posted June 21, 2018 07:11 PM            

i would like to ask you for an advice.
I have a crush on some man.
I am aries born 21.03.1990, asc Leo, moon in cap, venus and mars in aquarius.

he is Leo born 11.08.1989
dont know his birth time but i know he has moon in sag, venus and mars in virgo.

i am very interested in him. ive known him since 3 years and every year i try to get closer and closer.
last year i mean at the end of 2016 we were flirting very heavily , everyone woudl notice that.

but weve never kissed nor slept with each other.
i had an inner blockage before.
now im older and i have a different mindset maybe it was a problem as well.

BUT weve meet again last week.
i am still interested even though im dating other men.

i would like to date him as he is a challenge for me.

he is very friendly and open. of course diplomatic as before...
i am afraid he only see me as a friend.
he likes when i talk about my studies my work. i think he likes intellectual stimulation. helikes when i work and i study and i challenge myself.

maybe because of his venus in virgo?
i dont know...

i still wonder if there is any chance that i can catch him somehow . i know it sounds terrible but i feel more powerful now and confident to do it.

what to do to attract leo man with venus and mars in virgo?

or maybe he doesnt want anyone? he is single, has been for ages!!

i dont wanna rush or push anything but i want to try.
but is it worth it?
thank you

posted June 23, 2018 08:57 PM            

However...

If you really want to attract this guy, here's a few pointers:

Be confident but not arrogant. Arrogance is a big turn off for people with Venus in Virgo.

Be yourself. People may think this is contradictory to all the Virgo placements he has, but at the end of the day, Virgo likes to see flaws because it makes a person raw and real. If he does notice your flaws, don't take it personally.

Be humble, down-to-earth, or grounded. People with heavy earth influence don't appreciate delusional people.

Put effort into looking your best. His feminine planets (Moon & Venus) is a good clue to this. Clothes that are tight-fitted (Virgo) will be very attractive to him. You can also accessorize with large jewels or accessories that are big and bold (Saggitarius). Even accessories that came from foreign places might also be of interest.

Always have something of substance to say or discuss about. His Moon and Mercury indicate he does not like idle meaningless talk (like gossip and complaints). Discuss things that matter.

Have an eye for detail.

Take things slow. If you rush into it, you might scare him off.

Keep things interesting (Venus square Uranus). This shouldn't be too hard for. you since you have Venus in Aqua.

Have class, manners, and good hygiene. Smell nice, dress nice, act nice. Leo and Virgo together in a natal chart loves elegance. I imagine in a man, this is something that he would be attracted to. Make sure you carry yourself in a mature and respectable way.

and lastly, be open to personal improvement.

The only thing I can say too is just watch out for that Venus square Uranus. He might be either a commitment-phobe, jump from person to person, fall in and out of love quickly, etc. He might also have trouble expressing his true feelings (Moon square Mercury).

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Gemini Rising
Sun in Leo (2nd house)
Moon in Cancer (1st house)
Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.)
Venus in Virgo (3rd house)
Mars in Libra (5th house)

posted June 24, 2018 09:12 AM            

If you'd like, I can tell you what I'd find attractive and what appeals to me (trade secrets, shh!) and see if it helps you get with him and understand him?

posted June 24, 2018 03:04 PM            

He was very attractive, sweet, strong personality and i was hooked

posted June 24, 2018 03:15 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Last year i had a sweet encounter on a guy born a day before your crush

He was very attractive, sweet, strong personality and i was hooked

He is now engaged to a virgo woman (cap moon)

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posted June 24, 2018 03:50 PM            

He is a Leo with Venus in Virgo and Mars in Scorpio. I haven't done anything I feel to get his attention except say a few semi-shocking strategic things to see his reaction and if we are a good fit. I think he just thinks I am cute and is curious about me.

I admire his quiet persistence. I have sun in virgo with venus conjunct mars in Leo on his sun and all is falling in my 8th.

posted June 25, 2018 08:04 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Quite frankly, I don't think it's a good idea to change yourself for anyone just because you like them. True colors come out later on in the relationship.

