posted September 29, 2018 04:26 PM            

One of my most prominent romantic relationships that lasted many years began early May.

We got along swimmingly, were practically perfect for one and other, and the passion, intensity and pure love we felt for each other was amazing. It was serene, harmonious, affectionate, and very sweet. We were also, in a way, obsessed gluttons for each other.

posted September 30, 2018 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
My ex and I's started on Halloween lol

It was an intense, obsessive, sexual, toxic, and abusive relationship, super unhealthy
Basically all the Scorpio themes were present lol
But he's a natal Scorpio moon and I have Scorpio DSC with Pluto there as well, so we're naturally plutonic anyways (him in general, me in relationships)

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LOL Halloween! I'd dig that, myself, honestly. "Take me to your crypt, baby ;D" lol!

posted September 30, 2018 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
LOL Halloween! I'd dig that, myself, honestly. "Take me to your crypt, baby ;D" lol!

And since you mention Scorp DSC with Pluto there - I wonder, would you say you sometimes attract people (even if you don't get with them) who wish to harm you or even want to assault you?

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Haha yes! It was a fun night forsure
But, Yes I definitely attract interesting characters lol!
Most of the people close to me at some point betray me. Betrayal and jealousy has been a theme of my life with others. I’ve had more than once, a “friend” fake an entire friendship with me when they secretly didn’t like me the whole time and then later betray me after they got what they wanted from me. Which makes sense since Scorpio rules themes like this.
My ex was very secretive and would hide things from me and do things behind my back all the time as well. He betrayed me also lol

I hope I can manifest the positive aspects of my 7th one day and find someone really loyal, passionate and committed to me 👍

posted October 01, 2018 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Haha yes! It was a fun night forsure
But, Yes I definitely attract interesting characters lol!
Most of the people close to me at some point betray me. Betrayal and jealousy has been a theme of my life with others. I’ve had more than once, a “friend” fake an entire friendship with me when they secretly didn’t like me the whole time and then later betray me after they got what they wanted from me. Which makes sense since Scorpio rules themes like this.
My ex was very secretive and would hide things from me and do things behind my back all the time as well. He betrayed me also lol

I hope I can manifest the positive aspects of my 7th one day and find someone really loyal, passionate and committed to me 👍

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I can see how it plays out like that. I've got Pluto 7th in Scorp myself.

I think, for the most part, I've had the positive expressions of my dsc and Pluto there. This is with regards to actual relationships.
Though, I do attract liars and creeps, but I generally suss them out fast.

What I believe to be part of the cause of my own positive experiences in relationships is that I try to distance myself from the "love rush" or the obsession, or the extreme desires. They are STILL there, but I "pause" them and then ask myself a barrage of questions like "Do I want to engage with this person? If I do, what will become of us? Will this be a long term commitment? Can I trust this person yet? Have I tested them? Have we taken a long enough time to get to know each other?" etc etc.
I have lines of red tape, of high standards (not too unrealistic though), and I expect them to be met accordingly before I do anything or allow myself into the relationship.

I think I define my intentions and my wants, and set my other feelings aside until everything else is actually made clear. And with friendships, I always keep in mind "okay this may or may not last, this person may or may not betray me, but what happens, happens and I can deal with it, but I'll not hold back my own true feelings and intentions."

With love and friendships, I also hold off on giving toooo much, and even spending money, especially at first. If someone is okay with me never spending a dime on them for at least a year, then for me that's a good sign. And I also discourage them from spending much on me. Maybe a chocolate here or there lol but that's it. Dinners, I keep them even, and avoid owing anything. I try to make the relationship a "slow release" and then finally when I'm "sure", then I let the hot sexy obsessive love explode lol

So with this descendant, I think discipline and staying power is key (Capricorn) and a bit of distance from emotions and a sense of objectivity (11th and aqua). If their feelings for me fade, and if mine fade, after the first year, and not get stronger, then I'll deem it not worth my time. A year really isn't a long time, imo. Just gotta hold off the need for instant gratification.

But now that I DO remember, I did once have ONE quite sh**y relationship, and I actually forwent some of my "rules", which did lead to a crash and burn. And if I remember correctly, it may have started near November.
I wanted to murder him LOL

posted October 01, 2018 11:26 AM            

With my partner we started talking in March and we met in person around mid march so Pisces. I would describe our relationship more as Uranian and Jupiterian. It has expanded a lot more my scope of experiences and world views and has felt fun, comfortable, light and adventurous with its periodic upheavals/crisis that keep us on our toes yet we also enjoy a lot been at home and been domestic.

posted October 01, 2018 12:20 PM            

Then you can look at transits of the relationship chart, progressions etc. Make the relationship an actual "person"

I had a dating experience in 2015. Very short lived. And I expected a fickle Sun/Moon or Sun/Moon midpoint.

The chart of our relationship has a Sun/Moon opposition in Virgo/Pisces.

The midpoint in early Sag and it squared Jupiter in Virgo.That was definitely true. It was very easy.

When he broke it off abruptly,Saturn and Neptune were square its progressed Moon.

The one before had Sun/Moon midpoint in Virgo. And I did assist the ex concerned with getting his life in order. It was more "service oriented" and serious.

He broke off with me when transiting Venus was square the Midpoint. Also trans Saturn was square our relationship natal Sun.

This one was a surprise to me because I thought we'd "go the distance".

posted October 01, 2018 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

With my partner we started talking in March and we met in person around mid march so Pisces. I would describe our relationship more as Uranian and Jupiterian. It has expanded a lot more my scope of experiences and world views and has felt fun, comfortable, light and adventurous with its periodic upheavals/crisis that keep us on our toes yet we also enjoy a lot been at home and been domestic.

This guy I met May 8th I would describe our relationship sexual and about exploring my senses, I guess the Taurus theme fits there but I feel this is a coincidence given that the other two examples don't fit.

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I don't know about the "Virgo" one (perhaps taking a look at decans could help?) Though it was various stages, it seems, so again, perhaps a key there.

But as for the March relationship, those themes *could* be interpreted as a more positive manifestation of Pisces qualities.

posted October 01, 2018 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

I don't know about the "Virgo" one (perhaps taking a look at decans could help?) Though it was various stages, it seems, so again, perhaps a key there.

But as for the March relationship, those themes *could* be interpreted as a more positive manifestation of Pisces qualities.

Some also say Jupiter is a sub ruler of Pisces. You say you felt "expanded", again, it could work, as Pisces can be about dissolution of boundaries and helps us expand in its own way.

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Perhaps. Our composite chart ruler is Pisces/Neptune in Sag on my AC and our Davison chart ruler is Mercury in Pisces in the 7th on my Moon.