posted February 24, 2018 02:09 PM            

Prospective mate born 8/17/87: blue inside.

posted February 24, 2018 03:22 PM            

Here's their synastry overlay;
Mate blue inside + Mom red outside.

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Can you do a synastry chart with just the ladies and post it please?

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posted February 24, 2018 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
TY.

What do you know about your mate's black moon lilith in the 12th on the cusp?

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posted February 25, 2018 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
WC. Note that her BML makes no major aspect to my natal placements.
I feel that her true emotions run very deep and that she values privacy. She powerfully presents only that which she wants others to see (Leo stellium in 1H)--putting on a good show, using her 10H Gemini Moon.

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posted February 25, 2018 10:20 AM            

He says she despises being alone, and will be very popular and outgoing. That is congruent with her Leo stellium in 1H. I have the sense that she enjoys living in an urban environment, and would not be happy in an isolated rural domicile(like where I presently reside). Paradoxically this is counter to her 12th House Cancer, with the need for peace and quiet. I would need to relocate to a life positive environment--which I'm willing to do for the right life partner.

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
That might be stronger if not in aspect. Relative to your mother, that is what stands out to me the most. The initial aspect patterns are uncanny. It is possible your mate is suppressing whatever BML represents and I would be aware of it.

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posted February 25, 2018 10:35 AM            

Note her 8H Pluto is trine my Mom's Pluto in mate's 4H, and square Mom's Leo Mars in mate's 5H. Home, Family, Children matters?

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
With the next one, Pluto in the 8th stands out on your mother's south node. Looks like less risk.

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posted March 03, 2018 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Less risk sounds good. Her Water Monkey birth year goes great with my Earth Rat.

Note her 8H Pluto is trine my Mom's Pluto in mate's 4H, and square Mom's Leo Mars in mate's 5H. Home, Family, Children matters?

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posted March 11, 2018 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
That might be stronger if not in aspect. Relative to your mother, that is what stands out to me the most. The initial aspect patterns are uncanny. It is possible your mate is suppressing whatever BML represents and I would be aware of it.

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posted March 11, 2018 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
TY. I lived in a rural area before (several hundred acre ranch). I met a girl from the big city. I brought her into a rural area for 10 years. She missed being away from her kids, not so much the big city.

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posted March 12, 2018 12:46 PM            

My observation was that strong marriage candidates (we share powerful synastry and composite) also have powerful synastry (and composite?) with my mother.

Genes from my mother's egg make up half of my own morphogenetic field--and presumably half of my overall energy characteristics (my "inner female"). That's a huge part of what resonates in me with potential female mates.

posted March 18, 2018 09:45 PM            

it's true in my case, I almost jumped when I checked it and saw they have the same Moons.

as about a man marrying a girl like their mothers, I just realized that my luv's mother has Sun in Gemini and Moon in Virgo, while I am a Virgo Sun with Moon in Gemini.
She has a Cancer Venus conjuncting his North Node, I have a Libra Venus squaring his Nodes.

Interesting material!