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Topic: Me and my daughter, similar charts, can someone help me with our relationship?
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AstroAmber11
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posted September 13, 2018 09:11 PM
  
So my daughter and I both have sun and moon in virgo and pisces. She is very outgoing, free spirited, indpendent. She has deep feeling emotions. She is either really hot or cold and can turn her anger on and off so quick.
We butt heads a lot. A lot more than i'd like.
Anyway, can anyone tell me what you get from her chart, or our synastry?
Any input is appreciated. Thank you so much.
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capricorncheriscty
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posted September 13, 2018 10:26 PM
Interesting. Could you be a little more specific on how you two butt heads? In the most general sense, I think fixed house synastry can indicate where we butt heads with one another as those houses are very personal and self-oriented, very much about protecting one's self in certain situations which can lead to butting heads or friendship/companionship depending on how the two people are. But there doesn't seem to be much going on in those houses in your synastry. What are some exact examples of you two butting heads? Like small drama? Petty drama? Big drama? Something about having different life goals or visions? Different karmic destinies?IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted September 13, 2018 10:28 PM
Oh wait now I see. You have opposite ascendants and they just so happen to be in those stubborn fixed signs, Taurus and Scorpio!  it really could be as simple as that!EDIT: oh and your daughter is just a little thing! Don't fret too much about butting heads with children so small, it is typically normal. Especially at that age, they are trying to understand their surroundings better and can get frustrated if the parents get in the way too much. They like to explore and roam in the backyard and the parents want them to come inside and help pick their toys up IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted September 14, 2018 04:06 AM
Her birthtime is probably off I feel. She sounds more like an Aries moon than a Pisces since you said anger (which is the main emotion Aries moon experiences lol) and independent/outgoing. Aries moon also has quick intense emotional responses. Is she assertive and a bit demanding/selfish? Aries moon is also ruled by mars (conflict) and moon is the relationship with the mother. So you two butting heads would make sense compared to Pisces moon. IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted September 14, 2018 12:39 PM
Looking again it might be because her Mars squares your Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 18, 2018 06:26 PM
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LaceyLeigh
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posted September 18, 2018 07:48 PM
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Looking again it might be because her Mars squares your Jupiter.
Yes, and your Mars squaring your daughters Mercury might explain why you bump heads all the time. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 25, 2018 10:37 AM
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ReachingForTheStars
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posted September 29, 2018 03:08 PM
I have this with my mom. We have the same AC,sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, but different moon signs. We didn’t get along that well either. If I ever had to live with her again, I’d kill her. Once I was older and moved out, our relationship improved. I don’t like who she is or who she was. Looking back, I think I may have expected her to be the best expression of her placements. She is the parent after all. She wasn’t that though, and I had little empathy for it. I remember thinking how unreliable and two-faced she was! She’s a Gemini sun, AC, Mercury. I also couldn’t stand the attention seeking expression of her Leo moon. I thought she was the most superficial person. I didn’t even know about astrology when I formed these opinions. When I was a teenager, my mom’s husband told me, “you’re just like her!” Until this day, I never felt more insulted in my life. I guess, just try to make sure you’re a good role model. You’ll have to parent by example. No pressure! Lol My dad is a cancer rising, moon in Aries conjunct his MC... guess what my husband is???!! Yup! Cancer rising, moon conjunct MC conjunct my dads. Lol. How your life plays out regardless of the arena, the decisions you make... it may have a special influence on your daughter. I spent my life trying to be nothing like my mom. In my experience, you’ll have to be someone she can look up to, but that’s just my experience. I do have a Capricorn moon. My experience is colored by that placement.
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Randall
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posted October 03, 2018 08:32 PM
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missblyss
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posted October 03, 2018 08:35 PM
its funny, im a pisces sun/ virgo moon. my daughter is a virgo sun/ Aries moon...but veryyyy early degrees of Aries IP: Logged |
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