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Randall
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posted April 21, 2018 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 23, 2018 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I don't think it's only transits to my chart. Because I feel like this all the time. But I'm sure certain transits probably does make it worse. This is my natal chart


Since you said you feel this way often perhaps it is depression? You have Saturn opposite Chiron at 3 degree orb and Moon square Pluto at a 4 degree orb so those two aspects could possibly cause one to have depressed feelings.

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posted April 23, 2018 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Since you said you feel this way often perhaps it is depression? You have Saturn opposite Chiron at 3 degree orb and Moon square Pluto at a 4 degree orb so those two aspects could possibly cause one to have depressed feelings.

Yeah I know it's hard to deal with sometimes.

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posted December 14, 2018 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
Hmm oh my! ok no then its nothing like what I’m going through. There is no sex involved in my case ^^. Just infatuation and sexual attraction.

With what you describe, astrology is not where you should look for answers. Its all about human psycology and brain chemicals etc. its normal to get attached to someone you have sex with. We are not made to nor wired to have casual sex. We get emotionally attached due to so many factors when being intimate that way. And you can find both medical and psychological articles about that subject. I dont know how you are able to stay detached (seemingly) and also it shows how attached you are. I think thats the real problem here that you should concider, your emotional detachment, and also not wanna let go at the same time. It sounds very ambivalent and complex! I hope you will be able to sort this out soon <3



I know so many women who have casual affairs and stay emotionally detached. I think it's a personality thing rather than a gender thing first and foremost

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posted December 15, 2018 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

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Pluto squares! Can totally understand the possessiveness you feel and the intense fear of losing him. I'm experiencing these squares now and I feel the same way although I don't have much Pluto in my chart (only a quincunx to Sun and trine Asc). We also have several Pluto aspects in synastry.

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posted January 16, 2019 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Pluto squares! Can totally understand the possessiveness you feel and the intense fear of losing him. I'm experiencing these squares now and I feel the same way although I don't have much Pluto in my chart (only a quincunx to Sun and trine Asc). We also have several Pluto aspects in synastry.


Yeah it's hard but I guess the feeling is only one sided?

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posted January 16, 2019 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah it's hard but I guess the feeling is only one sided?

Compare the natal to composite and see what it says.

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posted January 16, 2019 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Compare the natal to composite and see what it says.

The composite chart is about both people.

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posted January 17, 2019 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
The composite chart is about both people.

Compare the composite planets to natal to see how the relationship impacts each person.

https://cafeastrology.com/askanniearchives3.html

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posted January 17, 2019 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sure he feels something... Composite Neptune is conjunct his natal Moon/Asc.

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posted January 17, 2019 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm sure he feels something... Composite Neptune is conjunct his natal Moon/Asc.

What does this indicate?

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posted January 18, 2019 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What does this indicate?

He most likely feels an emotional connection.

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