posted August 27, 2018 10:51 AM            

Man is RED on the outside. Woman is BLUE inside.

posted August 27, 2018 05:31 PM            

I feel like the man is more enamored, but that they both feel it pretty strongly. The composite Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus are hitting his Amor. Obviously their natal Suns are being hit by all of this. So he's a bit more affected though. And her Pluto trine his Sun is going to be powerful for him. She's drawn in too though.

Venus trine Mars though wide. And his Moon in there.

posted August 27, 2018 11:08 PM            

however i'm starting to think that orbs in synastry especially if the planets are angular are given a wider orb but that's just my opinion! i give a lot of attention with angular planets.

for example my in law is a moon in pisces conjunct her descendant and her husband's sun is in the 4th house conjunct her moon by 8 DEGREES wide! i've seen this pattern in almost lots of instances with couples involving the hard aspects at wide orbs - i don't think this is a coincidence but hey! just my theory on this.

anyways hope for you to stay tuned in the coming days!! hopefully more people will comment before friday.

PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE

posted August 28, 2018 06:57 PM            

the composite has vertex on the descendant/ascendant axis which always shows that there is a sense of karma or otherworldly connection in the relationship. but as always this may not stabilize a relationship necessarily. But it shows that strange changes and coincides have occurred to both of them thoug hthey have different life experiences.

there is a very favorable real llife connection for a relationship with the moon/Jupiter conjunction sextile to the sun and trine to the venus/mercury conjunction.
this shows affection and love with a very open and supportive mental and emotional connection. this is a classic aspect of marriage as both have great affection for each other and both want to consummate a committed relationship.the venus/mars midpoint is square the node which really amps up the attraction and affection between them
There is excellent communication and both are quite intelligent and they likely have the same profession and/or met in a educational or business related activity .

the first point of possible contention is that the Uranus/Neptune and Uranus/mars and Uranus/juno midpoints midpoints are conjunct to Saturn. this can show an age difference or a cultural difference between them . but it also suggest that he is somewhat uncertain non committal about the relationship .
the Uranus on the nadir can make for a intense but unstable relationship. in addition Uranus is square to the vertex which implies a very strong astral /psychic connection between them... but possibility confusing their feelings. in addition the Saturn/moon midpoint is square the vertex as is the moon/Jupiter and mars/juno/Neptune midpoints . so there are otherworldly influences that seem to push for a sudden commitment but the underlying aspects suggest this would not be a stable or long lived relationship.

then on top of all these volatile aspects, Nessus and dejaniera midpoint is also square to the vertex, in addition to nessus being square to the Saturn/moon midpoint. this certainly brings darker unconscious dynamics into the mix.

so now the conscious love and affection may have a abusive underbelly, that is they may be living out darker repressive emotional issues between them.

jeezzzz you guys on the forum are really bring up some confusing composites recently....

I just can't get my heads around this composite, that is I can't see the direction such a relationship would take. it could be very destructive or it could be very healing.

posted August 28, 2018 11:14 PM            

To let you both know the woman is ME!

I did meet this person in college so yes your right about the educational background.

Yes we do have different cultural backgrounds.

He is here for school studies and after will move back to his hometown.

yes there is natural flow of affection which is very nice and amazing communication between the both of us, very straightforward communication something i don't deal with on a regular basis, definitely love the moon jupiter conjunction in composite.

the nessus/dejanira part is very prominent in synastry and in composite which i feel there is strong vulnerability on my part. I feel he is very dominating and fear that he be emotionally abusive...

There is strong attraction!!! so the both of you were right about that!

However i' am repulsed by this... it seems he has many issues and psychological demons inside of him and his past....He has also been VERY persistent and i mean VERY persistent with getting me to go on a date with him but unfortunately i' m not emotionally ready to invest in any one right now as I' am going through a past breakup (Transit Chiron conjunct my DESC & Progressed Moon & Saturn Conjunct my IC). I did mention friendship is fine but nothing more then that.

He has some anger issues (I do too) and that's a bit of turn off for me..... I wanna say he could be bi polar because he did mention going with a psychiatrist in his past. He is also very disorganized with his life it seems and he is an artist so his life revolves around that along with his career.

STONEMOON he is more enamored by me YES!! your right!!

I wanted to see if there is relationship potential but with the help of both of your readings I think I will just have to let this one go even though there is strong familiarity and strong chemistry.

I will delete everything in a week just to make sure you both read my feedback. Thank you the readings I' am so grateful and bring much GRATITUDE and BLESSINGS TO THE BOTH OF YOU! <3

posted August 30, 2018 06:53 AM            

But! His 4th house is challenged with Neptune and Mars, and in the sign of Cap. So he grew up in a cold home, lacking love and affection. Boundaries and home life were unclear, and given the presence of Mars probably volatile. This is what he brings. Now you, you put all kinds of things in his 4th house. Your Sun for the most part. You are going to highlight his 4th house issues. But with a conjunction of Mars and Sun, this is most likely trouble. What begins as attraction can lead to struggle and fight.

