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Aries23Degrees
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posted April 16, 2018 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In synastry;

If someone's Moon is conjunct your 1st house,you find it hard to hide your feelings for them. And your Moon tends to take over the interactions a lot(this especially when Moon is in Cancer)

If someone's Venus/Jupiter conjunct your 1st house, you like them. It doesn't always guarantee that you will find them physically attractive. But it does suggest that you trust them and that they make you feel good by making your outlook more optimistic. You forgive them more.

If someone's Mars and to a certain extent Pluto is conjunct your 1st house, your interactions with them tend towards being aggressive/hostile. You may even sever ties with them and hold resentment still(esp Scorpio, Cap, Leo or Aries)

There is a tendency for you to jump to conclusions about the person and prone to being bias. Mars/Pluto beings about issues you may have about prejudice or stereotypes towards that person.

I myself experienced the above. The guy had Mars in Aries on my Asc. A "jock" in every sense of the word i.e exercise and sport junkie.

I didn't like his pushy abrasive attitude and "you can do it" platitudes at work. And didn't get to know him beyond that.

Long story short, we got to talking once and I discovered we had quite a bit in common.

But with Mars involved, the "truce" didn't last for long. As I still would not hang out with him often - otherwise we'd end up in a fist fight.

And that is really the nature of Mars- its either all or nothing. When good, its fantastic. When bad, its catastrophic.

Someone's Saturn in your 1st makes you feel like you regressed to being 9 years old: you feel like you are being "managed" by the Saturn person. There is resentment towards them on one hand. But you also acknowledge that you could you could use their expertise on the other.

The Saturn person can't give you a motivational talk. You are likely to scorn their advice as a child would scorn the advice of a parent.

When a someone's Sun conjuncts your 1st, makes you more accepting of them as your advisor. You trust their leadership and are happy taking o their criticism - which you see as constructive.

They feel like a peer who has your best interests at heart. You have respect for them(especially when Sun is in Leo)

When their Neptune is on the 1st house angle,they can do NO wrong as far as you know. You never tire of giving second chances - no matter how many to times they disappoint you. You are very understanding.

If physical attraction is there, this aspect increases it considerably.

When the planets listed here act together, the results are interesting and seemingly contradictory i.e Jupiter - Saturn in 1st.

The person may be very hard on you. Not because they hate you. But because they hold high expectations for you

Also the ruling planet of the signs energy can change the dynamic i.e Sun in Scorpio
in your 1st house Scorpio increases benevolent feelings for that person.

But it also is capable of creating tension and discourse over time that may end in severing ties or outright enmity.

This is because Pluto/Mars more martial and extreme energy rule Scorpio.

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 16, 2018 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Someone's Saturn in your 1st makes you feel like you regressed to being 9 years old: you feel like you are being "managed" by the Saturn person. There is resentment towards them on one hand. But you also acknowledge that you could you could use their expertise on the other.

The Saturn person can't give you a motivational talk. You are likely to scorn their advice as a child would scorn the advice of a parent.


That’s crazy. I just realized both my parents have their Saturn on my ascendant. I feel the same way towards both of them. I’ve always felt heavy expectations were put on me. That’s on top of having Virgo on the IC. Even to this day, they still see me as a child. Hence, I don’t wanna live with any of them anymore.

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StoneMoon
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posted April 17, 2018 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have experienced this in a number of situations, but they are all Sag Mars so they are not as direct as other signs. The energy and attraction is there, both sides.

In fact, I've always made the first move even though I was the ASC/1st house person.

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litarot
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posted October 25, 2022 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for litarot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't believe everything. I've been the Saturn person in the 1st house, and the 1st house person too. I didn't feel that I was a tantrum child, on the contrary, when I was the Saturn person I noticed that the person in the house treated me with respect and listened to me very well. When I was the house, I treated the Saturn person seriously and felt myself being watched over, or cared for (even protectively) by the Saturn person. In the case of Venus in the 1st house, the person who is attracted to the house is Venus, the person in the house may not even feel anything, but they may like the way Venus treats them. From what I've studied, the person of the house is more likely to feel attraction of the same intensity as the person of Venus, if the Venus makes some aspect (Conjunction, Opposition or Trine) with the person of the ascendant.

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Stawr
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posted October 26, 2022 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A coworker has Mars in Gemini in my first house. I've been really missing him...while Mars is in Gemini. Such a simpler time for forbidden attractions.

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