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Topic: The good, the bad and the ugly.
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Marandana
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 04, 2018 05:19 PM
  
Hello, I just met a guy a couple of months ago, everything has been going surprisinly good, but I dont know I still want your thoughts on the synastry (The good, the bad and the ugly) hehe our composite rocks but I'm not sure about the synystry. What's the most important? https://imgur.com/HSiYtbz [img]https://i.imgur.com/rLVKsNm.jpg[/img]
(Why is the pic not showing???)
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MMarie
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posted October 04, 2018 11:53 PM
Still learning but sun Conjunct moon and sun/Pluto are nice aspects! IP: Logged |
SeaGoat
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Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 05, 2018 11:10 AM
Moon conjunct south node. Mars conjunct IC, Mars conjunct DC. Who is who? IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 335
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posted October 08, 2018 04:37 PM
I'm blue, he's red  moon conjuct south node has a "fated" feeling/situation, right? Although I'm not sure for the rest (IC, DC) I still have trouble interpreting angles. The aspect I feel the most is the sun-moon conjuction, it's like a familiar feeling but still, deep down is kinda annoying cause sometimes I feel as if the relationship is taken for granted.IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 08, 2018 06:04 PM
Much familiarity IMO and charts are very similar. Not much complimentary friction. Could be "fated" could also mean you two are just very much alike and/or you knew each other in a past life. If you two ever explore more romance together, if it ends, it could turn into a good friendship. IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 335
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 08, 2018 06:14 PM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Could be "fated" could also mean you two are just very much alike and/or you knew each other in a past life. If you two ever explore more romance together, if it ends, it could turn into a good friendship.
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In a past life... I hope not lol I'm done with karma mates already hahaha Actually, that's another problem we have with this relationship. Cause at least I, personally, can't tell if the intimacy -or the bond- we share is because our close friendship or something more, cause sometimes we are so romantic with each other but other times we're good with just being friends, that was also the reason why I posted this chart too, cause it's confusing even for us, but I have to make it clear it's not like we are in a "friendzone" cause we just don't settle for being just friends, the romantic bond is also there.
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Marandana
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posted October 09, 2018 06:26 PM
any other opinion?IP: Logged |
Marandana
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posted October 14, 2018 02:09 PM
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 395
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted October 14, 2018 10:28 PM
Regarding the image not showing you need to use a different link on imgur - it's called Message Boards or something x
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Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 335
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posted October 15, 2018 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Regarding the image not showing you need to use a different link on imgur - it's called Message Boards or something x
It won't allow me to view the link you've currently posted from work
Yeah, but it doesn't work still  Either way, we're kinda breaking up already. Must be this Venus Rx. My relationships never work out more than a couple of months. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted October 16, 2018 07:16 AM
^ never say never IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 335
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 16, 2018 08:31 PM
Hahahaha I know, but the ones I’ve had so far 3 months and they are done, so sometimes I feel it will always be like that.IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted October 16, 2018 09:26 PM
Your moon was very alienated lol it’s only making hard aspects... that was probably the main issue. Just a lack of emotional understanding or affinity. You probably felt like he just didn’t get you or maybe you had a hard time feeling an emotional connection towards him, but that would be more so if it was unaspected; and your moon is aspected, actually in a t-square with moon, Pluto Venus which is actually pretty powerful given all the energies of these planets, but it’s again a hard aspect/pattern so it’s usually not sustainable since there’s a lack of harmony and affinity at the core.
His mercury also looks to be afflicted only making hard aspects (but I can’t see the degree of your moon sign.., could be making a wide trine to your moon) square Neptune and Uranus which again isn’t great for him feeling he could understand you or vice versa.
The sun moon conjunct in the 5th was nice though his sun and mercury also fall in your 5th so he definitely stimulated romantic feelings in you, but he doesn’t match your 7th house enough for you to really become attached or feel like he’s “the one” or have that intense fascination/attraction. Your venus (7th ruler) was nicely activated though which helped a bit, but he doesn’t have anything in Taurus or the 2nd house and I’d like to have seen more symbolism matching in his chart. I recommend you looking for someone with a personal planet in Leo or fire signs, and something in Taurus and some air as well.
A Taurus rising would be great for you, since your moon would fall in their 5th house as well. Or a cancer rising with Taurus moon, most of your cap/aqua planets would fall in their 7th/8th and their moon would be in your 7th and it’s also their ASC ruler so powerful attraction on your side of you could find a cancer rising with Taurus moon 👍 if they have a venus in Leo/Scorpio or maybe an Aqua sun or mars even better lol IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 335
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 16, 2018 10:47 PM
First of all, thank you lunascariout for taking your time to help me with this one <3 I appreciate.Now, I think our sun-moon conjuction actually give us a feeling of "familiarity" cause that's something I feel with him, yeah probably it's not the most emotional relationship ever, but I kinda feel an emotional support with him, and I know he feels the same, cause he used to come to me everytime he felt down or had weird depressing times (well not depression per se, but just sadness) but now that was exactly the problem that took us apart, I started to feel used, like he's just with me when he only needs some emotional support but when he doesn't need anything from me and feel okay with himself and is having fun, he doesn't even take time to answer my messages, so it started to bothering me. I still like him tho, I actually feel a connection with him, probably not a twin flame kind of connection, but a connection you have with someone whom you really vibe with and enjoy each other's company, like a best friend meets lovers kind of connection. Regarding my perfect matches hahaha it's weird cause I have never ever met a taurus man. I just don't attract taurus people, I don't know any besides my best friend, she's a taurus rising but it's the only person I know with taurus placements. My first "boyfriend" was a leo (we were more "friends with benefits" than a real couple, tho) and I didn't like his vibe at all, it was the most impersonal relationship I had, it was just sexual attraction but none emotional connection, the relationship had no depth.
I also went out with a sun & venus aquarius man, but we did not have any chemistry, I found him plain boring and probably he found me boring too, it didn't last further than 3 dates.
My two biggest lovers, the two men who so far have made a big impact in my life were libra with cappy moon and virgo rising and a scorpio with a gemini moon and saggitarius rising (both of these relationships lasted no longer than 3 months but still, they were significant) for some reason I don't stand cancer people (no offense to all lovely cancers on here, I'm sure a lot of you are really sweet) so... it's weird I think, or maybe I'm the weirdo haha IP: Logged |
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