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Topic: Lack of Moon aspects in Synastry
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2896 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 08:17 PM
Is it just me or does this make things feel really awkward between two people? I've had friends and past interests that did not aspect my moon or I don't aspect them and I've always felt so awkward. There's been people whose Saturns make a hard aspect to my Moon, yet I feel more comfortable around them than I do the latter. I just can't seem to "get" such people who have this with me in synastry. Everything else could be aspected, but if the moon is not, chances are, we won't really connect. I feel like an unaspected moon can make or break a relationship. What do you think? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 1309 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 08:52 PM
I think overlays to the 4th house, and also the IC ruler making aspects to the others IC ruler or planets would help offset this. Moon conjunct ASC or DSC of the other person or in the 1st or 7th will also help or conjunct the ruler of the others 1st or 7th. Also having moons in compatible elements would help, so earth-water, fire-air or in the same element, even if not in aspect will help greatly. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 09:10 PM
Not for me, I feel more comfortable around my dad who I have an unaspected moon and venus with, then I do my brother whose moon conjuncts mine, and makes a bunch of positive aspects to both charts.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9374 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 10:10 PM
I get you but it depends, like when I don't have moon aspects but their moon falls in my 4th or vice versa I feel very comfortable with them.Example: His moon fell on my 4th and paralleled my Moon. Example: His moon falls right on my IC and opposes my Sun, his moon also parallels my Pluto and my moon trines his Pluto. Example: His venus (chart ruler) in the 4th house conjuncts my 4H ruler and this falls in my 8th house, comfort and intimacy is strong. So no just bc you don't have moon aspect moon does not mean you won't feel comfortable and safe and at home with other. With my ex we had moon conjunct and parallel moon plus my southnode conjunct his IC and Vertex and 7th house Ruler on his IC all squaring my Moon right on his DC. I felt so comfortable with him I kissed him the moment I saw him LOL. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9374 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 26, 2018 10:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by LaceyLeigh: Not for me, I feel more comfortable around my dad who I have an unaspected moon and venus with, then I do my brother whose moon conjuncts mine, and makes a bunch of positive aspects to both charts.
Very interesting! Does your dad have stuff falling in your 4th house?? or do you have stuff falling in his 4th house? Or do either of you aspect each other's 4th house ruler? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2716 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 26, 2018 11:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I get you but it depends, like when I don't have moon aspects but their moon falls in my 4th or vice versa I feel very comfortable with them.Example: His moon fell on my 4th and paralleled my Moon. Example: His moon falls right on my IC and opposes my Sun, his moon also parallels my Pluto and my moon trines his Pluto. Example: His venus (chart ruler) in the 4th house conjuncts my 4H ruler and this falls in my 8th house, comfort and intimacy is strong. So no just bc you don't have moon aspect moon does not mean you won't feel comfortable and safe and at home with other. With my ex we had moon conjunct and parallel moon plus my southnode conjunct his IC and Vertex and 7th house Ruler on his IC all squaring my Moon right on his DC. I felt so comfortable with him I kissed him the moment I saw him LOL.
I agree my moon is unaspected but the persons moon falls in my 4th house. This person feels like family to me. And I feel comfortable with them. It's not like that with other people. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9374 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 27, 2018 12:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I agree my moon is unaspected but the persons moon falls in my 4th house. This person feels like family to me. And I feel comfortable with them. It's not like that with other people.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 97682 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 03, 2018 09:48 PM
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 03, 2018 10:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Very interesting!Does your dad have stuff falling in your 4th house?? or do you have stuff falling in his 4th house? Or do either of you aspect each other's 4th house ruler?
If his time of birth is correct, my moon conjuncts his ic. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 7225 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2018 11:00 PM
I have an out of bond Moon ( 28' in declinations) in Gemini, and my Moon feels enough on her own, so not having aspects /being unaspected in synastry is okay with me, I am fine, I am already too much on my own. When there are good aspects, I feel it immediately, we get all chirpy and excited out of nothing, we be jumpy. But when there are hard aspects from hard planets like Satty or Mars or Sun, it's bad, my out of bond Moon doesn't like to be squared. It is not working, at all.IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 04, 2018 01:00 AM
My natal Gemini Moon is also OOB. I welcome harmonious synastry aspects. Greatest love of my lifetime has Out of Bounds Libra Moon in trine.This all fits my experience: https://mountainastrologer.com/tma/over-the-top-stories-from-the-out-of-bounds/ OOB natal Moon can be very intuitive; have transparent emotional boundaries; be connected to the subconscious; live a highly emotional life; and have an empathetic nature. quote: Originally posted by Orange: I have an out of bond Moon ( 28' in declinations) in Gemini, and my Moon feels enough on her own, so not having aspects /being unaspected in synastry is okay with me, I am fine, I am already too much on my own. When there are good aspects, I feel it immediately, we get all chirpy and excited out of nothing, we be jumpy. But when there are hard aspects from hard planets like Satty or Mars or Sun, it's bad, my out of bond Moon doesn't like to be squared. It is not working, at all.
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