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astrosaz
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posted August 07, 2018 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Disclaimer - I know there is Venus square Uranus and Neptune but unfortunately I can't do anything about that as I have it with pretty much everyone. ( Anyone born earlier I have Venus square Saturn with and anyone later I have sun square Uranus and anyone around my age their Saturn squares my stellium so lucky me ) there is no winning, I just have to accept these generational aspects.

I DON'T KNOW THE OTHER PERSONS BIRTH TIME ( I don't want to make him ask his Mum n make me look like an even bigger weirdo witch than I am haha )

For the first time in my life I have found someone I'm compatible with on a physical level in every way. Some of this is certainly to do with my age, discovering my voice, confidence and owning and showing my 'Scorpioness' BUT I know and feel something else going on here but I can't pin point in the chart what It Is.

It's NOT just chemistry or vibes there's something not only unconcious but concious yet I don't know how to put my finger on it... Anyway I want to know what in the chart is leading to this uncontrallable and 'exposing' exhange because I feel surely it can't only be Mars Square Uranus? Although now that I'm typing this I'm beginning to think all the arrows are pointing in that direction.

Is this a more potent reaction because I have a 7th house in Aqua or my Uranus being in the 5th? I feel like surely there Is more to this. I thought Venus/Mars was supposed to be more 'this feeling' that I'm feeling but I've had those aspects and it's nothing compared to what I'm experiencing now energy wise. Venus/Mars aspects were sexy and passionate but not as wild and free and exposing as this.


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StoneMoon
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posted August 07, 2018 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I think the Moon trine Moon is definitely at play, bringing you closer and providing a profound connection. Add to that DW Mercury Uranus contacts, you have great exchange of ideas and conversations that bring growth and expansion to you both. Mars Pluto conjunct is very compelling. Nde contacts for both of you...

And then there is a nice resonance- you are both Sun Mercury people, which strengthens the importance of Mercury Uranus aspects. You both really value and need the stimulation mentally. You both are Air Venus, so even though they don't connect, they still resonate. Aries Mars and Scorpio Mars are very different, yet both very Martial.

I kind of like this synastry and feel like there are some nice things available to both of you.

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Plut0nian2
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posted August 07, 2018 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I opened a thread a few weeks ago asking about almost the same thing.

With the ones I fall for their Venus and/or Mars is quincunx my Venus and Mars.

The weird thing is that with those people I have the most in common when it comes to what Venus represents.
While with Venus signs compatible with mines (fire and air) we have nothing in common at all?

Their Venus and Saturn (I forgot to mention they all have Saturn conjuct Venus and both mak quincunx) are in my 7th H or at least conjucting it. So I am wondering if it has to do with that. I see that you have many of your planets in his 7th H. Plus Moon trine moon which is very beautiful. Feelings don't have to do with Venus. Venus is superficial it has to do with tastes values etc. Moon is More important. How does that Uranus and Neptune square Mars works by the way?

*Plus Neptune is the higher octave of Venus, while Pluto of Mars.

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posted August 07, 2018 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No Venus aspects--don't understand the tastes of the other

No Mars--don't understand the drives and goals of the other--how they go after what they want

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hypatia238
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posted August 07, 2018 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro what you are definitely without a doubt in my mind experiencing is Northnode/Pluto conjunct Mars in combo with Mars on the AC.

I had that with my ex, mars conjunct pluto in composite with Mars on the AC in synastry, amazing sex that reaches the depth of your soul.

The guy I am seeing now we have pluto/mars double whammy and pluto aspect northnode double whammy and the sex is amazing too.

^^these two guys are the best sex of my life.

I also have venus/mars double whammy with both but is not that why the sex is so great although I do think people should get involve with people they have venus/mars and sun/moon aspects with along with pluto/mars in synastry or composite, that is just my opinion.

^^ I have all that with both of them!!!

Also check Lust and Psyche.

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featherlightly
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posted August 07, 2018 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post the composite? It looks as though you might have a stellium with Venus, Mars, sun, and Mercury all conjunct, which would indicate (assuming there’s already a baseline attraction) a relationship that’s very much about merging those masculine and feminine energies, cough cough.