He receives the opportunity to "see" his 4th house upbringing so that he can grow and move beyond. But given the nature of what you shared, it may not be time, nor would it be easy for him to deal with this.

A Leo moon conjunct Venus needs affection and encouragement and validation. He can be sweet and charming but with that 4th house he's probably really in a deficit of attention. Your nature as a Cap heavy woman is familiar to him and initially feels good because he recognizes it. But over time I think it will be like salt in the wound. And an Aries moon with a Leo has potential to at least resonate but I think these are very individualistic moons. I feel like maybe an Air moon would be good for him, like a Libra? Especially since he has a Venus Moon conjunction.

posted August 30, 2018 01:16 PM            

No his mercury does not trine my moon.

His mercury opposes my 4th ruler Saturn in the 5th.

posted August 30, 2018 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Stonemoon,

No his mercury does not trine my moon.

His mercury opposes my 4th ruler Saturn in the 5th.

Yes his 4th house planets are definitely challenged. And yes my fourth house planets are definitely loaded in his 4th and I agree aboutbhighlight his 4th house issues. And yesss his moon and venus in leo does need a lot of validation and affection I can tell by his personality in person. And yes I feel my Aries moon a definitely kind of cold towards him especially since I have moon square Uranus although he does have his moon and venus in the 11th. But yeah I think there’s a reason why I tend to attract difficult people cause I consider myself a difficult person to be with. Lol. I think my love life would be much easier if it wasnt for my moon in the 7th square Uranus in the 4th lol and that 7th ruler in mars conjunct mercury square my ascendant isn’t good either.

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The aspects chart lists his Mercury as 6 Leo, and your Moon as 11 Aries. That's a trine, unless I am misreading something? Especially with luminaries, wider aspects count.

How do you feel being Saturn opposite his Mercury? I have this with someone and I feel like our communication is stilted. Over text its a total mess, constant mixed messages and over the phone it's just kind of slow.

posted August 30, 2018 09:27 PM            

would you care to give me your insight on a synastry and composite of mine? It's a potential relationship, one that I have my thoughts and doubts about. But I always appreciate another perspective.

If you're ok with it, I will start a new thread!

posted August 30, 2018 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
Angel,

would you care to give me your insight on a synastry and composite of mine? It's a potential relationship, one that I have my thoughts and doubts about. But I always appreciate another perspective.

If you're ok with it, I will start a new thread!

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Of course stonemoon!! Also post the progressed composite too!

posted August 30, 2018 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
The aspects chart lists his Mercury as 6 Leo, and your Moon as 11 Aries. That's a trine, unless I am misreading something? Especially with luminaries, wider aspects count.

How do you feel being Saturn opposite his Mercury? I have this with someone and I feel like our communication is stilted. Over text its a total mess, constant mixed messages and over the phone it's just kind of slow.

Yeah his moon is not challenged by being in the 11th, but yours is challenged by that square to Uranus. The differences are bringing attraction right now, but wouldn't be sustaining long term I don't think.

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Ohhhh i didn’t count it as a trine cause I feel it’s a bit wide but yes if you feel it counts awesome!!

My Saturn opposite his mercury...sooo I have a grand cross in my chart involving Saturn/Chiron/Apollo/child/education. This has played a major role in my childhood as I had a very tough upbringing and experiences many losses. His chart ruler is mercury retrograde square Pluto retrograde.

Our communication is pretty good I have to say...however I have been distant with him communication wise because I don’t want to lead him on...I feel this aspect in synastry is manifesting in our work of music together because we’re in a group and his mercury in Leo square Pluto likes to control the direction of our music and my Saturn in the 5th opposite Chiron/Apollo in Leo in the 11th feels very insecure when he begins to listen to my musical ideas or make comments on it...I feel very inferior and kind of scared that he will put my musical ideas down. I sense his domination/control with our music he’s very critical and likes to be the leader of the band so to speak I feel that’s where he is naturally and my Saturn Chiron feels inhibited by this and so I feel I can not speak up and when I do I get humiliated.

This is how this aspect has manifested. I hope this helped.

My moon is definitely challenged by Uranus and Neptune, it sucks. My progressed venus is conjunct my Natal Neptune and progressed Neptune right now conjunct transit Pluto.

posted August 31, 2018 08:20 AM            

Interestingly enough, you both are coming from a place of feeling "not enough", but his Mercury Pluto square must be acting as a force to push his thoughts and opinions out. I read somewhere that retrogrades in the natal stay hidden until a later point in life. Maybe he will learn to handle his better as he ages?