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Topic: Bad composite with EVERYONE??
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manderin
Knowflake Posts: 639
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 30, 2018 10:50 AM
  
Why is it that everyone I meet I end up having horrible composite aspects with. Saturn square Sun, Square mercury, Square moon.... NEptune squares all over the place or Uranus squares everywhere. I think this is why I can't seem to make any relationship last. Everyone I meet has these terrible deal breaking aspects that astrologers say will cut a relationship short. I'm starting to think there are probably only a few birthdays out there that people can be born on so that we can have a decent relationship. Everyone I meet h IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 797
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 30, 2018 11:00 AM
Please post your natal chart, gender and gender preference, and I'll reply to your question. quote:
Originally posted by manderin:
Why is it that everyone I meet I end up having horrible composite aspects with. Saturn square Sun, Square mercury, Square moon.... NEptune squares all over the place or Uranus squares everywhere. I think this is why I can't seem to make any relationship last. Everyone I meet has these terrible deal breaking aspects that astrologers say will cut a relationship short. I'm starting to think there are probably only a few birthdays out there that people can be born on so that we can have a decent relationship. Everyone I meet h
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AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 699
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 30, 2018 03:38 PM
Speaking of non astrology, I think that we tend to attract relationships in certain patterns because we have something inside us a pattern that might lead us to do so. For example some people are prone to abusive relationships because they have some trauma that makes them unable to stop at red flags.
Understanding the pattern by ourselves can be hard but it can help us heal and attract better relationships.Even so, can we really find relationships without some bigger challenge? There are some non astrology researches saying that most couples has a major issue or more in the relationship that they might not be able to solve.
Even if we try it might be hard to find perfect relationships. Although of course it doesn’t mean we should lower our boundaries and standards and ignore red flags. Now speaking astrologically... The charts between me and my husband are nice, but there are also hard aspects that manifested in some hard, painful issues in our relationship. We have been together for more than a decade thought. I can’t tell that we are going to last for a lifetime but at least we try to.
We have bad stuffs like Sun square Pluto, Moon square Neptune, Saturn and Pluto midpoint square Mercury and Psyche... Good stuffs are Venus and Mars conjunct Juno oppose to Jupiter and trine Saturn. Chiron conjuncts AC and NN, sextile Moon and 5ese forms a yod to Pluto. and so on. Unconscious issues sabotaging a good relationship kind of symbolism. Astrology doesn’t dictate what we do, it shows how our energy can be but we can decide if we want or not.
It shows the nature of things but our free will might choose or not choose to do something about it. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
Knowflake Posts: 619
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 03, 2018 08:11 AM
I think AriesLilith is saying this essentially, but I think we have certain lessons we need in life to help us become our true selves. As we learn these lessons, we stop attracting them to our lives. You can attract good relationships too, but you are receiving things you need to help you grow. I don't see this as a punishment, but as a gift. I have a lot of troubled relationships come to me too, so you're not alone! But, the few relationships that I have in my life that are solid and stable are more than enough to help me through. IP: Logged | |
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