posted March 29, 2018 09:25 PM            

Me:

Him:

Synastry Wheel:

Composite:

posted March 30, 2018 03:22 AM            

We have quite a bit in common chart-wise: You have Asc 21 Aries, mine is 20 Aries.

You have Moon/Mars square. I have Moon Mars square.

You have Venus/Mars in Scorpio/Libra. I do too

You have Mars in 7th. I have Mars conjunct the DSC.

Your Moon in Cap is a cautious sign in matters of the heart. Not likely to just "jump right in".

And with the added Mars in Libra square, the tendency to want to rationalize (Libra) what the likely outcome will be(Cap) is compounded by the closeness of that aspect.

Careful Virgo Saturn is in trine (by sign) to the Moon-further suggesting that a careful approach to emotional expression is always adhered to.

Though your Venus is in passionate Scorpio, it conjuncts Uranus in Scorpio(by degree)-suggesting that your feelings often have extreme highs. And then suddenly cool off. Only to awake again sporadically later.

The mutual reception by sign rulership of Venus to Mars and Venus to Pluto suggests that you always want to rationalize (Libra) what is happening within you(Scorpio).

So your hot/cold tendencies may be something that you want to get to the bottom of(Scorpio) and understand mentally(Libra)

Cancer 4th house people tend to consider their emotional temperament a bit of a mystery- mostly because it is situated in the very bottom deep crevices of the chart (the Ic). So it takes introspection to get to it which becomes easier in later years of adulthood.

Though the ruler of the 4th is in the very public 10th- your motivations are always to feel secure/safe and wise(Moon in Cap).

But it is seldom clear to you WHY are that way- why the motivation to be safe is so important for instance. And that mystery resides in the Ic.

Your partner is all passion (Moon in Scorpio). And the added conjunct aspect to Saturn in Scorpio (by degree) suggests that he is fearful of letting all that unbridled passion out(Saturn). He doesn't want to be harshly judged or misunderstood.

When we consider Venus/Mars/Pluto in Leo to be conjunct by both sign and degree and the added Jupiter in Leo,the need to express oneself is heightened & is truly the core of his personality.

But there is some impediment.As the ruler of all(Venus/Mars/Pluto/Jupiter) is the Sun. And the Sun is in self deprecating, self conscious and self-critical Virgo.

So add the conjunction by sign of Mercury in Virgo(home placement) and you have someone who self doubts(a lot). And worries a lot about how they express themselves. Thereby limiting the Leo part.

He needs tons of encouragement and assurance from his mate. Can you supply that? If you can do that, this relationship can be very good.

He is not the type to pull a fast one on you on be disingenuous at all. But he does want a lot of your attention to be on him.

posted March 30, 2018 09:41 AM            

Thank you very much...You are like my soul sister!

Your interpretation/assessment is absolutely lining up with my gut, but I'm not skilled at reading charts.

I really do like this guy but I wasn't sure if he was serious about me and then there is my constant need to overthink everything... This inability to just let go and live in the moment. I'm always so scared to step out of my comfort zone.

I was supposed to go and visit with him for a few days in Feb but then I decided against it.

posted April 01, 2018 07:27 AM            

Can anyone explain what it means for his Leo planets to trine my Asc?

posted April 01, 2018 10:49 AM            

It is not like the Moon. As the Moon is often "reactive" i.e it bases its actions on how "safe" it feels and its past experiences.

But the signs in each also matters a great deal because Asc in Caps instinctive reaction to things is to be cautious, prudent and realistic.

If the Moon is in Aries, there is often a clash between the two within the individual because Aries(as akin to the 1st house) is more instinctive and impulsive. A baby bird that risks death by attempting to fly out of the nest for instance.

The baby bird does not "see" death as a possibility until it falls to it. The Asc in Cap sees limitation, restrictions and probabilities in all things.

So your Asc is in Aries- ,"Let me hug you because I feel that I really like you":
This Asc has a baby-like interaction with people most times.

