto trine moon
moon sextile neptune
moon sextile uranus
moon trine jupiter
saturn square mercury
saturn conj uranus
saturn conj neputne
her pluton trine my moon
her moon conj my SN
her moon sq my sun and venus
her saturn trine my sun / venus
her moon falls on my 7th .. These are some of the important aspects.
We both have sun, mercury, venus, pluto in scorpio almost in the same grades, she also has her NN there and jupiter. It is an obsessive relationship on both sides, but pride also plays an important role and I believe that resentment ... I already get used to it, it seems impossible, the years go by and life always reminds me or confronts me, I have travel experiences to another place and that she is there, in the same place, same time ... things did not end badly, I think we have different goals in life, for that distance ... but life goes on.
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MoonMystic
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From: ♤ Ethereal Umbra ♤
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 13, 2017 12:53 PM
My childhood sweetheart and I were tumultuous once I broke his heart he went bitter and our paths separated. He never leaves my thoughts, although I wish he would, it looks as if the natal might indicate my obsession over him.(Pls forgive my geeking out on this reply) Omd- Aura 26'23'25" (h5)
- Cancer -
My- Vertex 27'26'46" (h8)
In his Vertex declination 2'33'30" N --
I run parallel with these energies:
Innanen (goddess of Destiny) 2' 11'22" N
-Astarte 2' 25'32" N
-Isis 2' 53'34" N
His Nodes are 13' 31 Sagittarius
My ASC is 14' 09 Sagittarius
His karma 15' 43 Aqua
My Truth 14' 41
My Imprinetta 15' 54 My PrenatalLuna Eclipse is exactly
1' to his asteroid Lovelock. This particular declination makes
me suspect he too can't remove
me from his thoughts. His Moon 14' 4'35" S
××××my name1- 14' 2'24" S
××××My mame2- 14' 4'53" S His 8' 57 Venus (Leo)
His 10' 8 Mercury
My Akashi 10' 28 Declinations:
Contraparallel-
His Akashi 17' 15'32" N
My name in my natal 17°28'35" S
Declinations:
Parallel
His Akashi 17°15'32" N
My natal - Giza 17°16'16" N
(LEO)
His Akashi 18°32'58"
My Natal NAOS - ship 18' 9 (he's Navy)
My sidereal Nostalgia - 18' 17
My Draconic DNA 21' 0
My Valentine 0' cnj his MC
His Valentine 17' 22
cnj my
-GrandPrism 17' 23
-Aschera 214 - 17' 39
"Goddess of Heaven"
His Valentine is in Opposition
to My SideR Akashi 17' 02
(Perhaps our love was forbidden)
His Iris 16' 36
cnj
My Natal Jovita - 16' 35
Salome - 16' 45 Apparently there's a lot to us, under
the surface. Hopefully I'm not alone at
this mental/love torturing haunt. In declination
His Amor 8°43' 7" N
My Peithos (seduction) 8°46'24" N Natal- My Eros 0 his descendant node His Natal Psyche 22' 30
Cnj
My Helio Psyche 24' 45
Maybe there's a psychic link up between us. --Adding because this has to be
somewhat a reason, as it 'feels' it is.
We have:
His declination -Telephus 21°31'30" N
My declination -Akashi 21°31'23" N IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted December 15, 2017 01:32 AM
This guy I met in college who always tried to make eye contact with me, he had the most beautiful eyes. We have his Venus mars conjunction conjuncting my mercury mars conjunction, but we also have a Venus square Saturn double whammy.IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted December 15, 2017 01:23 PM
MoonMystic...Psyche also represents mental-psychological woundings. A place of pain. It seemed to cause a 'psychic-pain' to you inside, as you (seem to have) blamed your own self for 'breaking his heart'? (Not everything psychic is wooo wooo.) If you think about the mythology too? ...
She was operating in a 'blind' trust. She let what others thought (suggesting he was an evil ugly beast) influence her into an insecure action; which HE then USED against her saying that SHE "ruined" their relationship. HE is the one who chose to say that the relationship was ruined, because she didn't follow his 'ego' rules? He had the ability 'at that point' NOT to decide to find 'offense' that she wanted to actually SEE who he was (without blinders). Deal breaker was that IF she EVER 'saw' his face, then "HE" quits the 'affair' they were having. ... At the end of that story, the relationship was repaired and taken to a NEW level. He makes HIMSELF more real and available to her in a way that provided a fuller kind of Relationship. Got over his (free sex?) god-self image, and decided to make the relationship more about love, and being real. Your boyfriend GAVE UP that chance with you.
He preferred his ego-self?
