posted January 26, 2018 02:30 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I've read that there will be many obstacles in the two finally being able to live together or that one day the Saturn person may have to move into the house persons actual home.

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posted January 26, 2018 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
It may bring stability, it depends on the rest of the synastry. The couple need to live together for this to effectively manifest really.

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posted January 26, 2018 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Would this still be the case if their Moon is also in the 4th house?

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posted January 26, 2018 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I've read that there will be many obstacles in the two finally being able to live together or that one day the Saturn person may have to move into the house persons actual home.

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posted January 26, 2018 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturus90:
In my opinion, Moon of someone else's 4th house, want both to live together, to have their home, but Saturn in someone's else 4th house have to

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posted January 26, 2018 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I've read that there will be many obstacles in the two finally being able to live together or that one day the Saturn person may have to move into the house persons actual home.

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posted January 26, 2018 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturus90:
In my opinion, Moon of someone else's 4th house, want both to live together, to have their home, but Saturn in someone's else 4th house have to

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posted January 26, 2018 08:12 PM            

I don't attribute all that much to house overlays in synastry. For example my Mars in somebody's 5th or 8th is not enough (alone) to create sexual chemistry. For me the personal understanding comes first and as I've said elsewhere I do believe that similar attributes and needs is a starter...

You've also asked about Venus Mars sign comparatives and yes, this can show similar needs. I do like to see very close orb aspects and ideally conjunctions in synastry to believe in a relationship. Reason being; over time the transits will control the experience and so the closer the orb in synastry, the more they will be affected by the transits together.

Obviously the nature of the aspects illustrates the kind of effects. House overlays just *are* they have a 'feeling' but don't bring longevity. Connections to angles does, but again, that's based on the long-term effect of not just resonance, but evolution created by transits.

Sorry, no simple answers available ;-)

posted January 26, 2018 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Well I was born with a Moon-Saturn conjunction personally so often times they will fall in the same house in synastry.

I don't attribute all that much to house overlays in synastry. For example my Mars in somebody's 5th or 8th is not enough (alone) to create sexual chemistry. For me the personal understanding comes first and as I've said elsewhere I do believe that similar attributes and needs is a starter...

You've also asked about Venus Mars sign comparatives and yes, this can show similar needs. I do like to see very close orb aspects and ideally conjunctions in synastry to believe in a relationship. Reason being; over time the transits will control the experience and so the closer the orb in synastry, the more they will be affected by the transits together.

Obviously the nature of the aspects illustrates the kind of effects. House overlays just *are* they have a 'feeling' but don't bring longevity. Connections to angles does, but again, that's based on the long-term effect of not just resonance, but evolution created by transits.

Sorry, no simple answers available ;-)

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What about Trines and Sextiles in synastry? I read that Sun/Moon is a good aspect to have in synastry.

posted January 27, 2018 08:57 AM            

His Saturn falls in her 4th.
Until she met him, she SWORE she would never live with a man, never share her home, etc.....but after they got together, she became a 'nesty; type of person and they are actually quite cozy.

Sure, living together has brought some challenges and differences to the surface, but they love each other and seem very happy!

posted January 27, 2018 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
I actually do not dislike Saturn.
I've seen it actually play out positively in the 4th house synastry between a friend and her spouse.

His Saturn falls in her 4th.
Until she met him, she SWORE she would never live with a man, never share her home, etc.....but after they got together, she became a 'nesty; type of person and they are actually quite cozy.

Sure, living together has brought some challenges and differences to the surface, but they love each other and seem very happy!

OH AND her Saturn falls in his 7th house of marriage! Go figure....

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posted January 27, 2018 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Saturn in someone else's 4th house means they have to do what?

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posted September 07, 2022 12:26 AM            

My current romantic interest (who I see major long term potential with, there’s a good chance we will get married we just aren’t officially dating yet), his saturn and uranus fall in my 4th house and square my 1st house moon (and his natal venus is opposite sat/ur and so it is also sq my moon and in my 10th house)

We are currently long distance (uranus) by several states/a 10 hr drive, we are serious about each other and the possibility of living together/having a family together, but if we end up together we can’t move somewhere together, I HAVE to move to where he is and move into his house because he shares custody of his son with his son’s mother and he needs to stay where he is because of his responsibility to his son. So very saturn in 4th! He said once that when his son is an adult we can go wherever I want to but he has to stay there right now (i didn’t suggest moving btw, i understood that if I was with him I’d be living in his town and home and involved with his son. But he brought it up as a worry or something he felt inadequate for)