posted August 15, 2018 03:54 PM            

I was hoping someone with a clear eye could look over our synastry and composite to make confirm/dispute our connection. It's a pretty Neptunian relationship, so I want to be extra careful of illusion/idealization clouding my thinking. Do you think he feels the same pull? Any input you all could give me would be much appreciated!

Our Composite:

Our synastry (i'm the inner):

His Natal:

posted August 15, 2018 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Can you post the Davison?

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posted August 15, 2018 11:06 PM            

The wild card here is all the Uranian energy (in synastry, composite, AND in transits) without much Saturn synastry to ground it. You're currently going through Uranus transiting your 7th house, possibly ending a significant relationship when it crossed your descendant in the last year or two, and now bringing into your life people who embody Uranian energy and relationship dynamics (not surprising at all that this fellow has moon in Aquarius, a prominent Uranus conjunct his midheaven, and creates a composite chart with you that has Uranus on the ascendant AND four planets in Aquarius!). On top of your 7th house Uranus transit bringing unexpected, unconventional, and potentially "fast on, fast off" relationships into your life, transiting Uranus is squaring your natal moon, squaring HIS natal moon, and conjunct the composite moon. This is adding major fuel to the lightning bolt connection you have with him and an increased okay-ness with acting impulsively, but the downside is that it doesn't promise endurance or stability.

The trick for working with Uranus energy is 1) give the relationship plenty of room to breathe -- respect each other's autonomy and avoid codependency at all costs; 2) be aware that the relationship may unexpectedly change shape, course, or dynamic at the drop of a hat, and if either of you cling to certain expectations of how things "should" be, it will strain or even break the relationship; and 3) don't try to control or change each other in any way! The Venus square Pluto in the synastry and composite brings some potential for this, but control is antithetical to what Uranus needs to thrive and you'll be much more likely to keep each other if you work through any insecurities independently instead of expecting the other person to coddle them.

I don't see much in the way of Neptunian delusion, apart from his sun on your Neptune bringing some potential idealism, so I wouldn't worry too much about not seeing things clearly. Rather, just keep in mind that the things you see clearly now might look completely different in the future, even though all of it is real!

The one other thing to be aware of is moon square Saturn in the composite. This can create an odd feeling of emotional distance, where one person doesn't feel like the other is as 'close' and open as they'd like. This can happen despite very good communication and what looks on the surface like emotional sharing -- there's just a certain holding back. However, the composite moon is very strong, in the sign of its exaltation (Taurus) and in its natural house (4th), supported by that sexy trine to Mars and wide sextile to Venus. The moon's powerful position could help soften the square with Saturn.

posted August 17, 2018 01:01 PM            

most use the term soulmate to suggest a romantic relationship that is all ending,every thing one wants in a mate/spouse.

the origin of this term was the marriage of edgar Cayce and his wife. there past lives were so entwined, they could make reference to events that had happened to them in past lives.

that said, this chart certainly has a powerful psychic/astral connection with the node/Uranus/neptune conjunction on the ascendant. this clearly shows that you read each others thought ,complete each others questions often before they are asked. it also shows a vivid astral dream connection where you have the same common dreams and likely communicate with each other on the dream state.

you both have the node on your respective ascendants so you both are extremely intuitive/psychic to begin with.

amrs is 3/20 harmonic to the venus/mrcury conjunction and the midpoint of these spects are conjunct the sun/Saturn midpoint.
this suggest that I will take emotional work to unite these psychic connections with a emotionally committed relationship . the 3/30 aspect suggest that even with the intuitive inity you have, emotiol unity will always thake more times and understanding. emotional commitment will not just suddenly from as the astral connection has.with Saturn/sun midpoint involved, any serious relationship will tek longer to form than you might first think.even with the psychic connection , you can never take each other's affection for granted or a myriad of minor tensions and frustrations will appear to threaten a stronger intimate feeling/bond.

posted December 06, 2018 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by featherlightly:
Hi Mergoatsun, congrats on finding someone who feels so special! It's very easy to see the magnetic pull here with your moon opposite his sun/moon, creating deep mirroring in which you see yourself in him, and vice versa, even if you are very different people. A very strong sense of understanding each other, also reinforced by the moon/Mercury conjunction landing in your 4th house and bringing a very beautiful, comforting ease in talking with each other. His sun conjunct your Mars and Uranus certainly got your attention as well. Mars/sun makes you very aware of each other physically, and Mars is your descendant ruler, so he's activating your partnership spidey senses even if -- as you said -- he's someone who wouldn't normally be your type. His sun on your Uranus is extremely exciting, electrifying, and unexpected. His very being activates that part of you that feels wild and free. The way your describe your feelings in your post is certainly reflected in the charts.

