posted June 10, 2018 06:37 AM            

I have 12 house in aries, some degrees of the house in taurus

I do not know if it part of self-undoing (maybe you reveal things to these people knowing they could harm you) or they are just real enemies you are not aware. the way i have experienced that with 4 people having their mars in my 12 was treason one way or another.

they may even liked you. one way was too into me, but when i rejected him, he ended up insulting me in a ways that revealed that he always had a negative opinion of me. he just wanted to be laid and because he did not manage to reach that level of intimacy with me, his frustrations revealed what he thought of me.

another woman, a colleague. she was lesbian and we had a very beautiful friendship although i suspect she was attracted to me. at some point she conspired against me in the company i worked for. she was never assertive with me, so what she did not like about me, she did not express it openly. so you know what happens when someone cannot be assertive with you. they need to express it somehow... she decided to go for critizising my managing style rather than confronting me. we were closed friends and i adored her. i felt totally betrayed.

3rd person, a colleague. she would be more assertive as her mars in aries (the other two were mars in taurus), but she also managed to betray me. she was not my friend and i think i sort of sabotaged myself when i told her something in confidence that i knew she could share or intercommunicate and harm me. i think she triggers the self-undoing side of me..

4th person, my niece, when i have scolded them for something, she has come pasive-aggressive and has done things exactly to harm me with an innocent face. i do not trust her at all. she has mars in taurus

could you tell your experience?

I suspect that mars in 12 gets perceived by the house person as indirect, passive-aggressive, like you feel the martian energy is there, but not openly as if it were in your 1st house.