posted May 30, 2018 05:36 AM            

I have a doubt about north node synastry.

I have had ex-bf that we were not compatible have mercury conjunct my north node, and that relationship was not the best.

I had also met other potential suitors with Sun/moon/etc in Taurus (my NN is in Taurus) and nothing happened, some of them ran away from even the beginning phase.

The people that are strongly Taurus that weirdly try to influence me are not romantic, are usually mother-in-laws (all of them were Taurus), teachers, etc.

I was reflecting on the past and wondering, why would that be?

Now I am in a relationship that is hard, but I have ASC conjunct his North Node/Moon and Sun also trine his North Node/Moon, his ASC trines my north node and it hurt me a lot. Lots of suffering, I developed anxiety and other issues.

Wasn't North Node in romance supposed to be good or positive?

Anybody have similar experiences?

posted May 30, 2018 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
NN isn't always good. It's just an enhacer. So generally speaking if it conjuncts a benefic it's good, if it enhances a malefic it's bad... But that's just generality. The whole chart must be looked at.

Also, it doesn't matter how compatible two people are if one person is not attune to relationships. There was a couple who broke up a few years back and the woman kept asking what happened to them since they were so compatible. The most compatible couple she knew. But he was a philanderer and spend thrift and he was very selfish. His natal chart SHOWED that he was likely to be all of these things! So yes they were extremely compatible in synastry and composite, but none of that trumps a person's Natal chart. If a person is not "relationship material" great synastry with them isn't going to change that.

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Makes sense, is not that those people were bad, maybe I just don't have the Taurus energy, because all men with strong Taurus were attracted to me and sometimes I too, but dunno, it never goes anywhere.

I have no planets/angles in Taurus, and I am a Sag, my chart is basically a bundle formation with Capricorn and Aquarius, maybe that is the reason? i don't even know how to solve my own north node inside my chart lol.

But I really attract men with strong Taurus just it never worked romantically (not even a date past). Mostly teachers, mother in laws or weird connections.

posted May 30, 2018 07:46 PM            

Once you learn what you need, you can move on. Also, you can choose free will to not pursue the lesson with someone, and life will present you with another one.

posted May 30, 2018 09:02 PM            

For example, if the native receiving energy to their nnode is not evolved and is not in the mindset for internal growth, it will not manifest in a relationship. They may want to search for someone who fits more into their comfort zone because they are not yet equipped to handle the energy signals being triggered to their North node.

This is a highly sensitive and vulnerable point in our charts. It may take a lifetime or missed altogether for people who are closed off and not open to internal growth.

For others who are predispositioned to wanting to evolve, it may be much easier to accept energy input to their nnode.

In other words, it may take more time for some to accept the energy linked to their nnode to understand what is needed to tap into what they are missing. Lots of people don't really care, and are consumed with immediate gradification instead of evolving to the next level.