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Melinn
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posted May 17, 2018 12:56 PM
  
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posted May 17, 2018 12:59 PM
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posted May 18, 2018 02:35 AM
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astrosaz
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posted May 18, 2018 12:14 PM
Hmmm, I'm not too sure. I also have merc square saturn like him and I know If I'm under pressure in my personal life sometimes I can say a remark like that, like taking it out on the other person? Then I realise that I've done that and apologise. Maybe he was thinking 'I'm under pressure about this project and you're only thinking about being sick, you focus on getting better so I can focus on this project, what can I do about it now?' So he lashed out on you?... And then he realised he wasn't very sympathetic and was in the wrong so he apologised for being snarky? I would say it's a natal thing and maybe things are stressing him out behind closed doors, that or some sort of transit making him less compassionate than usual? I see there's a Mars conjunct Jupiter double whammy, in Linda's Relationship Signs book she says that Mars Conjunct/Trine/Sextile Jupiter can lead to teasing but she says this is more the Jupiter person teasing the Mars and Mars can get upset. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted May 18, 2018 12:17 PM
Jupiter expands what it touches and mars is right there. Moon in Aries, plus conjunct Mars, already makes for an aggressive person. Add Jupiter, and it'll just amplify. Sun is in 12th house, so it illuminates insecurities and fears of the 12th house person. Ideally, this would/could be transformative, in pointing out the things we have not yet dealt with.
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Melinn
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posted May 18, 2018 01:37 PM
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Melinn
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posted May 18, 2018 01:42 PM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Jupiter expands what it touches and mars is right there. Moon in Aries, plus conjunct Mars, already makes for an aggressive person. Add Jupiter, and it'll just amplify. Sun is in 12th house, so it illuminates insecurities and fears of the 12th house person. Ideally, this would/could be transformative, in pointing out the things we have not yet dealt with.
Thank you dear! Hmm so my jupiter touching his mars, can bring out more agressions in him?
He is not an agressive person at all per say. But yes he uses his agressions with his wordings I think. And so my jupiter maybe aggrevates things when he is feeling tired, stressed out etc? I don't know about his 12th house sun. He is an empathic person, but he is too cold and rational and he sucks at emotional support. I guess the good qualities of the sun disappears when in 12th house, dunno:/
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Melinn
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posted May 22, 2018 11:14 AM
I tried to have a heart to heart with my friend but Oh My Gaaawd it was like trying to talk to a wall! He refused to talk it through! I was trying to connect and talk about how I felt etc. And he just refused to talk! He just kept looking at his screen. I got so frustrated and sad. I had to walk away so he would not see how upset I was.Compared with my other guy friend who will express himself with such easy and diplomacy, and listen and give awesome feedback. But this one, he is cold as stone! Made me really upset :/ IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted May 22, 2018 02:20 PM
I think his Mars/Moon on your Venus is a source of trouble. It's attraction, but can turn to arguments pretty fast without an outlet for that energy. And in Aries, it's extra impulsive and wanting instant gratification. His Moon Mars squares his Neptune, so I don't see him as direct as you might expect. Venus in the 6th, my guess is he expresses his attraction and affection for someone in nit picking ways too- (6th house/Virgo.) I think his reply to you was probably genuine. He can be harsh and he knows it. He is attracted to you, and he genuinely likes you. IP: Logged |
Melinn
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StoneMoon
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posted May 22, 2018 08:21 PM
maybe its the pluto opposite your sun.He wants to control and "direct" you. You guys are still young and I highly doubt he knows how to handle his Pluto opposing your Sun. With his impatient Mars and Moon, he doesn't hold back well. He's impulsive, but totally indirect. Virgo and 6th house influence is only emphasizing his picking. And yes, if he is telling you your bag is too heavy, he likes you. Virgo stuff right there, as you mentioned! I maintain there is attraction, even if not sexual per se. My children have double whammies of Mars and Venus, and they cannot leave each other alone- this could be laughing and joking, cuddling, or all out fighting. It's like magnets. You can't leave the other alone. And if the third person is in your group and also has a Mars Venus interaction with you, I am willing to bet there is some competition happening between them, if even only subconsciously. This means their Mars/Venus likely interact too. Energy is feeding energy. Does he get more nit picky when the other guy is around, or if you talk about the other guy? Or just after the other guy has left? IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted May 23, 2018 12:37 PM
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StoneMoon
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posted May 23, 2018 01:24 PM
can you post their charts as synastry? And post yours too please so we can see the whole group?mars venus is chemistry. It's not always sexual attraction, but it is chemistry. So we do need to handle the energy for it to be productive.
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Melinn
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posted May 23, 2018 01:28 PM
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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
can you post their charts as synastry? And post yours too please so we can see the whole group?mars venus is chemistry. It's not always sexual attraction, but it is chemistry. So we do need to handle the energy for it to be productive.
Do you mean their synastry + mine with both?
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Melinn
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posted May 23, 2018 01:33 PM
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posted May 23, 2018 01:38 PM
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StoneMoon
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posted May 23, 2018 08:11 PM
Its interesting to me that you have soul mate connections with both of them.E has his moon/Mars on your NN and your crush has Venus on your SN. I suppose that is probably why you have a crush on the one you do, but I almost like the synastry with E and you more. I like the moon venus mars connection. I think friendship is important in lasting relationships. I also think that is something that is realized and appreciated more in older ages. I feel like early relationships usually are those we choose for growth, hence more struggle and less companionship markers. IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted May 24, 2018 01:51 AM
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