posted August 16, 2018 07:15 PM
Hi, newbie here. I've just started dating someone and it seems to be going well (lots of laughs and great chemistry) so I checked up on our synastry and... well, let's just say I got a bit concerned. My Pluto is tightly conjunct her Moon in Libra (pretty much 0 degrees). I've heard this aspect can be pretty intense and would certainly explain the chemistry (additionally her Pluto is in my 4th house).
I guess this isn't something to worry about per se, however our Moons are quite badly aspected - at least to each other and the planets I've heard matter (Sun and Venus):
Me:
Moon - Virgo
Sun - Capricorn
Venus - Capricorn
Her:
Moon - Libra
Sun - Aries
Venus - Pisces
I've heard adjacent moons can lead to neither of us understanding each other on an emotional level and whilst I can see how her Venus opposite my moon might help *me*, am I right in thinking the squares from my Capricorns will give her nothing but grief in return?
So we have a strong Plutonic influence, giving an almost obsessive attraction but complete lack of emotional understanding.
Should I run for the hills?
The only things I can think might mitigate it are:
1. My Ascendent is Leo
2. My Moon is actually on the very cusp of Virgo (29 degrees 30) so both hers and mine lie in my third house.
3. She has Mercury in Taurus (mine's in Capricorn) - could it be enough to aid emotional communication?
Thanks!