posted April 20, 2018 02:57 PM            

Mars on my mercury would feel too invasive, very stimulating on a positive note but can go from stimulating to too invasive if Mars is not careful and will bring out my Kaali and Kaali is intense believe me, the goddess of destruction.

Asteroid Name: Kaali
Named After: The Hindu Goddess of Time and Empowerment
Asteroid #: 4227 (type it in in the additional asteroid section in Astro.com).

If Pluto is the masculine, physical destruction and transformation, Kaali is the female, emotional/mental destruction, manipulation, and mind control.

Pluto is obvious control, Kaali is psychological influence.

Kaali is one bad bi*ch.
http://sharpeastrology.com/2016/01/26/kaali-asteroid-of-empowerment/

posted April 20, 2018 03:23 PM            

Is like my Kaali on my AC square Lilith on my IC took over me and even though I was just a skinny kid and she was a teenager clearly bigger than me, we are 7 years apart, I got on top of her and overpowered her, she was very surprised.

I wish I could remember what she said.

My sister's Sun trines my Kaali EXACT, her Jupiter opposes my Dark Moon Lilith by 3d, her Venus sextiles my Dark Moon Lilith exact.

posted April 20, 2018 03:44 PM            

Tr Jupiter is opposing exact my Dark Moon Lilith activating that tsquare, I feel I am reconnecting with my power and gaining a deeper understanding of this tsquare.

posted April 20, 2018 06:42 PM            

That’s crazy. That’s why I always felt like I had so much potential and I could do literally anything.

This is literally me in my head most of the time :

I wonder what Sun conjunct Kaali in synastry means though. I hope it doesn’t mean I’m trying to control my bf. That’s the last thing I ever wanna do.

We have:

posted April 20, 2018 11:49 PM            

In synastry it can be great for sex, hot! But if he crosses a boundary with you he will wake up your kaali the wrong way. He should focus on waking it up the right way (sex) hahahaha

That is the sense that I get with Kaali

Kaali can use its power to control but I think usually they don't because they don't like to be controlled themselves so tend to be overly mindful around that and see the importance of not misusing their power on others.

Controlling my partner is the last thing I want to do or anyone. I like to empower people to use their mind and make their own decisions without been influenced by others or without been influenced by the media or the school system or politics or religion.

I know it sounds crazy but everything I mentioned I feel has power over the minds of the masses.

posted April 21, 2018 11:07 AM            

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Kaali can also be mind control, because of its ability to slay. If things are chaotic, how do we fix them? We control them. And since Kaali focuses on mental reform, it can just as easily become mental control. Is there a person that you want to do everything for (even though they might drain you), and can’t seem to leave (no matter how much they upset you)? They could have Kaali conjunct a planet of yours, or they could just be this way naturally, with Kaali conjunct their own Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or Angle (Ascendant, Midheaven, Descendant, Nadir).

Anyone can rule, but if you want people to like that you’re doing it, it doesn’t hurt to have the ability to control others perception of you, have insane influence, and survive all attacks. Kaali makes that happen.

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Ooow that is great man ^^, I have Kaali exactly conjunct my Venus haha. I guess you're also familar with it on an angle Hypatia

A guy I already know for 24 years now came back into my life last week... he's from Polen and we can hardly understand each other with words (still the same as it always was!) and I alwyassssss want to touch him, hug him.. and he's always pulling back (full Cap u know! they don't like to be hugged out of nowhere, suddenly/spontaneously, publicly! which only generates the bigger need for me to do it u know haha) until the moment he's confident enough to firmly hug me back, like only a true cap can! We had such a past man, ... it was nice and verrry natural/spontaneously.. never "true dates" (I declined i guess, always afraid to be "overruled" by him or something) although he always dreamed about me and was so in love with me (told me yesterday.. I get the impression he sort of still is) .. I feel young again because of him these days... his Kaali is exactly conjunct my Mars!

He's thinking about introducing me to his polish wife! WOW...

Btw, we had some great sex moments together back in the days. "Timing" was^always GRRREAT! (ofcourse, pure nature, no rules or Whatever)

A note on my relationship life: Always bad and big drama (never could handle the "rules" that came with it I guess, too much imposed from above // although I think I finally can these days )

Manipulating in matters of love and confidence: Venus. Ahum.. am I?

posted April 21, 2018 01:19 PM            

In my case my Kaali sextile Mercury gave me the ability early on in my life to pick up on manipulation tactics but I refuse to use that to manipulate others. Now I still can influence others psychologically bc my Kaali is on my AC but as a counselor I like to think I am using that influence in a positive way.

Synastry wise I get what you mean. I had my AC conjunct Kaali fall on this guy's Pluto and Mercury and he was captivated by me, I did seem to have a strong influence on me, I wouldn't say mind control bc I was not trying to control him or his mind, but he was hooked on me, mesmerized.