However...

If you really want to attract this guy, here's a few pointers:

Be confident but not arrogant. Arrogance is a big turn off for people with Venus in Virgo.

Be yourself. People may think this is contradictory to all the Virgo placements he has, but at the end of the day, Virgo likes to see flaws because it makes a person raw and real. If he does notice your flaws, don't take it personally.

Be humble, down-to-earth, or grounded. People with heavy earth influence don't appreciate delusional people.

Put effort into looking your best. His feminine planets (Moon & Venus) is a good clue to this. Clothes that are tight-fitted (Virgo) will be very attractive to him. You can also accessorize with large jewels or accessories that are big and bold (Saggitarius). Even accessories that came from foreign places might also be of interest.

Always have something of substance to say or discuss about. His Moon and Mercury indicate he does not like idle meaningless talk (like gossip and complaints). Discuss things that matter.

Have an eye for detail.

Take things slow. If you rush into it, you might scare him off.

Keep things interesting (Venus square Uranus). This shouldn't be too hard for. you since you have Venus in Aqua.

Have class, manners, and good hygiene. Smell nice, dress nice, act nice. Leo and Virgo together in a natal chart loves elegance. I imagine in a man, this is something that he would be attracted to. Make sure you carry yourself in a mature and respectable way.

and lastly, be open to personal improvement.

The only thing I can say too is just watch out for that Venus square Uranus. He might be either a commitment-phobe, jump from person to person, fall in and out of love quickly, etc. He might also have trouble expressing his true feelings (Moon square Mercury).

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Hello,
thank you so much for the answer. I really appreciate it and i must say i dont want to change for a man.
I just wanted some 'hints' in regards to his personality or character.
I know some leos but i know only their sun sign and as we all know its not enough to read a person.

From my experience this man liked when i was a good student was eager to help me a lot . But on the other hand was very touchy and actually flirted with me.
I do not know its because actually i am attractive or he liked my intelligence. ( lol).

posted June 25, 2018 08:04 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
This guy's chart almost looks like mine! Nearly all similar placements.
(most of what Solar Leo Queen said is true lol)

If you'd like, I can tell you what I'd find attractive and what appeals to me (trade secrets, shh!) and see if it helps you get with him and understand him?

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posted June 25, 2018 05:34 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by myapie:
hello, yes! if you would like or have time to tell me i'd appreciate it very much !

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Okay, well, here goes. He might really hate fakery. So, playing games or being manipulative would be a huge turn off. Being selfish, self centered are also turn offs. Show selflessness.

If someone is too full of themselves, it can make me head the other way. If I am attracted to someone, and they're cocky about it like "yes I'm so hot everyone thinks I'm hot ;D of course you like me!" That kind of narcissism is disgusting to me.

Solar Leo Queen makes a good point about not changing yourself for another. It's not good.

If this guy is anything similar to me, he'll smell it a mile away if there's any insincerity or "pretending" to be something that does not come naturally to you. If you do manage to get into a relationship, and he realizes you are not who he thought, he will likely feel upset and fooled, and be quite unhappy with you, so be careful. Be as authentic as possible and only draw on qualities you genuinely possess.

Avoid being to loud, obnoxious and attention seeking (not saying you are, but avoid it).

Talk to him about what you're passionate about, and of course, as him as many questions as possible. Show you wish to know him and his ideas. He'll like exploring your mind and, if he likes you, a good sign he has trust for you is if he openly shares his thoughts. If he shares things with you, it is important to him, so don't take it for granted, because his opening up means he values you, and hopes you value him in return. Behaving crassly and nonchalant about important things may be a turn off. Go slow and don't be too pushy.

Avoid dressing too provocatively at first. Provocative dressing comes later after a relationship is established. If you look over the top sexy, he may just think you're substituting your body for your mind. Of course he'll probably find you sexy, but he will hesitate because he may not believe finding someone sexy is grounds enough for a relationship.

