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Ami Anne
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posted March 19, 2018 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I write articles like this I get hate mail. My favorite story *cough* is about Aunt Mildred and Uncle Hugh who lived together for thirty years and had this aspect. Did you live in their bedroom? Alas, such is life and such is denial. I like to face life square on. Hence, I will tell you the synastry aspects that I think make for unhappiness and why, of course.

1. Moon Square Moon

I have written about this before. One girl was classic for someone who had a personal vendetta toward me due to my stand on Moon square Moon. She and her boyfriend had this aspect. I do not change my mind based on harassment,as you know. She moved in with the boyfriend and he tried to choke her. Well, not all Moon square Moon relationships play out like this, but there is a basic lack of heart understanding. Any relationship is all about hearts. So, watch your Moon in all relationships.

2. Nessus Conjunct the Sun

This aspect can make for heated passion. Henry and Meghan have a strong Nessus synastry. I do not see how this relationship can last. I am putting that out there and you can see if I am right. Nessus makes for heat galore and swinging from the chandeliers, but when it is over, all of this passion can turn cold, at best, and very, very nasty, at worst. I have seen people torch the cars of their once Nessus love. To me, if I see a strong Nessus synastry, I would run—period end.


3.Nessus Conjunct the North Node

The North Node tells us about themes in the relationship. You do not want a Nessus theme. Nessus is the asteroid of abuse.

4. Nessus Conjunct the North Node

The North Node is the theme of one’s life. If a person BRINGS a planet or asteroid to the North Node person, the planet or asteroid becomes a theme of the relationship.Hence, please look carefully at that which conjuncts the North Node in synastry. I have an article on the North Node in Synastry. I will link it at the end.

5.Sado Conjunct the North Node

Someone in my family has this with me. This person was very sadistic to me. It hurt horribly. Since it was a relative, I had little choice in the matter However, if this were a current
relationship, I would run as far as I could. In the case of Nessus and Sado, I do not care how nice the person appears. The charts WILL play out. I should have this tattooed on my chest, along with “What are the orbs?”

6. Nessus Conjunct the Moon

The Moon is the heart. I cannot say this enough. Any intimate relationship is a sharing of hearts. Hence, if you see a “bad” asteroid conjunct your Moon, run. That is my advice. Many times, these bad asteroids make for passion, so if you can’t run, at least, don’t get married.

7. Sado Conjunct the Moon

As I said, I watch Nessus and Sado like a hawk. That which conjuncts the Moon affects the heart. That which conjuncts the North Node becomes a life theme.Sado is sadism.

8.Mars Conjunct the Moon

This feels so icky that I don’t think a relationship would progress very far. The Mars person, usually, feels compelled to attack the Moon person. I was the Moon with a female. I would not call her a friend,but I did try to be nice to her at first. After she attacked me for the umpteenth time, I attacked her back and she left me alone.

9. Mars Square Mars

This seems to give powerful attraction at first. This could be called a “sexy fighting” aspect. However, with time, this is more of a “fighting/fighting aspect i.e let’s tear each other’s necks off. I do not see a relationship going the distance with this aspect. I think people would kill each other first.

10.Chiron Conjunct the North Node

I was in a relationship which lasted a long time and we had this aspect. The theme of the relationship was pain.I did not know astrology at the time. Now, I would avoid a relationship with ANY bad asteroid or planet conjunct the North Node. Read my chest—–the chart will play out.


Here is the link to my article—The North Node in Synastry.
http://mychristianpsychic.com/journal/astrology/the-north-node-in-synastry/

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posted March 19, 2018 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 20, 2018 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But can Jesus/God/Allah/Mohammad/
Tetragrammaton (and the other hundreds of gods out there overcome them for you?

Isn't "God" above all? What if Harry and Meghan have god first, doesn't that make it ok?

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posted March 20, 2018 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nice article Ami!

I have experienced 1 and 9 and I agree!

I would also add venus square mars, venus square saturn and mars square saturn

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posted March 20, 2018 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ I had a 10 year relationship with Venus square Saturn. So it can certainly work.

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posted March 20, 2018 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for sharing Ami

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posted March 20, 2018 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
But can Jesus/God/Allah/Mohammad/
Tetragrammaton (and the other hundreds of gods out there overcome them for you?

Isn't "God" above all? What if Harry and Meghan have god first, doesn't that make it ok?


I only know about Jesus (Hypostatic Union with God).

Anything is possible if it is God's will. I think God normally needs a person's will aligned and then action, of course. Yes, God is above all. I don't understand your last question.

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posted March 20, 2018 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, I am positive two atheists (for example) could overcome any of those ten items. The reason is because we all have choice. Free will is very powerful. It is more powerful than any planetary alignment.

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posted March 20, 2018 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Only two things in life are certain...death and taxes

I would argue the square planetary aspects, only because it's too simplistic. You need to factor other things into it, like say person 1 has a Cappy Mars, square the other person 2's Libra Mars conjunct Saturn. Same with person 1 having Aqua Moon, square person 2's Scorpio Moon conjunct Uranus. There is some resonance there, as person 2's planet is modified in some way by the complimentary conjuncting planet. That and, if there are enough supportive, uplifting and softening aspects I think the effects of the squares can be mitigated. If the overall synastry is garbage then yes I agree...these will feel icky.

