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pocketrocket
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posted May 22, 2018 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm blue, he's red.

For the 1st time i saw him it was an instant attraction.

My venus in his 12th house (secret admirer).
Also, I have some loving dreams with him.
So far - we talk a lot and like spending times together and I feel like he understands me..it's a mutual feeling.

I want to show you our synastry, we have so much in common and maybe some soul connection aspects.
Regardless, our moons are not in touch, but we have some other stuff going on..
My Venus conjunct his NN orb 3
His SUN conjunct my MOON orb 6
His Mars conjunct my Venus orb 1
His Jupiter conjunct my Venus orb 2
His Moon conjunct my Venus and Mars
My Saturn conjunct his Sun
His Saturn sextiles my Sun
Venus - Pluto DW - sextile and semisquare
Moon - Mars - DW - trine and square
Mars - Pluto - DW - sextile and square

My Eros conjunct his Psyche
His Psyche conjunct my Valentine
My Sappho conjunct his Venus
My Cupid conjuncts his Valentine

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pocketrocket
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posted May 22, 2018 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone inspired to take a look this synastry ?
1. Is it vice versa in terms of feelings?
2. what is the actual key for activation synastry?
Some crucial transit or..?

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pocketrocket
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posted May 24, 2018 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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ariesdragon
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posted May 24, 2018 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
welcome you do have some very nice aspects that's true. You're afraid to show you like him or say something? hehe
Can you post a composite?

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pocketrocket
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posted May 25, 2018 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry looks fine at first glimpse, but I'm not good for the deeper analysis, that's the reason for posting it.
Since we are not couple, I don't consider composite.

So, I will start with analysis and maybe someone with more knowledge can help me

My asc ruler is Jupiter and it is in 3rd house. This is my sensitive place (especially if someone's personal planet is making a connection with 3rd house or it's natural ruler).

He's asc is Virgo, so I look for the 12th house - Leo.
So our connection is mercury - sun and we have DW (4 and 5 orb). - assume that's good.

But, there he has a Saturn, conjunct with my asc (orb 5) which makes an opposition with my Jupiter in 3rd!(?!)

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pocketrocket
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posted May 29, 2018 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So... nobody finds this interesting?

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posted May 29, 2018 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mercury sun double whammy good for flowing conversations

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posted May 29, 2018 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol unless itís squares and oppositions

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posted May 29, 2018 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes and that's the point where we stuck - conversations

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posted June 02, 2018 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 07, 2018 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 10, 2018 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dynamics on this thread is just like in this synastry

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posted June 26, 2018 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We are working on some project together.. I forgot the energy we had before! So nice, flowing, easy.. Some our colleagues notice our vibe, it's something in the way we move, circulate around each other..

The more time we spend together, the more I feel


Our synastry - his TOB corrected:

Our Composite:

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pocketrocket
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posted June 27, 2018 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*can't change the title,so i'm asking mods to edit into: platonic synastry +composite. Thank you*

I cannot withdraw conclusion about these charts..
Virgo venus is not strong in sign, and I'm wodering does the Ve conj with his Mars, jup an nn in his 12th make it more noticable? Cause his Mars and Jup are def. felt in my 8th.
We have DW juno square NN (orb 2,3) and find it interesting..
His juno is conjuncted with my Sun and Merc and trines my Moon and Sa..

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posted July 01, 2018 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 01, 2018 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say in the composite all that energy is trapped in the 12th house. That's tough because it can be very hidden. Think about Neptune, who rules the 12th, and how hard it can be to see the reality. Plus you have Saturn conjunct Venus, which can be troublesome too. Delays, hindrances...

It can also mean a spiritual connection, but it really looks like it's not manifesting that way.

Sun conjunct Juno in the 11th, meeting as friends and coming together in union on a project seems fitting. Mercury in 11th, feels project oriented to me too.

Based on synastry I really feel the attraction is mutual. You DO have some nice aspects, but the energy of the relationship is hard to overcome. There are some nice aspects to composite moon and should you get past this hurdle I do think you could achieve some nice intimacy. But Mercury squares Neptune and all the sexual energy (ala attraction!) is caught in the 12th, and is dampened by Saturn.

I am not seeing strong hits to the composite from either of your charts (though I can't see the degrees of your individual natal charts). What I DO see is the composite Neptune hitting your ASC, and I think it's affecting your view.

