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Selenite
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posted March 05, 2018 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tend to get mixed up with housemates who have heavy Saturn action with me in synastry. Anyone else?

With my new housemate, I like him but I'm really feeling the Saturn conjunct Sun-Mercury DW! It certainly explains it...

My Saturn is at 6.39 Pisces and his Sun is at 7.41, Mercury at 9.32.
His Saturn is at 20 Sag and my Sun and Mercury are both at 20 Sag -.-

I feel like he notices everything I do and disapproves, or that he thinks I'm a bad person, and yet he hasn't complained once! He's super nice and cool! And seeing the DW, I feel he must think the same about me


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In another case, when I lived in dorms I shared a room with a guy who had his Venus, Mars and Jupiter in Sag conjunct my Sun! (And also had Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Pluto in Sag.)

BUT his Saturn squared my Sun-Mercury, and my Saturn squared his Moon exactly, and loosely squared his Sun and Mercury. My moon was also conjunct his SN. We didn't speak to each other for most of the year.

My last housemate and I never spoke either. I never asked for her birthday but I'm sure she had some kind of stellium squaring my Saturn, or something.
I also realize that I'm the common denominator Maybe it's my Pluto in the 4th square Mars?

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comdoc
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posted March 05, 2018 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's the DW 5H and 8H Saturn--Sun conjunctions: no fun.

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SecretGeek
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posted March 05, 2018 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Selenite
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posted March 05, 2018 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, crap. I don't want this to be like my other roommate experiences.. Maybe there's hope, since his moon sextiles my Sun and Moon. (Its on my Sun-Moon mp).

I think what's happened in the past was a mutual lack of effort with nurturing the relationship -- which eventually built up to total apathy in regards to the relationship, combined with differing life philosophies (sun). Ending in utter hopelessness. At least we're not dating

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Selenite
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posted March 05, 2018 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
On another note, I think this keeps happening because my Saturn is in the 7th, and roommates are a sort of legal partnership, involving leases and such.

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posted March 05, 2018 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Selenite
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posted March 05, 2018 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, I have a boyfriend and we all live together.

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posted March 05, 2018 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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waxlobster
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posted March 08, 2018 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's hilarious! I mean the synastry! So many close contacts, and that double whammy Saturn conjunct Sun-Mercury!

I love the Jupiter-Pluto trine Jupiter with I would agree there's a strong dose of chemistry going on there too! Of course your Pluto in the 4th is stating that "transformation and life changes occur at home."

What's the synastry like with your boyfriend? Has he noticed the chemistry between you and your housemate? (is that why you're focussing on the Saturn aspects, so that you can ignore the Venus-Pluto conjunction?)

Sorry, I'm sure you're very committed to your partner and Saturn in the 7th is very loyal too, but it is a rather potent overlay. I wouldn't want to live with that if I was in a relationship...

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posted March 08, 2018 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
That's hilarious! I mean the synastry! So many close contacts, and that double whammy Saturn conjunct Sun-Mercury!


I know, it's like, we could be friends, and then there's a big fat NOPE, stifling our communication and such.

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I love the Jupiter-Pluto trine Jupiter with I would agree there's a strong dose of chemistry going on there too! Of course your Pluto in the 4th is stating that "transformation and life changes occur at home."

What's the synastry like with your boyfriend? Has he noticed the chemistry between you and your housemate? (is that why you're focussing on the Saturn aspects, so that you can ignore the Venus-Pluto conjunction?)

Sorry, I'm sure you're very committed to your partner and Saturn in the 7th is very loyal too, but it is a rather potent overlay. I wouldn't want to live with that if I was in a relationship...


Haha! No, I'm not avoiding anything! Hey, my boyfriend's Pluto is on my Venus too! Well, I'll post ours to compare. Note the LACK of Saturn aspects and the PLETHORA of nice Neptune / Uranus... Why I feel so free to be myself around him ^.^

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Randall
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posted March 15, 2018 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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waxlobster
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posted March 17, 2018 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah that's great Selenite, yes that's even more potent synastry with your man *phew*!! I guess you're used to that generation have quite an effect on your Venus :-)

I hope the Saturn square are easing off. I find great communication really makes a difference. I dated a guy once whose Saturn-Sun was square my Saturn-Moon. Very close orbs but because we knew astrology we didn't stifle each other one bit, we used it for growth. It's never come up as a problem, and he remains one of my closest friends. :-) The point of learning astrology is to allow growth over stagnancy eh!!

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Randall
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posted March 23, 2018 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Ah that's great Selenite, yes that's even more potent synastry with your man *phew*!! I guess you're used to that generation have quite an effect on your Venus :-)

I hope the Saturn square are easing off. I find great communication really makes a difference. I dated a guy once whose Saturn-Sun was square my Saturn-Moon. Very close orbs but because we knew astrology we didn't stifle each other one bit, we used it for growth. It's never come up as a problem, and he remains one of my closest friends. :-) The point of learning astrology is to allow growth over stagnancy eh!!


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Randall
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