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Topic: Synastry, I want the thing.
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ktmiuna
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posted September 22, 2018 11:49 PM
  
This synastry in my opinion looks absolutely terrible but the things I feel from this person make my chest all fluttery and I get tongue tied. I can hardly express myself accurately, but I really enjoy their company.
It doesn't feel perfect, he's a bit pushy with his ideas sometimes but I respect his mind & the things he tells me I guess I'm just wondering if this would ever be a mutually beneficial connection or if I should just avoid it all together I suppose it would be worth noting I just want something casual with this person as I'm uncertain about them and they're a little inconsistent with me
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ktmiuna
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posted September 22, 2018 11:54 PM
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mir
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posted September 23, 2018 12:11 AM
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ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 12:17 AM
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hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 12:19 PM
It's his Pluto opposite your sun forming a tsquare with his Mars plus sun square moon and sun conjunct Jupiter generating attraction making your heart beat fast.Add his Uranus squares your venus, it can make your interactions stimulating, you find him interesting and entertaining, full of energy and not boring. His Jupiter conjuncts your sun so you feel good around him and like you can be yourself. But maybe your sun irritates his moon and he has moon opposite mars so he is probably moody and gets easily irritated then your sun comes in and completes a tighter tsquare than his own sun making you the release point of his moon opposite mars which could be good for sex tbf but bad for fights... however your ability to stay calm as a sun in Taurus should come a long way with that. I worry he has anger and temper issues though and you can be the point of release for that. He has both moon opposite mars and Mars square pluto in a fixed sign so he can get stuck in anger having an adult temper tantrum. Add his Mars squares Jupiter. Maybe he channels all this through sex but with Mars in aquarius he might not be as sexual as his chart gives the impression and this increases the chances he channels all that through angry outbursts as Saturn is not cooling off his Mars. Add you have mars conjunct moon and your Mars inconjunts his Uranus, I feel with all that fixed energy and you both having a Lunar Mars and how his mars is aspected it can lead to epic fights.Post Davison and Composite.
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hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 12:49 PM
He must be argumentative and stubborn as hell with Mercury ruling his chart conjunct sun and jupiter in Taurus since all that aspects his mars opposite moon while mars squares Pluto with mars in aquarius, all fixed signs. Arguments can escalate into fights, he has a very ego driven Mercury. Add that passionate moon to the mix but who knows maybe Gemini rising will choose diplomacy and moon in leo will choose playfulness and that Taurus stellium will choose to stay cool but that could lead to been passive and anger building up over time till he explodes too...but Taurus tends to be patient on the positive note so is hard to tell...IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 01:01 PM
I mean he could just be a great debator but knows how to keep his cool and is great in bed. Just take your time getting to know him.IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 03:04 PM
 Davison  Composite Here they are~ IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 03:06 PM
Thank you so much for your help ♥ IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted September 23, 2018 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
It's his Pluto opposite your sun forming a tsquare with his Mars plus sun square moon and sun conjunct Jupiter
You are great at interpreting t-squares!