Just eyeballing the charts, it also looks like both of you have your sun/Mercury conjunctions opposite the other person’s Venus/Mars midpoint, which can also indicate a strong sexual element (especially being a double-whammy).

Some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with someone whose north node was conjunct my Mars, so it’s also possible that your growth-promotion role in his life (you as the Mars/Pluto person) involves sexual expression, raw drive, transformation through sex, etc.; you’re called to bring all that Scorpionic sexual intensity to the table (your Mars/Pluto being in the sign they naturally rule, no less!).

If there’s something about his physicality that’s just totally hot to you, I’d also suspect some strong aspects to his ascendant from your chart. Maybe his ASC is conjunct your Mars/Pluto, which would do the trick. If he’s born later in the day, his moon would also slide into your 8th house, which is a very sexy placement.

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posted August 07, 2018 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4l6TLGXhsuA

Synastry Astrology - Partners Pluto conjunct other partners North Node/Rahu

Add that pluto/northnode conjuncts mars. Pluto and mars both rule sex and when they come together specially if the nodes are also involved is mind blowing sex lol.

Watch that video!

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astrosaz
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posted August 07, 2018 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StoneMoon:
Well I think the Moon trine Moon is definitely at play, bringing you closer and providing a profound connection. Add to that DW Mercury Uranus contacts, you have great exchange of ideas and conversations that bring growth and expansion to you both. Mars Pluto conjunct is very compelling. Nde contacts for both of you...

And then there is a nice resonance- you are both Sun Mercury people, which strengthens the importance of Mercury Uranus aspects. You both really value and need the stimulation mentally. You both are Air Venus, so even though they don't connect, they still resonate.


@Stonemoon Thanks for the reply. We haven't talked too deeply about too much yet as it just started off as nothing but a dalliance that is leading to more, but I can feel the moon connection approaching. Yes we both have Air Venus, I wonder if my Venus in the 3rd also could 'Geminize' it and make us get on a little more, what do you think?


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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
With the ones I fall for their Venus and/or Mars is quincunx my Venus and Mars.

The weird thing is that with those people I have the most in common when it comes to what Venus represents.
While with Venus signs compatible with mines (fire and air) we have nothing in common at all?

Their Venus and Saturn (I forgot to mention they all have Saturn conjuct Venus and both mak quincunx) are in my 7th H or at least conjucting it. So I am wondering if it has to do with that. I see that you have many of your planets in his 7th H. Plus Moon trine moon which is very beautiful. Feelings don't have to do with Venus. Venus is superficial it has to do with tastes values etc. Moon is More important. How does that Uranus and Neptune square Mars works by the way? Their Venus and Saturn (I forgot to mention they all have Saturn conjuct Venus and both mak quincunx) are in my 7th H or at least conjucting it. So I am wondering if it has to do with that. I see that you have many of your planets in his 7th H. Plus Moon trine moon which is very beautiful. Feelings don't have to do with Venus. Venus is superficial it has to do with tastes values etc. Moon is More important. How does that Uranus and Neptune square Mars works by the way?


@Plut0nian2
That's so interesting I've never paid that close attention to the Quincunx before. Is there something in your natal indicating that you may be attracted to that sort of energy a Quincunx brings or those certain venus/mars signs?

Satrun in the 7th I have experienced many times as my Generations Saturn falls in my 7th, I feel that it is actually not a bad placement for Saturn to be, especially if there isn't many other Saturn placements in a synastry, I personally think it helps things. He doesn't know his birthtime I don't want to make him ask his Mum and seem weird haha! I have a sneaking suspicon he's Sag Rising or maybe Capricorn.

What you say about moon trine moon is comforting as I've read many times you have to touch the Moon AND Venus, his ex was a Gemini I know I shouldn't of looked but I couldn't help myself haha! I've got friends who have moon square venus in their natal. The women it didn't seem to effect that badly but the men it was usually evident in their behaviour although I don't want to tarnish everyone with the same brush, I know I've read interpertations of my natal aspects that aren't adequate or fair.

