posted February 19, 2018 07:02 AM
I had the square in a very emotionally intense union that lasted on and off for 7 years. BUT we DID have Moon-Pluto double whammy in synastry.
Plus, we had a composite Scorpio stellium in the 7th with Pluto conjunct moon EXACT along with Pluto conjunct Sun, Mercury, Venus. Saturn also squared the entire stellium.
Emotionally intense, very.
Looking back though and after maturing, it wasn’t love.
It was an ‘emotional contract’ of some sort filled with karma and inexperience. We felt binded to the other just based off, history, familiarity, and an intense desire to control each other.
Saturn binds, but if other parts of the Composite/ Synastry are lacking, Saturn also tortures you.
If other parts of the Composite/ Synastry are positive, Saturn provides and secure ‘bubble’ under which the couple can flourish. It all depends on the rest of the chart.
Saturn is ‘glue’ regardless. Are you going to be glued to negative nancy or Positive Peter? that’s the question.
I am in the best relationship of my life, currently.
I love him to pieces and wouldn’t trade him for the world.
We have Composite Saturn inconjunct Moon at almost 2 degrees. We also have Composite Saturn conjunct ASC. Uranus and Neptune trine Sun, Moon, Mercury swuares mars and jupiter. Moon and mars in the Conposite 8th house.
The inconjunct is rearing its ugly head with his family.
My boyfriend is a Cancer. We are currently working through issues regarding boundaries and his female relatives.
We have mercury-saturn, mars-saturn, venus-Saturn double whammies in synastry.
We are both very Saturian natally.
I definitely agree with OutofIdeas, I would say only superficial relationships feel that ‘coldness’ everyone associates with hard Saturn aspects, as was the case with my ex.
Otherwise, it’s just two very cautious and serious people trying to love each other. It adds a certain level of formality and reserve (and we are like that as individuals anyway), but nothing is emotionally lacking.
I prefer Moon-Saturn in composite.
Saturn= Security.
Saturn isn’t here to make you happy.
That’s not his job.
Ehh, look for Jupiter and Uranus for the happiness.
SideNote: I have Moon trine Saturn 1 degree natally.