Hard to have a relationship that won't have 'moments' where EACH makes mistakes sometimes. What 'matters' is whether the people CHOOSE Forgiveness, and treasure the good in the Relationship, and put the negs on a backburner. It's about making Love REAL. That takes literal time to pass in order to achieve it. Love Matures. It's not just about the romance-- which is such a NICE plus, that must be 'cultivated' from time to time-- deliberately valued and re-kindled, 'as though' it were the First Time. (music) The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face (perf. Celine Dion, lyrics) [4:10] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIcmpEXCW78 IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara
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From: Spain
Registered: Feb 2017
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posted December 15, 2017 01:44 PM
Me a Sagittarius and this Scorpio guy who I had a romance with had his Sun conjunct my Moon and Jupiter in my MC.
He's a Leo AC and I'm and Aqua risign: AC/DC axis in opposition.
My Venus conjunct his South Node (both shares nodes as we were born with only three weeks of difference).
His Venus conjuncted my Sun, among other conjunctions (Jupiter moon, Neptune and Sun).
On the other hand I have Lilith conjunct his natal Mars and Moon, and this has been at least for me the KEY: one day, he left and never came, only two years later he texted me and during this conversation he confessed he had a girlfriend BUT, if he's happy with her, he did not need to text me to telling me that. I told him why he had texted me if he was apparently so happy, and his answers were nonsense. He was not as happy as he admitted and came looking for me, maybe he was bored.
I say Lilith issue is the key because I think he literally run away or was scared of my nature. I couldn't forget him and have been obsessed for a log period of time, sometimes I still remember him. It has been hard to overcome this, because he irrupted in my life when I did not expected (he didn't either), and we met by chance in a dinner where I was not supposed to be in. South Node Venus connection here: karmic.
He did not speak a word in hours that night and I farewell him with a kiss (not my attitude at all with an unknown guy). Last February eclipse in Aquarius (my AC and his DC), helped me to overcome this situation: he will never return and it's better for me and mu illusions, and that exact day, I was told he's living with her girlfriend, so...eclipses closing periods in life and starting new ones. Sometimes I hear about him by friends in common. It's normal that people who run away from my life do it for better. The last time I saw him I started my Progressed New Moon Cycle: a new life (without him). IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara
Knowflake Posts: 71
From: Spain
Registered: Feb 2017
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posted December 15, 2017 01:46 PM
Me a Sagittarius and this Scorpio guy who I had a romance with had his Sun conjunct my Moon and Jupiter in my MC.
He's a Leo AC and I'm and Aqua risign: AC/DC axis in opposition.
My Venus conjunct his South Node (both shares nodes as we were born with only three weeks of difference).
His Venus conjuncted my Sun, among other conjunctions (Jupiter moon, Neptune and Sun).
On the other hand I have Lilith conjunct his natal Mars and Moon, and this has been at least for me the KEY: one day, he left and never came, only two years later he texted me and during this conversation he confessed he had a girlfriend BUT, if he's happy with her, he did not need to text me to telling me that. I told him why he had texted me if he was apparently so happy, and his answers were nonsense. He was not as happy as he admitted and came looking for me, maybe he was bored.
I say Lilith issue is the key because I think he literally run away or was scared of my nature. I couldn't forget him and have been obsessed for a log period of time, sometimes I still remember him. It has been hard to overcome this, because he irrupted in my life when I did not expected (he didn't either), and we met by chance in a dinner where I was not supposed to be in. South Node Venus connection here: karmic.
He did not speak a word in hours that night and I farewell him with a kiss (not my attitude at all with an unknown guy). Last February eclipse in Aquarius (my AC and his DC), helped me to overcome this situation: he will never return and it's better for me and mu illusions, and that exact day, I was told he's living with her girlfriend, so...eclipses closing periods in life and starting new ones. Sometimes I hear about him by friends in common. It's normal that people who run away from my life do it for better. The last time I saw him I started my Progressed New Moon Cycle: a new life (without him). IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara
Knowflake Posts: 71
From: Spain
Registered: Feb 2017
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posted December 15, 2017 01:49 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
Its because they have YOU in their head!
I have read this a lot of times!!!
With the Scorpio guy of my story, I can swear that when I'm thinking about him a voice around me says his name (a mom calling her child or his name is in a poster or tv/radio). It's automatic.
A total synchronicity. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
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From: ♤ Ethereal Umbra ♤
Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 16, 2017 02:39 AM
Mirage,
Thank you! 
Awesome interpretation with the
Psyches especially. He did choose
His ego but if the shoe had been on
The other foot I think I would have
as well. I was untrue and he being
Water heavy in energy, could never
forgive. Yes, the ego which had been
bruised, disallowed him to work through
It and see if it had made a stronger
bond, weathering the storm. IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted December 16, 2017 10:30 AM
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Randall
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posted December 18, 2017 08:59 PM
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