posted April 16, 2018 06:05 AM
In synastry;If someone's Moon is conjunct your 1st house,you find it hard to hide your feelings for them. And your Moon tends to take over the interactions a lot(this especially when Moon is in Cancer)
If someone's Venus/Jupiter conjunct your 1st house, you like them. It doesn't always guarantee that you will find them physically attractive. But it does suggest that you trust them and that they make you feel good by making your outlook more optimistic. You forgive them more.
If someone's Mars and to a certain extent Pluto is conjunct your 1st house, your interactions with them tend towards being aggressive/hostile. You may even sever ties with them and hold resentment still(esp Scorpio, Cap, Leo or Aries)
There is a tendency for you to jump to conclusions about the person and prone to being bias. Mars/Pluto beings about issues you may have about prejudice or stereotypes towards that person.
I myself experienced the above. The guy had Mars in Aries on my Asc. A "jock" in every sense of the word i.e exercise and sport junkie.
I didn't like his pushy abrasive attitude and "you can do it" platitudes at work. And didn't get to know him beyond that.
Long story short, we got to talking once and I discovered we had quite a bit in common.
But with Mars involved, the "truce" didn't last for long. As I still would not hang out with him often - otherwise we'd end up in a fist fight.
And that is really the nature of Mars- its either all or nothing. When good, its fantastic. When bad, its catastrophic.
Someone's Saturn in your 1st makes you feel like you regressed to being 9 years old: you feel like you are being "managed" by the Saturn person. There is resentment towards them on one hand. But you also acknowledge that you could you could use their expertise on the other.
The Saturn person can't give you a motivational talk. You are likely to scorn their advice as a child would scorn the advice of a parent.
When a someone's Sun conjuncts your 1st, makes you more accepting of them as your advisor. You trust their leadership and are happy taking o their criticism - which you see as constructive.
They feel like a peer who has your best interests at heart. You have respect for them(especially when Sun is in Leo)
When their Neptune is on the 1st house angle,they can do NO wrong as far as you know. You never tire of giving second chances - no matter how many to times they disappoint you. You are very understanding.
If physical attraction is there, this aspect increases it considerably.
When the planets listed here act together, the results are interesting and seemingly contradictory i.e Jupiter - Saturn in 1st.
The person may be very hard on you. Not because they hate you. But because they hold high expectations for you
Also the ruling planet of the signs energy can change the dynamic i.e Sun in Scorpio
in your 1st house Scorpio increases benevolent feelings for that person.
But it also is capable of creating tension and discourse over time that may end in severing ties or outright enmity.
This is because Pluto/Mars more martial and extreme energy rule Scorpio.