Just reminds me I have to post a chart here for your eyes^^ I have been putting that up for months now haha IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted September 23, 2018 03:47 PM
I don't think it looks bad. You have suns conjunct, egos that is alike. Moons in "neighbour" signs. I have seen people seem to get along well with luminaries being in neighbour signs! Hmm is he the outer chart?Pluto sun, although its generational, and he also has sun-oppo pluto natally, so he would be use to that energy, well thats good. You both have pluto energies, can be good, he would atleast not run away from the pluto tension. Mars opposite signs, the orb is wide but its still opposite signs, it cause attraction that way aswell. Same with venuses, sextile signs. moon in his 2th, its a nice energy, he recieve your energy as sensual and calming, makes him feel safe (self worth) My 2 cents ^^ Wel I have pluto oppo my sun-merc. Argumentative as hell! And pushy yes! It will only escalateif his buttons is pushed and if you let him. If he had saturn in the mix, to calm his mercury or sun down it would be an other thing. With saturn in the mix one often critisize ones own communication styles etc. Makes one wanna change his/her ways to better him/herself. With Jupiter with his sun-merc, he may have a huge ego meaning, he may always think he is right. I have a guy friend who has this combo, jupiter square his sun and pluto trine his virgo sun. He is unsufferable! He comes to super fast conclusions,always thinks he is right and always thinks people is lying when infact its his harsh vibe people react to. That jupiter makes his ego too big imo. I don't even know how I can stand him! haha, but he is also caring so, I tolerate it for now  IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 07:03 PM
Yeah he is a bit frustrating and egotistical, kinda burned me acouple times already. Yeah he thinks he has all the answers, but at the same time I think it's all coming from a good place and I do enjoy learning about new things I just wish he'd be a bit nicer with the delivery. Makes me feel like a dummy. Also the few times that I think he realized he was being a bit of a chode he seemed to either just stop, go inside himself and adjust to try and make me happy again. Like going back to being gentle or playing around with me. I don't need a sorry but that's good enough for little things. So yeah he's the outter circle, I was just kind of worried as I'm a pretty emotional and communicative person I felt that his issues with his own moon might make us a bad mix. Communication is a bit difficult right now but once we get rolling we're all laughs and good times. Kind of makes me sad he's a bit distant and doesn't text me much, besides a random "have a good day~" it's just hard to get him to talk to me. Like selective responses. Boo! But I'm patient, and I like him a lot, so I guess we will see. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted September 23, 2018 07:17 PM
I'm gonna be honest and say this is probably not a good idea. You adore this person and they have a massive emotional impact on you, but you say you want something casual. It's going to be difficult to compartmentalize those emotions with him. I know someone (one of my favorite people ever) born a few weeks before your guy and they're a hot mess romantically. They've never been in a relationship longer than 6 months (like your guy, he's now 30) and is the embodiment of a non-committal butterfly. It takes a special type of similar non-committal butterfly to be able to gel with his erratic energy. A Gemini Venus/Aquarius Mars combo in a guy is not for the faint of heart. I don't really see this type of person being good for you emotionally with your Taurus Sun and Cancer Moon conj Mars. Plus his Saturn/Uranus forms a t-square with your Venus/Jupiter so he's always going to be a bit of a wet blanket for you, like he'll just naturally come off as a joy thief in your presence. Every emotional victory you experience will naturally be dampened by him without him even trying at all. The Chiron/Moon/IC thing in your synastry also worries me. My last boyfriend and I had Moon conj Chiron and while the relationship was wonderful, the end of it totally wrecked me and sent me spiraling for a couple of months. This synastry does honestly look like such a rollercoaster/disaster waiting to happen. I wouldn't put your emotional wellbeing in the hands of someone like this, personally speaking. Could be a good learning experience though if you still find yourself drawn to his siren's song. IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 07:36 PM
I think you can admire someone and still want them to be free and continue experiencing life with other people. I want that for him and I want that for myself. But I really appreciate you being honest with me, I think this guy is similar with your friend, he's been super transparent about his dating life and he does seem a little incapable of sticking with one human. Dat Gemini Venus.. I actually recently met another cutie they have like the exact same chart, I think the universe is trying to tell me something hahah. Both heavy in taurus, gem Venus conj Chiron, aqu mars. Just one has the leo moon and the other in taurus. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted September 23, 2018 07:40 PM
Gemini Venus! It's a killer. It's also crazy how sometimes the universe keeps throwing us the same prototype of a person over and over again. Gotta wonder sometimes.. If that's the mentality you have, then there's no reason not to go for it with him. My guy friend (an Aries Sun/Aries Moon) (so he's still the chart doppelganger for your guy) is also p*ss poor with communication, it waxes and wanes depending on their mood. It's never anything personal, they just get pulled into a million directions at once so easily IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 08:03 PM
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Originally posted by ktmiuna:
Also the few times that I think he realized he was being a but of a chode he seemed to either just stop, go inside himself and adjust to try and make me happy again. Like going back to being gentle or playing around with me. I don't need a sorry but that's good enougg for little things.
