posted July 22, 2018 08:14 AM            

For an example, the classical example would be Uranus connections. Uranus squares in both synastry and composite always have something to do with "being away" from each other, but this can happen in numerous ways. People often think that it means that one or both in the relationship will be unavailable emotionally, or they will be bored with routine. But in my opinion it often also shows that some force outside of the relationship makes it complicated to stay together. It is these "real events" that I call them, which just seems to cause complications, such as one person who havs to travel away, or that people outside of the relationship have a hard time accepting it.

Another example could be Saturn squares. When people first meet, they have something "with them" which would be this "luggage" they bring into the relationship. With Saturn squares the example is clearly a heavy burden, which puts the relationship down. Or make one or the other person in the relationship seem more strict from the beginning. But this could just as well be because of their personal experiences, earlier upbringing and so on.

I don't know if anyone can follow my thoughts, but I just mean that even though the aspect doesn't seem to show themselves in any "obvious" way, they are always there somewhere and felt in one way or another. Whether that be real events, or a double meaning which can be hard to understand.

posted July 22, 2018 09:45 AM            

Saturn difficult aspects give me so many obstacles that it's practically impossible for me to be with that person
, like the world will go upside dow in order to for me to not be with that person, since it's always been Saturn (me) square Mars (them) we couldn't be physically close and I don't mean sexually, I mean we couldn't see each other literally and the problems would always occure to me.

Now with Uranus. Oh God.. First of all I have all these natally. Uranus and Neptune conjuct DSC in Capricorn both opposite Sun in 12th H. I think that we attract exactly what our chart wants, in my case it is way less than my Neptune and Pluto would like.

Whatever Uranus represents I have it all at the same time with same person. They live far away (like maybe an hour or two but it will be both difficult for us to meet on a daily basis because of our physical distance). I meet them through internet and we mainly communicate via internet (I mean I know everyone does in this day but I mean that 90%
if not more of our communication is literally via internet). They are from different countries I mean their origin. They either have Aqua/Uranus aspects/a packed 11th H.

With Neptune it is always platonic rationships.

I've gone to the next level though with Uranus, Neptune and Saturn. The last one I am obsessed with has literally every Uranian and Neptunian and Saturnian aspect you could imagine to an extreme.

Not only he is from another country literally, he speaks a different langua he has even different skin color he is an artist and a drug addict our relationship couldn't be more platonic than this, he works hard for his career in fact he is a workaholic and a bit strict/cold he has that daddy vibe (Saturn)

Don't get me wrong I don't just speak about my chart or their charts natally we have Uranus, Neptune and Saturn aspecta in synastry too. But it definately plays a role that we have same natal "issues" that are repeated in our synastry

I hope I am making sense, I'm nit a native English speaker.

posted July 22, 2018 10:50 PM            

In classic Neptune fashion, she misrepresented her true condition (selfish control, not open to intimacy) while claiming to be submissive attracted to much older romantic partners. Her 8H Vesta conj my Aries Sun--Eros square her Cap Neptune.