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SunAscendant
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posted September 25, 2018 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This guy I really want to win back has his Gemini Venus at 29 Gemini and his Cancer Mars at 29 Cancer. Oddly enough I have my Venus at 19 Aries and Mars at 19 Pisces, so my Venus and Mars are semisextile just like him. I think that's just one of the reasons why we worked out so well (his sun is also exactly conjunct my Ascendant and his Juno is conjunct my Sun-Moon midpoint). How do I win him back though? He's got a Libra Moon and Cancer sun.

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posted September 25, 2018 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for madelineleo23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months.

He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something.

I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back.

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posted September 25, 2018 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months.

He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something.

I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back.


I am a hand embroiderer and I sew clothes by hand. Gemini rules hands and he did seem to find it cool that I'm good at embroidery and sewing with my hands... He seemed to like that I had a passion for that. But since his Venus is at 29 Gemini almost in Cancer and his Mars is at 29 Cancer almost in Leo I'm wondering if maybe there's a taste of those signs as well...

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posted September 25, 2018 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months.

He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something.

I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back.


He always mentioned that I was a kind and intuitive person and loved that I cooked for him and did homely things for him. I'm a Cancer rising so doing matronly stuff is in my blood lol.

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posted September 26, 2018 04:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When Cancer and Gem are mixed in the chart, talk about feelings. Talk from a heart to heart point of view. Talk your heart open.

Its important that they hear beautiful ,expressive words being said. And with Venus/Moon in air, words can move him.

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posted September 28, 2018 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
When Cancer and Gem are mixed in the chart, talk about feelings. Talk from a heart to heart point of view. Talk your heart open.

Its important that they hear beautiful ,expressive words being said. And with Venus/Moon in air, words can move him.


I was especially talkative with him even though I only have one planet (Saturn) in air and thus am not much of a talker to begin with. I feel like if I incessantly text him he'd get annoyed even though my brain is telling me that his airy Moon and Venus wouldn't mind the texts even though they'd be of a "please let's try again" variety instead of something pleasant...

With his 12 degree Cancer sun exactly down to the minute conjunct my Ascendant (his Mercury is also conjunct his Sun and thus also conjunct my AC) we both found ourselves naturally expressing our deepest emotions and truths about ourselves that nobody else seems to understand. My Pisces Mars also intuitively picks up on emotions and feelings of others and I picked up how he felt and would try to console him if I knew he felt down but wasn't saying it to me directly. I do wonder if perhaps he hated how transparent he was to me. I could see right through him meaning I could tell how he was feeling without him saying a word. I am like that with most people, but even more so with him because of our aforementioned synastry contacts.

Since Libra is the natural 7th house sign and I have a 7th house Moon (albeit in detriment in Capricorn) you would think I'd fare better with his Libra Moon since me having a 7th house Moon is sort of similar to a Libra Moon in an indirect way. I feel like he would be the type to be easily swayed back into a relationship just because he didn't want to fight anymore, but I don't want to do that, I want him to reconcile with me because he really wants to and not because his Libra moon hates fighting so it'll reconcile just to stop any enmity between us.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted September 28, 2018 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This belongs in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.

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posted September 28, 2018 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Best way to win over a Gemini Venus is to leave them alone for a long, long, loooooooooong time and then suddenly pop back into their life with an interesting tidbit of information (light in tone) and then disappear in a flash. That's when their chasing instincts kick in

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posted September 28, 2018 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You shouldn’t ever try “win someone back”, if it was meant to be or he was for you, you wouldn’t have to do that. There’s a reason why things ended. You’re not right for each other.
Honour your energy, and know your worth. Find someone who wants you without you having to do anything but be yourself 👍
Trust me, it’s much better than the alternative in the long run.
Good luck ❤️😇

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Aries23Degrees
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posted September 29, 2018 04:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Sun Ascendant.

Libra placements will typically want a happy ending. Romance is big for them.

Being "persuaded" is part of their character. Because they also persuade people.

This "I want him to choose to come back" is tricky. Just ensure that you are not self preserving for the sake of pride.

A friend of mine has Moon,Mercury,Venus in Libra. He is the initiator of apologies to his Moon in Scorpio boyfriend.

He has a love/hate feeling towards his relationship. Sometimes he loves being in a relationship. But sometimes he hates how many punches he must take for the sake of it.

I think for you both(I think more especially you), the partner (7th) feels like home(Moon). So a breakup can feel as painful as an actual divorce.

I hope your method works.

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