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Topic: Is this Scorpio guy interested or just being nice?
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boop 84
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posted September 18, 2018 01:06 PM
  
I'm normally I'm pretty good at working out if someone likes me but this guy has me stumped! He does the following stuff would any of this make you think he's interested:He remembers little things - I told him about a movie I was going to see and he asked me about it a few weeks later - he always remembers little things. He talks about me to our friends - I was telling him about an art project I was working and his mate mentioned he'd been talking about it. We were joking about dating and he said he'd come rescue me if I was on a bad date I dyed my hair pink and he said he'd glue a unicorn horn on my head. I told him it better be sparkly and he said 'always' - odd response and a little Snape. He's googled me - my name brings up a very random thing, that has nothing to do with me, but he's indirectly mentioned it a few times and you'd only really find it if you googled my name. He helps me out - I was working on a project and when I came back the next day he had done half of it for me and left a note saying 'do it like this, it's quicker' We fist bump a lot but lately I get the feeling that he's wants to hug me but doesn't quite know how He makes a lot of eye contact with everyone, except me. Sometimes he's joking and teasing me a lot other times he's really serious. It told him I like video of babies try lemon for the first time and we spent an hour watching those video cause he put them on. what do you think? Is he interested or just being nice? His moon is in Taurus and Venus in Virgo Thanks y'all x IP: Logged |
astrosaz
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posted September 18, 2018 01:48 PM
I'm a Scorpio sun merc mars and Pluto and I would say this indicates that he fancies youIP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 18, 2018 02:05 PM
I think he has virgo rising and yes he definitely likes you and he sounds super cool, I love this:"I dyed my hair pink and he said he'd glue a unicorn horn on my head. I told him it better be sparkly and he said 'always' - odd response and a little Snape." Does he have venus in libra ? ADDED: oh he has venus in virgo, there you go, I felt there was some virgo there. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted September 18, 2018 02:19 PM
Sounds so cosy nchooah.I see his Taurus/Virgo energy at play here. I also thinks that he likes you. #sidenote. Its really typical Virgo Venus fashion to do small favours for someone and leave notes afterwards.  IP: Logged |
boop 84
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posted September 18, 2018 03:03 PM
YAY! I was kinda hoping people would say he liked me, he's a great guy! He had me at always 😊What is the best way to play it? Should I make the first move or let me take the lead?
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Kannon McAfee
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posted September 18, 2018 04:23 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.------------------
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hypatia238
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posted September 18, 2018 05:25 PM
I feel you should make the first move, this venus in virgo is been shy about making the first move it feels like..Where is his Mars? IP: Logged |
boop 84
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posted September 18, 2018 05:43 PM
His mars is in Sagittarius...which worries me a bit!I always had the impression that mars in Sagittarius is always looking for a new adventure and move on quickly. I'm quite new to chart reading so maybe I have that wrong haha IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 18, 2018 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by boop 84:
His mars is in Sagittarius...which worries me a bit!I always had the impression that mars in Sagittarius is always looking for a new adventure and move on quickly. I'm quite new to chart reading so maybe I have that wrong haha
That is why he reminds me of my EX! my ex is a scorpio with mars in Sag OOB and virgo rising
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hypatia238
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posted September 18, 2018 05:47 PM
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Originally posted by boop 84:
His mars is in Sagittarius...which worries me a bit!I always had the impression that mars in Sagittarius is always looking for a new adventure and move on quickly. I'm quite new to chart reading so maybe I have that wrong haha
What does his Mars Rule? What house does his Mars fall in? Post his chart if you want. IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 18, 2018 05:58 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is why he reminds me of my EX! my ex is a scorpio with mars in Sag OOB and virgo rising
This sounds exactly like a sun Scorpio Virgo asc guy who I suspected liked me a little bit. Particular and slightly secretive! I'd say he definitely likes you. IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 18, 2018 06:03 PM
I'd also say... keep the slight mystery, but do not play games. Scorpio, Virgo, Taurus... they all have trust issues. Advance slowly but surely! I like all the things you shared about him. Hope it works out for you guys!IP: Logged |
astrosaz
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posted September 18, 2018 07:10 PM
I would say for you to make the first move whatever that may be. Sometimes it can take a Scorpio a long time to make the first move because they want to be sure its mutual, figure you out a bit and don't want to risk embarrassment if isn't mutual (they have a lot of pride and famous intense feelings). He will really respect someone who is brave enough to take initiative! Like others have said be open and honest but don't let him figure you out too quickly because hell get bored but also don't be too secretive cause hell get suspiciousIP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted September 18, 2018 07:45 PM
His Mars is square his Venus then?IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted September 19, 2018 03:55 AM