My ex his Kaali conjuncted my Agapenor and formed a grand trine with my Sun (1d) and my alma conjunct lust (exact). Add that his Sun sextile his Kaali. He did have power over me, I will always love him. Interestingly his Agapenor conjuncts my Kaali and AC. We have power over each other in the sense that we will always love each other, in this case the power is merging with agapenor so it manifests in a powerfully beautiful way. It might be why I was able to surrender to falling in love with him, I feel I have only truly "fallen in love" all the way once, I surrendered (his kaali conjunct my agapenor trine my sun) my soul (alma) through the power of sex (lust). His Kaali applying itself to my sun-agapenor-alma conjunct lust grand trine was very powerful indeed.

With that ex lover whose Sun squared my AC conjunct Kaali I felt for him a little, it was a close call. His Kaali squared my Venus exact and my mars by 1d, his kaali conjuncted my Psyche.

Falling in love is surrendering to someone's power over you and kaali allows this to happen willingly. Its a beautiful thing. Kaali I feel is an important ingredient to falling in love.

But I feel is a double edge sword, it can facilitate falling in love and creating something beautiful but it can just as easily flip and destroy it.

posted April 21, 2018 01:51 PM            

I think she excuses it in her mind bc she feels she is doing good and genuinely does not realize it bc is so ingrained in her and automatic.

posted April 21, 2018 06:47 PM            

I have a theory that Mars aspect Kaali can feel too invasive, especially if you have Jupiter or Abundantia playing into it but if you do welcome the connection I imagine it can be quite amazing and powerful but there is this thin line with this aspect that can be easily crossed.

posted April 20, 2022 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have a theory that Mars aspect Kaali can feel too invasive, especially if you have Jupiter or Abundantia playing into it but if you do welcome the connection I imagine it can be quite amazing and powerful but there is this thin line with this aspect that can be easily crossed.

I imagine his Kaali conjunct your Mars is hot but very touchy, neither wanting to relinquish control, leading to power struggles. Feeling the other is trying to dominate the other but also there been sexual attraction and tension and potential for great sexual release.

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This rings true. I have been trying to riddle out my natal Mars/Kaali conjunction and realized it is opposite this guy's Mars (by 4*), which is in turn exactly conjunct my Siva. THEN his Kaali is exactly on my South Node. My Mars/Kaali is more exactly opposite his Nessus (meanwhile, my Nessus is exactly on his Venus/Lilith). His Siva/Pluto are opposite my sun, my Pluto on his moon.

It seems like a cluster**** of power struggles and what you said here sounds like it. First it was like I invaded his space, then he was attracted and invaded mine, I pushed away, he forgot and then realized I excluded him, chased, it's just been a lot of extremely subtle power struggles and feeling invaded or like an accidental invader. Thin lines easily and unintentionally crossed! I hate this guy!!

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From Truth in Aspect Astrology:
Kaali often denies those she loves what they desire most. There is method behind this madness. In a state of lack, one has the ability to reflect on what it is they are really about, discern what is most important and focus. The material world is a distraction. Kaali asks that one's eye be kept on the prize; that of eternal wisdom.

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posted April 21, 2022 01:00 PM            

You're quote "Kaali is one bad bi*ch."
Has my 😂 so much. He and I started out in a good way on our platforms but the s. tension built up and I created a vid where I addressed him, referring to myself as a "bad bit*ch". We constantly laugh at that too.

I really overlooked this but tbh (twin/I) our Pluto energy is over the top. I was believing it was all that. Yet his kaali is Cnj my Uranus. His Kali also is parallel my 5th house. This explains more than just our Pluto(+Venus) dynamics.
The incredible effect on one another from 3000+ miles is beyond compression. I mean if it weren't for astrology I'd be further in quandary.

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I'll add specific kali Info from my studies here:
Mine is in Pisces, his is Libra.

I'm curious regarding a Moon opposite the kaali of the other.
We aspect another opposition (his) Kaali/Mars. (Mine)

We have a push/pull and he can be extremely jealous which I hope may wear down. We are very in synch in many ways.

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In our midpoint: kaali is in Sagittarius.
(0) trine our Sun.. contra parallel our 5th. BiQ both our Venus/Mars. (our Mars/Venus are near exact).

Davidson: Kaali opposite and square our AC/MC.

posted May 05, 2022 12:30 PM            

Maybe when young this comes out as a young earth would, all volcanos and destruction to build but then with time an easing of the tension?

I assume in relationships it would be a struggle for the Kali wanting to grow and create which can be seen as totally destroying what already exists making it a struggle for dominance?

Before Pluto Ereshkigal was the ruler of the underworld as well so I think Pluto presents as quite feminine in nature, makes sense being in the feminine element: secrets, manipulation, creation from darkness, etc. I think both Kali and Pluto would struggle against eachother, land grabbing, etc in a relationship.

I have Kali parallel my descendant but I also have Pluto in my 7th house so I'm not sure if I could pick out their respective influences.

posted June 26, 2022 09:39 PM            

My Kaali trines my husbands Pluto
Opposes N. Node
conjunct S. Node