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posted February 02, 2018 06:26 PM            

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I started talking to this guy and immediately felt a connection which by the way I never feel for most guys i meet. When he told he was a leo i was like this is even better. When I looked at his birth chart i saw we have similar aspects which alarmed me but i ignored it thinking that the same energy would make us understand each other. Then our composite has Uranus aspecting almost every personal planet (Moon con uranus, sun opp. uranus, venus opposite uranus, uranus sextile asc.) He been so aloof with a number excuses, and long periods of time not seeing each other. But i cant get over him and we still talk time to time but is this relationship really ever meant to be the way I thought it was? or we never actually good for each other.
https://imgur.com/a/l5ofj
His birth time is not accurate unforunately
https://imgur.com/a/l5ofj

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posted February 03, 2018 07:04 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted February 03, 2018 08:56 PM            

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7th house chiron - relationship will cause wounds/is wounded. It's not a good thing to have, especially in the composite 7th house of relationships/marriage. Chiron here can make things happen all of the sudden, and seem just right, until something happens to cause things to crash and burn. Heavy 11th house means strong friendship vibes. 5th house, plus the way it's aspected, indicates it's mostly a casual fling. Chemistry, yes, but not much indicates it can survive.

Also, why bother pining for someone who obviously isn't pining for you? Do you want someone who behaves like this? Is this what you call an even give and take relationship? Do you think he's well worth the energy you're spending on him?

Focus on yourself,focus on self care now, focus on moving on, distractions until you do get over him.

It's difficult now but you will be stronger for it eventually, especially when you viscerally realize you deserve much better

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posted February 03, 2018 10:58 PM            

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Thanks we do have alot of natural chemistry. He was going through a lot of family issues and i guess i wanted to help him get through (maybe the neptune influence)

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posted February 03, 2018 11:06 PM            

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I also have chiron in 7th libra natal, does that speak that i attract these type of relationship.

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posted February 04, 2018 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-goddess96:
I also have chiron in 7th libra natal, does that speak that i attract these type of relationship.

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Yes of course. Where our Chiron is, is our wound and can be prevalent in our life until we learn to heal this wound or transform it somehow in a beneficial way.

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