However your Moon in Cap reserves this instinctive urge and maybe even curtails it with thoughts of "but how will it look to others if I hug you?" Or " What if you pull away?"and "What will people think if I am publicly rejected?" Etc.

So what happens often is that you silence these urges to respond instinctively. Its not always a success however,as the natural square sign aspect between Aries and Cap suggests that neither is silenced consistently.

So there is a tug of war and people close to you and even yourself, can't be sure how each situation will be like I.e will you be Aries or Cap?

So you might be called "moody" or "unpredictable" from one interaction to the next as you are NOT consistently your Cap Moon. Nor are you consistently your Asc in Aries when in external expression.

Your trine Asc in Aries with his Leo planets suggests that it is easier to revert to the Aries instinctive expression than careful Cap Moon.

So yes your Cap Moon can have the need to organize his life. Cap Moon tries to organize the people they love and "improve" them in some way(similarly to Virgo Moon).

But when Asc in Aries is interacting with his Leo planets,you could find yourself being more impromptu with him. More adhoc and instinctive.

So when you are with him you could find that your Moon in Cap may not show up much many times. And you see a lot more of your spontaneous, child-like "unrehearsed" self come out.

And this is your 5th house in Leo- where all his Leo planets are placed. Its the feeling of falling inlove because it requires careless abandon and "falling" for the process to retain its spark(Leo rules that).

However, this can feel terrifying to your Cap Moon. Kinda like a roller coaster ride that is both terrifying. But admittedly has its thrilling moments.

So you want to stop and get back to earth. But then you really don't. Want to put on the breaks, but really don't. Want to tell him to keep his distance, but really don't etc.

This interaction can bring out the natural inconjunct expression of Moon in Cap(your inner vulnerability)& natal 5th house Leo(your inner child)

I understand your push/pull dynamic. I have Moon in emotional and danger averse Cancer with 5th house cusp in Leo too.

When I interact with someone who has Leo placements in my 5th, sparks fly and I feel my inner self(Moon) exposed

posted April 02, 2018 04:44 PM            

Thank you sooooooooo much. I understand much better now.

As I stated in my previous post, this only further confirms what I had already been feeling. Thank you for being so detailed.

Wow, that Moon in Cap/Aries Asc. explanation gave me chills. I never understood why I sort of vacillated between the tendency to be reserved/hold back and to be impulsive/high energy.

posted April 22, 2018 01:40 PM            

"I looked at the composite and it looks pretty much like what you wrote...confusing

Jupiter is square the node which can show intellectual similarities and often a relationship in the workspace of with similar professions.

but there seems to be a lot of unconscious dynamics here.

the sun is conjunct to mercury which can give mental openness.

but there is a Uranus/pluto conjunction opposed to chiron . this is some what ominous as it can show a critical ,analytical mental connection that overlies some very volatile unconscious dynamics . this bodes that there are unconscious emotional issues underlying the conscious rapport. in addition the sun/Uranus, sun/pluto,mercury/Uranus and mercury/pluto midpoints are square to nessus. this is particularly domineering and controlling. this can manifest a very domineering and abusive impulse
in addition the sun/Venus midpoint is conjunct to the Uranus/pluto conjunction and opposed to chiron which is also a bit of a emotio0nal red flag as this unites affection feelings with domineering impulses. this is not really a healthy pattern as again, the conscious emotional interactions are actually being manipulated by unconscious dynamics that are not nurturing. this is potentially very exploitive

.the sun/Saturn midpoint is conjunct to mars indicating he is very set on enforcing his will. and eris is opposed to Saturn which give a strong sexual attraction but it is completive and not all considerate and sincerely loving.

the Jupiter/juno midpoint is conjunct to Saturn so I seems you a sense that this could be a solid relationship or that it might be good for your professional standing.

the sun/moon midpoint is conjunct to ixion which indicates the relationship's foundation are on rather antagonistic ground .again this is a exploitive impulse rather that a symbiotic nurturing relationship.