This is what I was hoping, taurus can be trainable and responsive to feedback I think bc is at home in Venus. Some guys don't like texting and are not talkative over text at all and that could be interpreted as lack of interest but it doesn't mean that but it's frustrating none the less. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by ktmiuna:
I think you can admire someone and still want them to be free and continue experiencing life with other people. I want that for him and I want that for myself.
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hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 08:26 PM
What sign is your persona DC in?IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
What sign is your persona DC in?
I'm unsure what a persona DC is but my descendant is in sagittarius..  I'd love to know what you mean~ IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted September 23, 2018 09:50 PM
Is this it ? Persona descendant chart..?  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 23, 2018 10:53 PM
Instead of Davison or Composite you keep scrolling down till you find persona charts..then you scroll down and select descendant. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted September 23, 2018 11:42 PM
He has a natal Grand cross with moon, sun, mercury, mars, Pluto, Jupiter damn.
All in fixed signs as well.
That mars square Pluto is exact which ive noticed is a big red flag in men’s charts. My ex had this aspect and he was very vindictive/spiteful, they have touchy egos always on the defensive ready to attack, selfishly motivated, and quite aggressive tendencies, strong tempers... moon is his 3rd house ruler so no wonder he is forceful with his speech and opinions with the moon being square Pluto and opposite mars.... yikes lol. He probably is very assertive and blunt and lacks tact.
His moon in Leo is what makes him egotistical, Leo moons always have huge egos but it’s not always bad, they can be very warm, charismatic, playful, generous and a lot of fun but depending on the rest of the chart they can be bossy, entitled, narcissistic etc... his moon is afflicted so more so will probably manifest the more negative traits.
All these fixed signs also means he’s super stubborn. Which can be annoying lol. Just looking at this chart makes me feel like he has a very uncompromising personality and will have a hard time apologizing or taking responsibility for their actions because of the strong ego and stubborn aspects here.
Definitely a very strong personality, not for the faint of heart.
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LunaIscariot
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posted September 24, 2018 09:13 AM
Now for the synastry and composite....
you have mars in Leo, so that matches well with his moon in Leo. You’ll tolerate his potential egotistical or attention seeking behaviour better than if you didn’t have this placement, you may even find it endearing. You’re attracted to his confidence and charm and playful nature.
Your venus is also in Aries, which isn’t making any aspects to his personal planets (besides the wide trine at around 7 degrees to his moon which helps, but isn’t going to come into play much or be felt that much) squares to his Uranus/neptune/Saturn. Which isn’t that great... you’re romantic feelings will be hot and cold towards him (Uranus) and you might feel cynical, pessimistic or just reserved/awkward about expressing love or affection towards him(Saturn), Saturn will stunt your feelings and ability to express or feel them and you will probably be disillusioned at some point, left dissappinted because you weren’t seeing him clearly (Neptune).
I like his venus in your 1st house, this tells me he thinks you’re attractive physically and your basic personality and temperament matches what he’s looking for in a woman.
His moon in your 4th is also powerful, you feel comfortable together and this is a great overlay for intimacy and emotional bonding. Can give strong feelings of attachment. Tbh, your sybastry isn’t that great imo. You’re lacking 7th 5th house overlays which are extremely important for romantic relationships and stimulating those in love feelings and really matching each other’s type.
Granted though, your 5th ruler sun is being HEAVILY activated! Combining with his natal grand cross so this helps a lot in stimulating your own romantic feelings.
