posted May 08, 2018 01:58 AM
Amazing -- look at that exact Saturn-descendant/Sun-Venus conjunction! Very powerful, very compelling. Nice chemistry with Venus/Uranus and moon/Mars sextiles, and with his pile of planets in your 7th house (and your Venus and Mars in his 8th). With your Saturn right smack on your descendant, you're certainly inclined towards age gap attraction, and Saturn adds so much gravity to that angle that you're likely to mostly draw in very significant relationship rather than light-hearted, fleeting ones. His moon turns the T-square of your Mercury, Neptune/Uranus, and Mars into a grand cross, which can absolutely feel like a form of completion... he helps integrate a lot of your energy and provides a sense of balance. The tricky part here is Neptune's involvement. Especially with squares involved, it can create a beautiful, idealized illusion that doesn't reveal itself as fantasy until later on. On top of that, he has a natal Neptune square his Venus/Saturn, which can make him inclined to idealize relationships and not see the reality until Neptune's fog subsides. Your sun/Neptune square can do similar, although it also makes you very intuitive.
The composite echoes the sense of intensity with the merging of Venus and Mars in the 7th house (which are also the ASC/DSC rulers of the composite -- very powerful to have them conjunct in the relationship house), opposite Pluto and trine Neptune. There you have the dynamic of "pristine fairytale meets obsessive romance."
Are you currently romantically involved, and if so, for how long?
The challenge here is to make sure both you and he are seeing each other, and the relationship, clearly. Don't jump into anything too quickly... if what you have is real, it will last even as you move past the honeymoon stage and into 'real life' with each other. There's a lot of potential for projection and fantasy within the charts, and friction that might not be immediately apparent, so time is your best tool here. Many beautiful connections within the charts as well, so it may very well be lasting. Enjoy the ride while keeping your feet on the ground.