Uranus square Mars I can definately feel (not sure about neptune yet, what does that energy typically feel like?), BUT I know the 'full energy' of Uranus square Mars hasn't played out yet as this situation has only just begun. I can't speak for the 'on/off again' energy as of yet because things have just started, time will only tell, but I can speak for the taboo, kinky, electricity between us. It's very open, very sex positive and very steamy and nasty. (Sorry to anyone reading this if that is a bit too personal but I'm just trying to be honest incase this helps anyone in future!)


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astrosaz
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posted August 07, 2018 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Hypatia and @FeatherLightly - I can't believe I didn't even think of the north node against my Mars/Pluto! That makes complete sense and summarises EXACTLY how I'm feeling and where I am, especially the subconcious/unconcious/concious feelings that I can't seem to explain and now I can. I used to find it so hard to 'own my scorpioness' mostly due to the Saturn squares in my natal ( I think ) and I've finally found a way to cope with it through maturing and finally have a fulfilling physical relationship. Thank you both for sharing your personal experiences, I actually think Mars is underated in synastry, It's less romantic and more immediate? Were you Mars/Pluto or NN? Thanks for the Video Hypatia, I'm listening to it as I'm typing this! Feel free to forward anymore info, I can't believe I ignored these aspects lol.

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Originally posted by featherlightly:
Can you post the composite? It looks as though you might have a stellium with Venus, Mars, sun, and Mercury all conjunct, which would indicate (assuming there’s already a baseline attraction) a relationship that’s very much about merging those masculine and feminine energies, cough cough.

Just eyeballing the charts, it also looks like both of you have your sun/Mercury conjunctions opposite the other person’s Venus/Mars midpoint, which can also indicate a strong sexual element (especially being a double-whammy).

Some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with someone whose north node was conjunct my Mars, so it’s also possible that your growth-promotion role in his life (you as the Mars/Pluto person) involves sexual expression, raw drive, transformation through sex, etc.; you’re called to bring all that Scorpionic sexual intensity to the table (your Mars/Pluto being in the sign they naturally rule, no less!).

If there’s something about his physicality that’s just totally hot to you, I’d also suspect some strong aspects to his ascendant from your chart. Maybe his ASC is conjunct your Mars/Pluto, which would do the trick. If he’s born later in the day, his moon would also slide into your 8th house, which is a very sexy placement.



@FeatherLightly I will post the composite chart but it is extremely terrible I must say, although with this situation I wasn't actually looking for anything permanent but it seems it may be heading that way. My Mars is at 26 degrees Scorpio, and for some reason I have a sneaking suspcion he's a really early Sag Rising so would that count even though it would be in the 12th and a different sign? I didn't even think to look at the midpoints and usually when I do I only look into the conjunctions so I need to start adding in other aspects too. I just checked and we do have sun/merc opp eachothers midpoints, do you know I could find more info on that?

That third paragrah you wrote just brought me so much peace. I hate when my feelings are unexplainable and you just made it all make sense to me thank you. I usually doubt NN contacts because I'm not sure about 'past lives' etc. But this weird feeling that I have that you managed to make sense of is making me a believer. If I'm being called to bring my Scorpionic sexual intensity to the table what is it going to teach? Is there something specific I need to realise or do?


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posted August 08, 2018 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You kind of do have Venus/Mars...

It's not close but it's still an opposition in my book.

Because he has a strong Mars in Aries and you also have a dignified Venus in Libra.. so these influences would be pretty *obvious* in both of your personalities, even on first impressions.

In a way it's better that it's a wide opposition.. because things can feel passionate between you in a really positive and 'warm' kind of way.

If it was an exact opposition - it might've been "too much", like a more fiesty, on&off kind of vibe.

I really like your synastry. You have a lot going on with the Sun2Sun opposition, the trined Moons (close emotional connection) and close Mercury aspect (so a lot to talk about! you could never get bored together)
His Saturn is trine your Sun which is a great aspect for a long term connection.

I think it looks great. He's a keeper

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