posted January 12, 2018 01:57 PM            

I think you're having enough hesitation that it signifies you already know you should walk away.

posted January 12, 2018 04:30 PM            

Gem males may seam whishy-washy at times but in actuality there playing there cards carefully and reacting to whats going on around them.

If things don't work out its easier to make an easy run since they where never heavlly involved in the first place. If there are signs things will go his way or the way he expects it to he'll invest more. Its a way of winning in either circumstance.

Knowing more about him helps to figure out how he reacts to things and what his motives are.

If it was me I whould tell him you got out of a nasty relationship and you don't mind going on casual dates but your not too sure what your looking for right now.

That way he gets the message your open to casual dates, but not ready to be intimate just yet and can run just fast as he can.

lol, I wish I could write you a textbook. The other day I was on a 4hr train ride and the guy I was sitting beside was a may born Gem and I read right through him and he did the same on me.

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posted January 12, 2018 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
His Saturn sextiles my Moon and Mercury. So If I were to get involved with him in a sexual way. I could end up being stuck and I don't want that.

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posted January 12, 2018 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But we have Mercury square Mercury and Mars square Mercury I know that's bad. He has Mercury and Mars in Cancer. I would probably hurt his feelings with my Mercury in Aries.

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I'm not a fan of mercury in cancer for a gem, i smell emotional manipulation.

hmmm...

Cancer mars, what do you look like physically ChildofVenus?

posted January 12, 2018 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I'm not a fan of mercury in cancer for a gem, i smell emotional manipulation.

hmmm...

Cancer mars, what do you look like physically ChildofVenus?

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posted January 12, 2018 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I'm curvy and I have large breasts lol.

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I wasn't expecting that...but I guess we've established what he wants.

I still think you should just go on a date thats not intimate, no "hot coffee" or other "extras" then he gets borred and moves on.
Lol, mars in cancer male does not get the breasts in the end.

So many people try to end things with Gem males the wrong way. If you want him to back off thats the way to do it.

posted January 12, 2018 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But we have Mercury square Mercury and Mars square Mercury I know that's bad. He has Mercury and Mars in Cancer. I would probably hurt his feelings with my Mercury in Aries.

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Btw, I’m not a guy so you’ll have to make adjustments for the gender difference, but I’m a gem sun, cap moon. I can seem flakey and flirty, but I like the idea of sex more than the act. I also enjoy talking about it more than doing it. The comments he made (massage) could suggest he’s into entertaining the theory of it more than sealing the deal. I would think with his water placements he’d need more of an emotional attachment before making it happen. But, he is a guy! Lol

With that said, those aspects above sound pretty hot! Lol. Some verbal war! With an Aries Mercury! Yes, please! Then... Gemini mars will be aroused by the ego show from the Gem sun, titlated by his Gem Venus... Then cancer mars will seek out the Pisces Venus for some unconditional love and support (here’s that emotional attraction part you may need to watch for if you don’t want to be involved that way) ... LOL! Just saying!

posted January 13, 2018 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I wish he wasn't a Gemini.

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C’mon, CoV! =) People are more than just sun signs. You’re probably sick of me saying that! My sun in conjunct my ASC by a degree or less in Gemini (I’m not offended by your comment. Just want to encourage a multi-perspective look at things!). My Mercury (chart ruler) is also in Gemini. I’m not flakey when it matters (I realize how subjective that is). You’re probably thinking “ya right!” and saying to yourself “how typical of a Gemini thing to say!” You’re right. Is this the kind of logic that is discomforting to you? I’m heavy air, Libra dominant by sign, sun, mercury and Venus are my strongest planetary energies. I know Taureans need stability, Pisces influences need a tender touch and Aries need some forgiveness sometimes. You said you’re heavy fire. I’m not really sure how the energies mix (by planet, house, sign, modality, element...) to form our unique personalities but I’m pretty sure we all have some important latent influences that takes lots of awareness to understand. There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone. Hanging out. Being friends. At this point, you have no reason to make it anything more than that. With all my air energy (Gemini and Libra are stereotypically social), I’m an introvert. Among some other things, I mainly attribute that to having my chart ruler in my 12th house. I ain’t that chatty Gemini. I’m the responsible one. The one my friends and family come to when they need help. I’m not the one thats gonna make every social gathering though (that’s what I mean when I call myself flakey). Honestly, I’m too tired from being the responsible one.

You say you may have a sun/moon trine? You have an air moon? Libra? Aquarius in your 7th house? The sister-in-law I spoke about earlier is a Taurus with an Aquarius moon.

posted January 13, 2018 01:08 PM            

What I find significant about that is the dispositor of your chart is in a loop or in reception between Mars and Mercury.
http://www.lunarplanner.com/Astrology/Dispositions/index.html

Mars doesn’t want to stop and think (Gemini) before
acting. Mercury doesn’t want to act impulsively (Aries). Indecision and inaction ensues. Maybe the mars/mercury circuit needs to be broken. Read about the point opposite Mars.
http://sisterrayastrology.com/power.htm

posted January 13, 2018 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I might go out to eat with him. I'm afraid of the chemistry I don't know there is something about him. I feel like he can read me.

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That's because you gave out to much information.

Gemini is pretty good at connecting the dots and filling in the black you didn't tell him.

Going out to dinner is the best thing to do.

If you don't feel comfortable and want to end it you can appear plain and boring and Mr. Gemini will walk away.

If you end up wanting things to progress further then you have the chance to do that.

So your in a position to win in either circumstance.

The key here is to think like a Gemini which is always be in a position to do either which is suddenly move forward or go backwards, lol.

Another example of thinking like a Gemini whould be when I got my Parking ticket.

I thought I could pay the early fine which is $50 bucks or I could fight it.

I figured if I fight it I probably will win.

If I loose it so what, I took the parking officer off the street for four hours and prevented him from making his quota for the day.

Its his choice let one ticket go by not appearing in court but issue 50 tickets within the 4 hours if he had appeared in court. Or Appear in court make sure I lose but be unable to issue more tickets.

So in either scenario I win, if you can think like that the entire time your with that guy you will so own him!!!.

Most people that end up with a Gemini and fail don't understand you have to learn how they think.

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posted January 13, 2018 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
That's because you gave out to much information.

Gemini is pretty good at connecting the dots and filling in the black you didn't tell him.

Going out to dinner is the best thing to do.

If you don't feel comfortable and want to end it you can appear plain and boring and Mr. Gemini will walk away.

If you end up wanting things to progress further then you have the chance to do that.

So your in a position to win in either circumstance.

The key here is to think like a Gemini which is always be in a position to do either which is suddenly move forward or go backwards, lol.

Another example of thinking like a Gemini whould be when I got my Parking ticket.

I thought I could pay the early fine which is $50 bucks or I could fight it.

I figured if I fight it I probably will win.

If I loose it so what, I took the parking officer off the street for four hours and prevented him from making his quota for the day.

Its his choice let one ticket go by not appearing in court but issue 50 tickets within the 4 hours if he had appeared in court. Or Appear in court make sure I lose but be unable to issue more tickets.

So in either scenario I win, if you can think like that the entire time your with that guy you will so own him!!!.

Most people that end up with a Gemini and fail don't understand you have to learn how they think.

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posted January 13, 2018 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I didn't give him any information at all. We've only talked once over the phone.

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But you did mention on page 1..the folowing:

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I could say that then I guess lol but he knows where and what time I go to school. He doesn't live too far away. I don't know why I told him all that information. Things just started slipping out like how I told him sometimes I just come to the store just to talk to see him. I'm like a fool for saying such things.

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posted January 14, 2018 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
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