Mercury is important to him, with Virgo ASC and Sun and Mercury in 3rd. You do hit his Mercury,, and you do have some earth in you that he is drawn to. His Moon is affected most closely by the composite DSC, so I would think that he can learn or grow emotionally from the relationship with you. (This can be regardless of type, whether romantic or platonic.) And Composite Mercury looks like it's close to his ASC... so the communication between you can help foster his own identity and presentation of himself.

For you, composite Pluto squares your Sun. Whatever comes of this relationship, I think it will stimulate change in who you are.

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posted July 01, 2018 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhhh, just saw something else.

You have trapped energy in your 1st and 7th houses. Notice how they begin in Sag/Gemini and skip over Capricorn/Cancer, ending in Aqua/Leo? You are drawn to Sag's to help stimulate your expression of self, and Gem's to help your development of relationships. He's a Sag Sun and he helps you access this part of yourself. On top of that, his Venus is conjunct your ASC, so he makes you feel good and beautiful, or has the potential to. This is a big part of your attraction to him. Your soul knows he can help you.

EDIT TO ADD: as for Gem, he has nothing in there, but with his 3rd house influence in his chart he emulates this quality for you. This is good for you. Ever notice you like Geminis or attract them often?

For him, he is kind of lost in his own 12th house. Even though he is Mars Jupiter, which gives him better Mars expression, he's caught in his 12th house. So he can be vague, unclear, or indirect. virgo mars loves to overanalyze and nitpick everything and this only adds to the issue. But your Venus is there, and can help him if he receives it.

So to me, it is through affection that the two of you could benefit each other. I don't know that you two will come together or not, that's up to you both. But that's basically where I see the draw.

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posted July 07, 2018 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pocketrocket     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I would say in the composite all that energy is trapped in the 12th house. That's tough because it can be very hidden. Think about Neptune, who rules the 12th, and how hard it can be to see the reality. Plus you have Saturn conjunct Venus, which can be troublesome too. Delays, hindrances...

It can also mean a spiritual connection, but it really looks like it's not manifesting that way.

Sun conjunct Juno in the 11th, meeting as friends and coming together in union on a project seems fitting. Mercury in 11th, feels project oriented to me too.

Based on synastry I really feel the attraction is mutual. You DO have some nice aspects, but the energy of the relationship is hard to overcome. There are some nice aspects to composite moon and should you get past this hurdle I do think you could achieve some nice intimacy. But Mercury squares Neptune and all the sexual energy (ala attraction!) is caught in the 12th, and is dampened by Saturn.

I am not seeing strong hits to the composite from either of your charts (though I can't see the degrees of your individual natal charts). What I DO see is the composite Neptune hitting your ASC, and I think it's affecting your view.

Mercury is important to him, with Virgo ASC and Sun and Mercury in 3rd. You do hit his Mercury,, and you do have some earth in you that he is drawn to. His Moon is affected most closely by the composite DSC, so I would think that he can learn or grow emotionally from the relationship with you. (This can be regardless of type, whether romantic or platonic.) And Composite Mercury looks like it's close to his ASC... so the communication between you can help foster his own identity and presentation of himself.

For you, composite Pluto squares your Sun. Whatever comes of this relationship, I think it will stimulate change in who you are.



Dear stonemoon, I couldn't catch up with time to reply you sooner.
Thank you so much for your insight!
I see that you nailed the issue.
We met as colegues 4yr ago and become close, even when I changed a work place. We don't see each other feequently (oncdaily basis) but we have really deep connection. I feel him so close, so familiar from the second I saw him.
Project related thing (finished couple days ago) - i asked for his help(he is in eealy impressive physical shape) and it was part time and we had a lot of fun.
But, i think you got the point. My neptune is very active, so maybe i missinterpret some unspoken signs or the way he looks at me.. i have vivid imagination and maybe i see only what i want to see
Also, i do have crush on gemini, acctual i adore gemini spirit, like saggies and sries, and you noticed well

Maybe it is oneway, but truth to be spoken, there is nothing to even try, 'csuse he is still official married and I dont want to jump in love triangle or even provoke that kind of relationship.
For now, i'm someone who he trusts and i dont want to lose him as a friend. But also i am not imune on his looks and charm

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