He also matches by symbolism with Leo there on the cusp and his moon in Leo and your sun in Taurus in the 12th (he has a Taurus stellium in the 12th) 👍
Jupiter is in your 5th and rules your 7th so this is really important for you in relationships. He doesn’t have any sag planets, but he does have mars in the 9th and Jupiter is conjunct his ASC ruler mercury and part of a stellium so he does have quite a bit of Jupiter energy and qualities.
Your Jupiter (7th ruler) is forming a t-square also with those Neptune/Uranus/Saturn squares finishing your natal venus-Jupiter opposition. This is a very binding and attractive point in this synastry. Only thing that REALLY bothers me is that you’re a moon in cancer and he’s lacking water in his chart.
And your moon is also completely inspected besides that wide 8 degree square to his sun which is barely felt and negatively at that... that alone would make me advise you to not pursue this relationship much further. Because you’re going to feel very misunderstood and unseen or heard emotionally. You’ll just have a hard time relating to him and vice versa. Emotionally alienated.
Your needs won’t be met by him. In the composite, this lack of emotional harmony or understanding is shown again with the moon being afflicted only making all squares.
Overtime (since the moon takes awhile to show up in relationships until the people are truly comfortable or let their guard down, move in together etc.) this is guaranteed going to become a major issue in the relationship with it being in a theme in both charts (synastry and composite). This feeling of just not getting each other or feeling like you can’t truly connect on an emotional, heart to heart level. This will mainly be felt by you first but probably him as well too eventually.
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Melinn
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posted September 24, 2018 10:06 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
He has a natal Grand cross with moon, sun, mercury, mars, Pluto, Jupiter damn.
All in fixed signs as well.
That mars square Pluto is exact which ive noticed is a big red flag in men’s charts. My ex had this aspect and he was very vindictive/spiteful, they have touchy egos always on the defensive ready to attack, selfishly motivated, and quite aggressive tendencies, strong tempers... moon is his 3rd house ruler so no wonder he is forceful with his speech and opinions with the moon being square Pluto and opposite mars.... yikes lol. He probably is very assertive and blunt and lacks tact.
His moon in Leo is what makes him egotistical, Leo moons always have huge egos but it’s not always bad, they can be very warm, charismatic, playful, generous and a lot of fun but depending on the rest of the chart they can be bossy, entitled, narcissistic etc... his moon is afflicted so more so will probably manifest the more negative traits.
All these fixed signs also means he’s super stubborn. Which can be annoying lol. Just looking at this chart makes me feel like he has a very uncompromising personality and will have a hard time apologizing or taking responsibility for their actions because of the strong ego and stubborn aspects here.
Definitely a very strong personality, not for the faint of heart.
I have to disagree with some of the aspect interpretations you have here BUT you are so correct about his communication style.
I disagree with Leo moon having strong ego. The le in moon is not that affected by the ego theme leo signs goes by. Its often the sun leo or mars leo with ego problems. Sun is afterall=Ego. And Leos ruler is, sun, so thats that. Leo moon is not so concerned by ego. Also selfishnes is not a Pluto thing, its that damn jupiter haha. People (me included) often oversee jupiters dark sides. Egoistical, selfishnes, not seing ones bad sides etc (Trump for ex has jupiter trine sun among other things) Without strong saturn or virgo sign and other "grounding" introspect giving aspects, one will come of as a besserwisser and never see ones faults.
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LunaIscariot
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posted September 24, 2018 10:26 AM
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I wholeheartedly disagree. Just because it’s not sun in Leo doesn’t mean the themes of Leo don’t apply to any other planet in that sign lol. It’s a theme of Leo in general, period. Any planet in Leo is always going to be somewhat concerned with positive attention/praise/approval etc. which serves to fill the ego needs.
I wasn’t talking about Pluto in general being selfish either (although to an extent it is, that’s why it’s the higher octave of mars) I was talking about the mars/Pluto square aspect specifically. Anyways, good luck with this guy if you do decide to pursue it  IP: Logged |
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