The wild card here is all the Uranian energy (in synastry, composite, AND in transits) without much Saturn synastry to ground it. You're currently going through Uranus transiting your 7th house, possibly ending a significant relationship when it crossed your descendant in the last year or two, and now bringing into your life people who embody Uranian energy and relationship dynamics (not surprising at all that this fellow has moon in Aquarius, a prominent Uranus conjunct his midheaven, and creates a composite chart with you that has Uranus on the ascendant AND four planets in Aquarius!). On top of your 7th house Uranus transit bringing unexpected, unconventional, and potentially "fast on, fast off" relationships into your life, transiting Uranus is squaring your natal moon, squaring HIS natal moon, and conjunct the composite moon. This is adding major fuel to the lightning bolt connection you have with him and an increased okay-ness with acting impulsively, but the downside is that it doesn't promise endurance or stability.

The trick for working with Uranus energy is 1) give the relationship plenty of room to breathe -- respect each other's autonomy and avoid codependency at all costs; 2) be aware that the relationship may unexpectedly change shape, course, or dynamic at the drop of a hat, and if either of you cling to certain expectations of how things "should" be, it will strain or even break the relationship; and 3) don't try to control or change each other in any way! The Venus square Pluto in the synastry and composite brings some potential for this, but control is antithetical to what Uranus needs to thrive and you'll be much more likely to keep each other if you work through any insecurities independently instead of expecting the other person to coddle them.

I don't see much in the way of Neptunian delusion, apart from his sun on your Neptune bringing some potential idealism, so I wouldn't worry too much about not seeing things clearly. Rather, just keep in mind that the things you see clearly now might look completely different in the future, even though all of it is real!

The one other thing to be aware of is moon square Saturn in the composite. This can create an odd feeling of emotional distance, where one person doesn't feel like the other is as 'close' and open as they'd like. This can happen despite very good communication and what looks on the surface like emotional sharing -- there's just a certain holding back. However, the composite moon is very strong, in the sign of its exaltation (Taurus) and in its natural house (4th), supported by that sexy trine to Mars and wide sextile to Venus. The moon's powerful position could help soften the square with Saturn.

On the whole, you have some really beautiful things going on in the synastry and composite (the Venus/Jupiter conjunction in the composite is just lovely). I suspect that once Uranus moves deeper into Taurus and stops activating all the lunar energy in your natals and composite, you'll be able to tell what substance this relationship has versus what was wild Uranian excitement from the transits. I wish you the best of luck; you sound very happy!

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posted December 06, 2018 03:26 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi Mergoatsun

most use the term soulmate to suggest a romantic relationship that is all ending,every thing one wants in a mate/spouse.

the origin of this term was the marriage of edgar Cayce and his wife. there past lives were so entwined, they could make reference to events that had happened to them in past lives.

that said, this chart certainly has a powerful psychic/astral connection with the node/Uranus/neptune conjunction on the ascendant. this clearly shows that you read each others thought ,complete each others questions often before they are asked. it also shows a vivid astral dream connection where you have the same common dreams and likely communicate with each other on the dream state.

you both have the node on your respective ascendants so you both are extremely intuitive/psychic to begin with.

amrs is 3/20 harmonic to the venus/mrcury conjunction and the midpoint of these spects are conjunct the sun/Saturn midpoint.
this suggest that I will take emotional work to unite these psychic connections with a emotionally committed relationship . the 3/30 aspect suggest that even with the intuitive inity you have, emotiol unity will always thake more times and understanding. emotional commitment will not just suddenly from as the astral connection has.with Saturn/sun midpoint involved, any serious relationship will tek longer to form than you might first think.even with the psychic connection , you can never take each other's affection for granted or a myriad of minor tensions and frustrations will appear to threaten a stronger intimate feeling/bond.

todd

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posted December 06, 2018 03:27 AM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
OMG, I just looked at the Asc and Dsc rulers - amazing!
Your Asc ruler Venus in Aqua = his Dsc ruler Mercury and Moon in Aqua!
His Asc ruler Neptune and Sun in Cap = your Dsc ruler Mars and Sun in Cap!
There is marriage potential, great synastry!

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