posted January 17, 2018 09:14 AM            

Thank you!

posted January 19, 2018 02:33 PM            

this marks you both as women who have an exceptional identification with your femininity and your cultural responsibilities as mothers and nurtures.

o the other hand sun is opposed to mercury and square to chiro. this shows the active ad dynamic intellectual connection between you. this show you both to be extremely intelligent an very analytical and critical in the manner you judge reality and society.this aspect gives a understanding of opposites, that is you can see the points of contention in any argument but also see the commonalities that lead to compromise and growth.

a between to people ,this tsquare can show periods of estrangement or arguments as you both have very different opinions on some subjects. so I would expect that this is a very spirited relationship with your mother can has both contention and reconciliation.

for the most part though you and she have a very harmonious and productive relationship with mars sextile to chiron and trine to Jupiter.this could show that you have been educated in similar manners and on similar subjects. this adds to the intelligence of your makeups and likely sows both of you have had higher education. But all in all ,this gives close association and tends to show you complement each other in most ways.

the moon is biquintile to Saturn with Saturn loosely conjunct to Uranus.
this aspect is always contentious as though there is great respect for each other, often your individualities rub each other the wrong way. you both are staunch adherents to your basic beliefs, but as said, often your beliefs to not set well with each other.
with Uranus conjunct to Saturn some of the "problems" could deal with your father as this conjunction is often found in separated marriages. so there may be a question of loyalty to your father involved here.
mercury is conjunct to Neptune and the eros/psyche midpoint is conjunct to the mercury/Neptune midpoint. this shows you both to be very spiritual and,creative and ultra sensitive. it shows a loving nature and thoughts and actions that are always of the Light.

the moon/Saturn biquintile's midpoint is opposed to mars, so when disagreements appear ,these may be quite strong, but with mars conjunct to psyche and sextile to eros, it seems you both can always but your personal prejudices aside and unite under a spiritual loving sense of compromise.

venus the daughter is trine to the moon,the mother, so there is a inherent love of each other and with the midpoint of venus and the moon square to fortuna, you both often feel fortunate and thankful to have each other's love in your lives.

posted January 20, 2018 09:51 AM            

It's a challenging relationship to say the least. And when I first read your interpretation I thought it was off. But, I gave it some thought and I don't think you are that off.

We definitely are very different in our beliefs and we often butt heads and the arguments used to be awful, but with age I am able to see her side. I think she is learning to do that as well.

She is not of higher education, but she should have been. She is very intelligent, and very compassionate. Animals come to her for healing. I am of higher education, and I am a natural counselor to others.

My father. They are still married and very devoted to each other. So the separation you describe is my feeling. He did not and could not be there for me as a child because of her. I have a different understanding and respect for his loyalty to her now.

So your reading was very good, and though I still see the relationship with a hard eye, ultimately you're right and it has softened my perspective somewhat.

posted January 20, 2018 04:52 PM            

the Uranus/Saturn conjunction can be very difficult, but I sort a down played the potential for estrangement in that aspect.

posted January 20, 2018 05:11 PM            

It was a horrendous relationship until about five years ago. I decided to wave the white flag and accept her as she is and the relationship for what it is.

I do admire and respect her, though sometimes I have to remind myself to set aside any grudges to do it.