I’m highly plutonic with virgo rising and taurus sun. It was like reading a description about my flirting styles lol. I do have aries stellium though so I like the chase aswell. But he has fire mars, square his venus? Then yeah seems like he is ”chasing” you but in a virgo-scorp-taurus manner.I will go against the stream here and advice to maybe not make the first moves. He is a guy, they need to feel they ”won” you. Not the other way around, but thats me. Or well it depends on your moves. For ex you can make things easier for him but not all the way, that way he can make the final move etc IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 19, 2018 12:59 PM
Well my ex informed me he noticed me first at club SPACE when I was in line but I approached him from a distance and walked right up to him and started to kiss him once inside the club and we made out for over an hour LOL. I am sorry I love telling this story so I made the first move, he has virgo rising and venus in libra, he then asked for my number, he then called me and eventually worked his way to ask me out on a date and it was so cute bc he sounded nervous and I did wait for him to tell me "I love you" first and I did make him wait like three months to go all the way.So making the first move is not necessarily that you are been easy and in some cases this is what needs to happen. Based on what she has said about him, I feel he in a virgo style type of way has been making the first move with her many times and now she can make the second and maybe ask for his number and he then can make the 3rd and ask her out on a date or whatever feels right. IP: Logged |
astrosaz
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posted September 19, 2018 01:52 PM
^^^^ I second Hypatia IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted September 19, 2018 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by boop 84:
His mars is in Sagittarius...which worries me a bit!I always had the impression that mars in Sagittarius is always looking for a new adventure and move on quickly. I'm quite new to chart reading so maybe I have that wrong haha
I have been made scared to even think of Sag energy as capable of commitment. This despite being a strong Sag chart holder myself  I know that Libra Mars are infamous for being slow to decide (if ever). But Sag energy is quick to flirt but SLOW to move past that. Its almost like if they had it their way, they would stay there in flirt land for eternity. Because like Gemini, they may like the "idea" of something rather than its tangible form. Started something with Mars in Sag that went nowhere(Sun in Aqua). I thought he liked me. But I think he was just liking me from a distance I guess. Be careful. I don't know if Mars in Sag deals well when things get serious or you want more upfront follow through (they may interpret that as "heavy" too) I think most like to play around in the "idea" section more rather than with the finished product. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 19, 2018 04:16 PM
^^ I could see why venus is at home in Taurus, Taurus has very realistic tangible expectations around relationships and is fixed so tends to be stable in love but then again venus is exalted in Pisces ...with sag been my strongest sign and having moon in pisces I do feel the grass is greener on the other side, add venus conjunct mars in leo in the 8th to that making me high maintenance in love and my expectations around love, I have always struggled with the grass is greener on the other side but bc of that I have also had many interesting experiences/adventures/encounters BUT am aware of the negative side effects of this aspect about myself. My partner who is a taurus riser told me the other day that I am always looking for something else that doesn't exist when what we have right here between us is fine . He sees me as not grounded and erratic in love and he is right but he also minimizes that we have different needs in the romance department. He is very romantic too like a typical venus in leo as I am but I think bc my venus conjuncts mars and lands in the 8th my romantic needs are different from his in some key ways. He doesn't have that desire/need for an all consuming intense love nor and has a low sex drive. IP: Logged |
waxlobster
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posted September 21, 2018 09:20 AM
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odd response and a little Snape.[/B]
This is officially my new favourite adjective hahaha! And yep wasn't Snape the epitome of Scorpio (RIP Alan :'( ) He's into you, the avoiding eye contact is the key that he's not just intrigued but shy enough to be the type to make hints, rather than risk rejection yet. I say let him make the moves, it often works better that way and he seems like he is doing so, slowly. Enjoy the build up and be as warm and open as you can, just so that he feels comfortable. Shy men often have the truest hearts :-) Mars in Sagittarius does NOT mean he will be unfaithful, or inconsistent. It means he likes adventure and fun and is good company. 4 or more planets in Sag is a red flag but even the one of those I know is a long-term relationship type, he's too darn decent not to be!!  ------------------
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Morrigan
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posted September 21, 2018 08:28 PM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I say let him make the moves, it often works better that way and he seems like he is doing so, slowly. Enjoy the build up and be as warm and open as you can, just so that he feels comfortable.
Totally agree. Let things build naturally. He will 'make a move' when he feels good n ready. Scorpios, however shy, won't hold back once that fire is lit. Especially with a Sag mars. quote:
Originally posted by waxlobster:
Mars in Sagittarius does NOT mean he will be unfaithful, or inconsistent. It means he likes adventure and fun and is good company. 4 or more planets in Sag is a red flag but even the one of those I know is a long-term relationship type, he's too darn decent not to be!!
Yeah..! Sag mars by itself is not necessarily a 'cheater'. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 28, 2018 05:48 PM
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LunaIscariot
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posted September 29, 2018 05:22 AM
He's very obviously into you lol Post your synastry and composite 👍 IP: Logged |
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