posted July 04, 2018 05:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Please tell me your experience/opinion with any of these aspects. I always have this in synastries since most of the people I attract and am attracted to have similar planets.
I am always the NN in the conjuction. My NN conjuct their Venus and Saturn.
My Venus and Mars opposite their NN.

I've read that the NN aspects in synastry indicate that there will be no relationship in this life time. While South Node aspecta indicate that the relationships will be short since the SN person will feel held back.. So it feels like Node aspects in synastry are no good no matter what?

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SN connection is not necessarily short lived. Me and my partner survived 14 years with SN-Sum conjunction ...

I know someone who has Venus on my NN. I was shocked by the attraction he felt towards me, he's 7 years younger, married, two kids already. Not going to happen in this lifetime, I do not feel the attraction but I felt sympathy.

posted July 04, 2018 06:39 AM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
SN connection is not necessarily short lived. Me and my partner survived 14 years with SN-Sum conjunction ...

I know someone who has Venus on my NN. I was shocked by the attraction he felt towards me, he's 7 years younger, married, two kids already. Not going to happen in this lifetime, I do not feel the attraction but I felt sympathy.

I also met someone who had NN in the same place as my Sun. You can really feel the hesitation on his side. With all my Sag energy, 5 planets there I am everything he needs to become in this lifetime. The attraction was first on his sidethen i gradually learned to like him. I have a SN in Sag but much further Deg. He has Mercury on my NN in Gemini.

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posted July 04, 2018 12:02 PM            

They can choose not to.

NN-venus can happen in this lifetime as a romantic pairing, but may also manifest as friend/teacher etc. It's also likely to happen later in life once the NN person has started to actively move towards their NN path.

I am the venus in a very tight NN conjunction in synastry. If it happens between us, it will be several years hence. Interestingly, he has had interest in someone whose venus is exactly on his SN - they have a very different connection. Very easy, light and immediate. One that would be fun to start with but I cannot see it lasting long term.

posted July 04, 2018 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:
SN conjunctions don't need to be short-lived, especially if there are also NN conjunctions. They signify a past-life connection that needs to be resolved in this one. When it is resolved, the SN person will eventually feel the need to move on and learn lessons more connected to the NN.

They can choose not to.

NN-venus can happen in this lifetime as a romantic pairing, but may also manifest as friend/teacher etc. It's also likely to happen later in life once the NN person has started to actively move towards their NN path.

I am the venus in a very tight NN conjunction in synastry. If it happens between us, it will be several years hence. Interestingly, he has had interest in someone whose venus is exactly on his SN - they have a very different connection. Very easy, light and immediate. One that would be fun to start with but I cannot see it lasting long term.

Our connection is much deeper, and very different in tone. It can be hard to dissect though as my NN is also conjunct his moon, so we definitely have a future-focus surrounding us.

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I read somewhere that it is great if there are both NN and SN aspects in synastry but I thought that it had to be from the same person.. ie, my Venus conjuct his SN and my Moon conjuct his NN. I am always conjucting their SN and they conjuct my NN so I thpught that this case is not considered positive.
The last one is attracted to heavy Lei girls (his SN in Leo) Pluto and Moon square both his Nodes so he doesn't lean to any of the Nodes but seems to like his SN.
Me on the other hand I never ever attracted Cancers (SN even though I have Cancer Sun ASC and Mercury plus Moon in Pisces) yet I never liked Cancer men. alla of them have heavy Capricorn in their chart so I guess I am attracted to my NN.