I'm also not a firm believer that hard Moon aspects are as doom-and-gloom as previously thought. I have seen two examples of opposing Moons (Scorpio/Taurus for both) in very strong marriages lasting 10+ years each with no indication they will ever divorce. Yes it's always possible, but that's the case for any marriage.

I don't put much stock in asteroids to believe they make that big of a difference. I think the big picture can be seen with the major planets alone.

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posted March 20, 2018 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know there are composite aspects that cannot be overcome no matter how much BOTH people try.

Synastry is a little different. There's 'probably' no synastry aspect that can't be worked through if both people worked at it BUT- let's face it. It's difficult enough dealing with yourself with very hard aspects. To expect to be lucky enough to have another person who's willing to work just as hard on their end is not likely. In fact- I've never actually seen it happen. Especially if the person you need to work at their end happens to be a guy.

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posted March 20, 2018 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This post is a bit biased Miss Ami. Moon conjunct Mars is good for babymaking and keeping passion alive most of the time. You were both female and Linda Goodman has said that when two people of the same gender share a sign energy by conjunction, they are more likely to argue and fight rather than find peacemaking techniques. Moon conjunct Mars is good for a relationship aspect if they are male and female since these are male and female planets...

Moon square Moon is better than Sun square Moon. Two cardinal moons working emotions out is better than a cardinal sun trying to push their personality on to an emotional cardinal moon.

The only one I agree with are the Nessus aspects and Mars square Mars. I would not want Nessus conjunct or opposing any inner planet or node in synastry.

Change the capitalization in your title. Perhaps these are aspects that YOU cannot overcome. When it comes down to it, the synastry can be overcomed if people are willing to. You can have **** synastry that spells doom and gloom but if both of you are whiny little sh*ts with a pessimistic and/or passive take on dealing with life's problems then of course you cannot overcome it. We should also remember that even though an aspect can't be overcome doesn't mean they will end the relationship. Some people, shockingly enough, will stay in a relationship even if it is obvious there are problems in love matters. Sad but true. That alone testifies the human spirit of free will.

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posted March 20, 2018 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That being said, I agree with Manderin. Composite is so different than synastry. Now, if your composite is **** then yeah I doubt you can overcome much. Why? Because composite is combined energy. If your combined energy is **** how can you achieve any progress together? Synastry is your individual energy overlaying one another so at the end of the day it all falls down on both of you separately to step up and be brave and try to conquer the problems you face.

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posted March 20, 2018 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Either one of these titles could be true:

(1) Synastry Aspects I CANNOT Overcome

(2) Synastry Aspects DIFFICULT to Overcome

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posted March 20, 2018 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And I also had mars square mars in that 10 year relationship so....

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posted March 20, 2018 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The more I learn of Astrology is that it is very Subjective and not Objective.

Nothing is set in stone. Nothing.

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posted March 20, 2018 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for erickaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury square Mars...sucks! So many arguments.

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posted March 21, 2018 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How would Mercury in Aries square Mars in Cancer play out?

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posted March 21, 2018 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love defies the rules of reason.

It is the only exception.

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posted March 21, 2018 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe It really depends on the synastry.

I have a few examples:


Natally, my partner has an exact Moon/mars-saturn opposition with Moon/ mars being conjunct in Virgo.

His Venus in Taurus trines Uranus/ Neptune with Venus making an almost exact semisquare with his Sun so he’s sometimes vain and over the top when it comes to his Venus.


In our synastry, My saturn squares his Venus by 5 degrees and my Uranus/ Neptune trines his Venus almost exact (It’s felt because it’s almost exact. Way closer than the degrees in his natal).

In our case, he appreciates the structure to his Venus. He needs that stability because he can’t give it to himself.

Mars square mars can be worked through I believe.

We have this aspect in our synastry too.

His mars is in Virgo BUT in the 9th house.
My mars is in Sagittarius in the 7th house.

We both have Mars-pluto, mars-saturn aspects natally AND both are double whammies in synastry. Plus, we have mars-jupiter DW as well.

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posted March 21, 2018 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by erickaf:
Mercury square Mars...sucks! So many arguments.

I agree.

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posted March 26, 2018 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I appreciate all the great answers!

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posted March 31, 2018 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Either one of these titles could be true:

(1) Synastry Aspects I CANNOT Overcome

(2) Synastry Aspects DIFFICULT to Overcome


Agree with this.

These aspects may highlight a relationship that is potentially difficult or on the more challenging side for some people but I find it entirely too simplistic to say that one (or even a combination) of these aspects can make or break a relationship.

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posted April 01, 2018 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Mercury square Mars...sucks! So many arguments.

I had this with someone. We never argued. He was the easiest person to get along with and our conversation just flowed with ease.. We always knew what the other person was about to say before they said it.

We had the square, DW.

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posted April 07, 2018 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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