He may like to be helpful and do things for you, if he does, appreciate what he does, because it is how he shows affection and care. If you tell him not to do anything for you, then it will feel like you are rejecting his displays of affection.

He may like to share ideas and philosophies. There is more to him than meets the eye, so patience is key, and if you enjoy him sharing ideas, then that's a good sign. Also, since you said he likes to hear what you have to say, that also means there is some good rapport.

Also, show you can be serious, responsible, and a self sufficient adult. Avoid too much heavy whining. Gratitude is important. Show you can work hard and diligently.

and #1: be as up front and honest, sincere as possible. No BS policy. If you want him, after getting closer and closer, literally tell him how you feel. Tell him everything. His admiration and respect for you may go up 1000% because your blunt sincerity when you confess your feelings takes courage and maturity.

posted June 26, 2018 05:32 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Okay, well, here goes. He might really hate fakery. So, playing games or being manipulative would be a huge turn off. Being selfish, self centered are also turn offs. Show selflessness.

If someone is too full of themselves, it can make me head the other way. If I am attracted to someone, and they're cocky about it like "yes I'm so hot everyone thinks I'm hot ;D of course you like me!" That kind of narcissism is disgusting to me.

Solar Leo Queen makes a good point about not changing yourself for another. It's not good.

If this guy is anything similar to me, he'll smell it a mile away if there's any insincerity or "pretending" to be something that does not come naturally to you. If you do manage to get into a relationship, and he realizes you are not who he thought, he will likely feel upset and fooled, and be quite unhappy with you, so be careful. Be as authentic as possible and only draw on qualities you genuinely possess.

Avoid being to loud, obnoxious and attention seeking (not saying you are, but avoid it).

Talk to him about what you're passionate about, and of course, as him as many questions as possible. Show you wish to know him and his ideas. He'll like exploring your mind and, if he likes you, a good sign he has trust for you is if he openly shares his thoughts. If he shares things with you, it is important to him, so don't take it for granted, because his opening up means he values you, and hopes you value him in return. Behaving crassly and nonchalant about important things may be a turn off. Go slow and don't be too pushy.

Avoid dressing too provocatively at first. Provocative dressing comes later after a relationship is established. If you look over the top sexy, he may just think you're substituting your body for your mind. Of course he'll probably find you sexy, but he will hesitate because he may not believe finding someone sexy is grounds enough for a relationship.

He may like to be helpful and do things for you, if he does, appreciate what he does, because it is how he shows affection and care. If you tell him not to do anything for you, then it will feel like you are rejecting his displays of affection.

He may like to share ideas and philosophies. There is more to him than meets the eye, so patience is key, and if you enjoy him sharing ideas, then that's a good sign. Also, since you said he likes to hear what you have to say, that also means there is some good rapport.

Also, show you can be serious, responsible, and a self sufficient adult. Avoid too much heavy whining. Gratitude is important. Show you can work hard and diligently.

and #1: be as up front and honest, sincere as possible. No BS policy. If you want him, after getting closer and closer, literally tell him how you feel. Tell him everything. His admiration and respect for you may go up 1000% because your blunt sincerity when you confess your feelings takes courage and maturity.

Do what you will with all that, and I hope it helps somewhat.

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Hello it is very helpful.
I mean i dont change for a certain man but sometimes we need to help the reality.

Anyway i know he has venus square uranus and all about the commitment and relationship is a true. the problem is that i findhim veyr attractive in a way that he doesnt pressure me. previous men have been very attracted to me and they were pressuring me all the time. after some weeks of dating they dissapeared. that is why i hate intense relations or dating.

i like leo man because he does his own thing and probably is selfish. BUT last year he turned me down a bit because was too much involded at work and was forgetting about me.

i was apologising his behaviour because we were friends then and i didnt want to pressure him. but now i see if a man wants he will go after you.

so maybe i have been dilusional.

anyways, i am posting our synastry chart. i ve taken a look at it already as i think we are not very similar. maybe some planets in my 5th and 8th house.

but im not really sure if its worth to think of this man?

thank you for the honest answer.